SEX EDUCATION

Na_Mardi Ka Elaj

2009-09-19T10:36:00.000-07:00

Na_Mardi Ka Elaj

Es emkan ko khatam karna ka liye la-shaour nai enki help kari aur unko na-mard banadiya. Chunanchai na mubaashirat (Intercourse) hoga aur na hi beti paeda hogi. Magar Chund session ka baad woh bilkul normal hogai phir Allah nai enko baita bhi ata farmaya.

Na-Mardi Ka Elaj:

Elaj sey pahla yeh bat yad rahey ka jawani mein tanau (erection) ka masla taqreeban 100% nafsiyati hota hai. Specialy agar ap koi adviyat (medicine) use nahi kar rahey hain. Es silsilai mein ap apna la-shaour sey bhi puch saktey hain ka apka masla nafsiyati hai yeh medical yeh jismani. Agar apko kisi bhi waqt tanau (erection) hota hai specialy sleep kartey huey, Subha ka waqt to apko ko koi jismani beemari nahi bul kay apni na-mardi 100% apka zahan ki paidawar hai. Es hawaley sey ap post ki tickets wala test jiska pahla bhi zikar kara ja chukka hai usko bhi use kar saktey hain.

Sab sey pahla yeh bat zahan sey nikal dain ka ehtilam yeh bachpan ka ghalat kamon maslan mushtzani (masturbation) waghaira na apka jism ko koi nuqsan pohchaya hai. Puri duniya mein research sey yeh bat bar bar sabit ho chuki hai ka yeh chezain nuqsan deh nahi. Es masla ka hal ka liye adviyat (medicine) specialy hakeemon ka totkai bilkul bhi estimal na karain. Mustanad adviyat (medicine) maslan viagra waghaira bhi apna tor per use na karain. Adviyat (medicine) ka zyada arsai tak use khatra sey khali nahi. Merai kay client en medicines sey nuqsan utha chukain hain. Kisi bhi big hospital ka kidney ward ka visit karain to apko maloom hoga ka waha pa marezoon ki majority aisa nojawano per mushtamil hai jinhonai jinsi quwwat ka liye koi adviyat (medicine) specialy koi neem hakeemi nuskha estimal kara.

La_shaour Sey Raabta

Aik bar phir taqeed hai apna jinsi quwwat ko check karna ka liye kabhi zina ka kareeb na jain. Gunah ka elawa essai mohliq beemariyan lag jati hain. Iss ka elawa es koshish mein aksar insan ko nakami hoti hai aur phir insan ko yaqeen hojata hai ka woh jinsi tor per nakara ho chukka hai halankain woh bilkul fit hota hai.

La-shaour Sey Raabta:

Sab sey pahla ap apna la-shaour sey puchain ka apka masla jismani hai yeh medical yeh nafsiyati. La-shaour sey rabta karna ka liye aik ring ka sath 12 inch lamba thread tie karlain, thread ka end ko thumb aur index finger sey estarhan pakrain ka ring neechey ki taraf lataq rahi ho. Apki elbow table per ho. Yeh pendulum ban jaiga eski basic harqat 2 types ki hai. Right left yeh kareeb aur door. Sab sey pahla ap yes aur no ka esharai maloom karian. Iss ka liye ring ko latkatai huey apnna ap sey aik aisa sawal karain jiska jawab yes mein ho. Phir aik aisa sawal karain jiski jawab no mein ho. Maslan ring per nazar jamatai huey apna ap sey sawal karain ka kiya mein eswaqt Lahore mein ho (agar ap Lahore mein hain) essi sawal ko bar bar repeat karain hatta ka ring kisi aik direction mein harkat karna lagai. Agar na hilai to sawal ka sath dil mein yes yes kahain aur ring hilnai lagaigi estarhan apko maloom hojaiga ka apka liye apka yes ka la-shaouri eshara kiya hai phir ap apna ap sey aisa sawal karain jiska jawab no mein ho maslan ring ko bilkul still rakhtey howey sawal karain ka kiya mein es waqt

Na_Mardi Kay Elaj Ka Pehla Tareeqa

ice cream kha raha hon (joka ap nahi kah rahain hain) bar bar puchain. Sath hi dil mein no no kahain. Jald hi no ka liye ring move karna lagaigi. Yes aur no ka esharai samaj na ka baad ring ko hang kartey huey apna ap sey sawal karain ka mera masla (maslai ka barai mein sochain) nafsiyati hai? jawab ko 2 times check karain. Mazeed check karna ka liye dusra sawal puchain ka kiya mera masla jismani aur medical hai? Esko bhi 2 times check karain. La-shaour ka jawab 99% durust hota hai.

Na_Mardi Kay Elaj Ka Pehla Tareeqa:

Na-Mardi kay elaj kay silsilai mein buniyadi kam aik American Dr. William Master aur us ki biwi Jons nai kiya. Ab enka tareeqa mamoli radobadal kay sath puri duniya mein estimal horaha hai. Es waqt yeh sab sey popular aur kamiyab tareeqa elaj hai. Ap apnai tor per essai faida utha saktain hain.

Es mushq kay liye 20 sey 30 min rakhain.
Yeh mushq rozana karain.
Yeh mushq ap us waqt karain jab ap bohut pur sukoon hon.
Kisi pur sukoon jagha neem tareki mein bister per mukamal nude hoka lait jain.

5 5 min tak essi tarhan letey rahain.

6. 5 mints ka baad apna jism per hand phairna shuru kardain. Massage karain, Thapthapain, chutki lain. Ahista ahista mukkai marian, Es mushq mein apnai penis ko hand na lagain aur na hi eski taraf dehan laikar jain. Ap ki sari tawajah touch aur feelings per ho jo mushq ka doran mahsos karain. Es mushq ka maqsad tanau (erection) nahi. Es mushq mein ap puri dekhi hui blue film ka tasawur bhi soch saktain hain. Yeh bhi tasawur kar saktain hain ka koi pasandeda aurat ap ka jism per hand phair rahi hai. Yeh mushq musalsal 4 days karni hai.

7. 5^th day apnai hand ko chikna karain aur apna penis, testicles aur other parts ka darmiyan ki jagha ko stimulate karain. Khususan penis ki glans aur iss kay beroni ring aur topi ka nichlai hissai ko jaha topi aur shaft apas mein mil rahey hain. En per hand phairain. Massage karain, thapthapiyan aur bhenchain etc yeh apnai favourit tareeqai sey mastzani karain. Es doran yeh tasawur karain ka koi pasandeda aurat app ki mashtzani kar rahi hai. Es ka sath sabqa dekhai gai blue print ka tasawur karain. Yeh mushq rozana karain. Amoman aik week ka ander ander tanau (erection) paeda hojata hai. Taham aik week sey zyada waqt bhi lag sakta hai.

8. Es mushq ka doran jab tanau (erection) hojai to dehan kisi aur taraf lai jain takai tanau (erection) kam hojai. Es ka liye 100 sey ulti ginti gini ja sakti hai.tanau (erection) kam honay per phir mushtzani karain yaha tak ka phir tanau (erection) hojai. Tanau (erection) honay per phir dehan dosri taraf lai ja kar tanau (erection) kam karain. Eerection kam honay per phir mushtzani karain. Es tarhan 4 bar yeh mushq karain. Es Mushq mein anzal na ho, hojai to pareshan na hon. Mushq jari rakhain.

9. Usually 3 weeks mein tanau (erection) ana shuru hojata hai. Zyada waqt bhi lag sakta hai es doran pursokoon rahain. Ajkal yeh masla 100% qabil-e-elaj hai.

10. Es doran inzaal (ejaculation) wali mushtzani (masturbation) har giz na karain.

11. Mardana quwwat ko check karna ka liye zina na karain.

12. Agar 4 week ki mushq ka baad bhi tanau (erection) paeda na ho to phir dusra tareeqa estimal karain warna achai mahir-e-nafsiyat ko milain jo jinsi Masa'el ka mahir bhi ho. Doctors ki tarhan har mahir-e-nafsiyat jinsi Masa'el ka mahir nahi hota.

Eric Aid System:

Na-mardi ka elaj ka adviyat (medicine) kay baghair doosra kamiyab tareeqa eric aid system hai. Yeh system bazaar sey 2000 to 10000 tak mil jata hai. Jis shop sey ap yeh system kharedaingai woh shop keeper apko esko estimal karna ka tareeqa bhi bataiga. Yeh aik bohut hi effective aur safe tareeqa-e-elaj hai.

Exercise 20 to 30 mint tak karain.

Eric Aid System

Exercise 20 to 30 mint tak karain.
Yeh exercise rozana karain.
Exercise aisa waqt karain jab ap bohut pur sukoon hon. Es doran koi apko disturb na karain. Behter yeh hai ka ap rozana aik hi waqt per exercise karain.
System ki madat sey tanau (erection) paeda karain. Jab tanau (erection) complete hojai to 5 mints ka baad air kharij karkai tanau (erection) ko kam yeh khatam kardain. 1 to 2 mints ka baad phir tanau (erection) paeda karain. 5 mint ka baad air kharij kardain. 1 to 2 mint ka baad phir tanau (erection) paeda karain. 5 mint ka baad air kharij kardain. Es tarhan yeh exercise 4 times karain.
Yeh exercise apko daily 1 week tak karni hai. Exercise kay doran agar kabhi inzaal (ejaculation) hojai to pareshan nahi hona hai, aisa hojata hai.
8^th day system sey tanau (erection) paeda karna ka baad penis ki base per rubber ka ring charhadain jis sey tanau (erection) khatam nahi hogi. 15 mints ka baad ring utardain phir dekhain ka tanau (erection) kitni dair tak qaim rahta hai. Yeh exercise pura week jari rakhain.
3^rd week yahi exercise karain. 15 mints ka baad ring utardain. Tanau (erection) kam honay per oily hand sey mushtzani (masturbation) karain aur tanau (erection) ko zyada karian. Jab tanau (erection) zyada hojai to dehan kisi aur taraf lai jakar tanau (erection) ko kam karain. Tanau (erection) kaam honay per phir mushtzani (masturbation) karain. Tanau (erection) honay per phir tawajah kisi aur taraf laija kar tanau (erection) kam karian. Es tarhan 4 times mushtzani (masturbation) karain.
Mushtzani (masturbation) kartey huey yeh sochna bohut mufeed hoga ka koi pasandeda aurat apki mushtzani (masturbation) kar rahi hai. Essi tarhan pahla kabhi dekhai gai blue print ka tasawur karna bhi mufeed hoga. Es exercise mein inzaal (ejaculation) na ho. Inzaal (ejaculation) sey pahla ruk jain. Agar kabhi hojai to pareshan na hon. Exercise jari rakhain.
8. Pura week yeh exercise jari rakhain yeh uswaqt tak jari rakhain jab tak ap puri tarhan satisfied na hojain. (Zilbergled)
9. Es doran inzaal (ejaculation) wali mushtzani (masturbation) nahi karain.

10. Mardana quwwat ko check karna ka liye zina nahi karain.

Adviyat (medicine) Sey Elaj:

Viagra aur iss tarhan ki doosri adviyat bhi iss masley mein muasser hain magar 100% nahi. Viagra taqreeban 80% logon kay liye kamyaab hai. Viagra kay kaee side effects hain. Maslan headache, face ka red hojana, chakar ana, allergy, dysentery aur eye sights weak hojana etc. Viagra ka zyada aur continuous estimal nuqsan deh hai. Aik andazai ka mutabiq ab tak essai 30 death ho chukin hain. Viagra effective hai magar iss ka asar temporary hai aur yeh es maslai ka elaj nahi. Es tarhan ki adviyat (medicine) ka sath sath nafsiyati elaj bhi zarori hai. Yeh adviyat (medicine) 30 mints ka baad effective hotin hain aur iss ka asar 6 hours tak rahta hai. Yani khanai ka 4 hours kay baad kisi bhi waqt es sey faida uthaya ja sakta hai.

Na_Mardi Ki Ahem Wajoohaat

2009-09-19T10:35:00.000-07:00

Na_Mardi Ki Ahem Wajoohaat

· Jinsi hormone testosterone ki kami

· Hormones ka disturbance maslan Prolactin ki ziyatti.

· Thyroid ki karkardegi mein kami-beshi.

· Pait, Prostate yeh Pelvis ka cancer ka operation.

· Cholestrol ki ziyadti.

· Testes kay scrotum ki baaz beemarian.

· Kidney beemariyan.

· Pain ka khauf maslan joint pain.

Adviyat (medicine)

Bohut se adviyat (medicine) ka side effect ki wajha sey bhi yeh masla paeda hojata hai. Ahem adviyat (medicine) following hai.

· Antibitoics.

· Khoon pressure ki adviyat (medicine).

· Depression ki adviyat (medicine).

· Anxiety ki adviyat (medicine).

· Lithium.

· Stomach ki baaz adviyat (medicine).

· Heart beemariyan ki adviyat (medicine).

· Psychiatric drugs.

· Sedatives, Tranqulizers maslan valim waghaira

· Nasha awar ashiya maslan heroin waghaira.

Over Eating:

Zyada khana aur motapa bhi jinsi karkardegi mein kami ki aik wajha ban sakta hai. (Hyde: Kaplan: Bruce)

Chund Examples:

Aik naujawan surgeon jiski hal hi mein shadi hui thee, bohut pareshani ka alam mein mera pas aya. Eski biwi bhi doctor thee. Shadi ka baad aik month tak woh mubaashirat (Intercourse) na kar saka. Esko tanau (erection) hota tha magar jaisa hi biwi ka pas mubaashirat (Intercourse) ka liye jata iss ka tanau (erection) khatam hojata. Nafsiyati tajziya sey maloom howa ka surgeon sahib ka father ki death ho chuki thee.Enko apni mother sey bohut mohabbat thee. Woh abhi tak mother ka sath hi sotai thai. Jab shadi hui to lashaouri tor per unhonai har aurat ko jiska sath soya jai apni mother samaj liya. Mother kay sath kon mubaashirat (Intercourse) karta hai. Lehaza enka tanau (erection) mubaashirat (Intercourse) sey pahla khatam hojata. Uska la-shaour ko samjhaya gaya ka har aurat mother nahi hoti. Chund sessions ka baad enka masla khatam hogaya aur unhonai kamiyab mubaashirat (Intercourse) karliya aur aik achi aur khush gawar zindagi ka aghaz kara.

Chund year pahla aik naujawan waqeel na-mardi ka elaj ka liye tashreef lai. Shadi ka qai week baad tak mubaashirat (Intercourse) na kar sakai thai. Nafsiyati analysis sey malooom howa ka kuch arsa pahla woh apna apko check karna ka liye kisi prostitute ka pas gai. Dakhool (penetration) sey Chund lamha pahla enko aik dam khayal aya ka kahi enko es prostitute sey koi khatarnak beemari na lagjai yeh khayal atai hi enka tanau (erection) foran khatam hogaya. Ab lashaouri tor per enhonai apni biwi ko es aurat ki tarhan khatarnak samajh liye. Yeh aisa hi hai ka ap Lahore mein aik kutta bite karlai aur phi rap nasirf Lahore bul kay Islamabad ka kutton sey bhi khauf zada hongai. Chund session ka baad enka masla hal hogaya. Phir enkai 2 childrens bhi paeda hogai. To aik bar phir woh essi masla ka liye mera pas ai. Ab phir mubaashirat (Intercourse) sey pahla enka tanau (erection) khatam hojata aur woh mubaashirat (Intercourse) na karsaktai. Yeh sabit karna ka liye ka woh bilkul normal hain, biwi ka samnai mushtzani (masturbation) kartey. Nafsiyati analysis sey maloom howa ka enki 2 daughters theen aur ab enko khauf tha ka kahi beti paeda na hojai.

Na_Mardi (Impotency)

2009-09-19T10:31:00.002-07:00

Na_Mardi

Na_Mardi

(Impotency)

Kuch din pehley aik khatoon nai mujhai phone karka bataya ka eski shadi ko 8 years hochukai hain magar abhi tak mubaashirat (Intercourse) nahi howa. Husband koshish ka bawajood mubaashirat (Intercourse) mein naqam raha. Ab enhonai qabool karliya ka woh esqabil hi nahi. Wife nai husband ko elaj ka liye hamara pas bhejwaya. 5 sessions ka baad unhonai kamiyab mubaashirat (Intercourse) karliya. Har insan ko zindagi mein kabhi na kabhi yeh masla hojata hai. Es mein insan ko yeh to tanau (erection) nahi hoti yeh phir woh es tanau (erection) ko mubaashirat (Intercourse) ka liye barqarar nahi rakh sakta. Eski kay types hain:

Basically eski 2 bari types hain:

Primary Impotency
Secondary Impotency

Primary Impotency mein insan ko kabhi tanau (erection) nahi hota jabka secondary mein insan ko aam halat mein to tanau (erection) hota hai magar juhin woh mubaashirat (Intercourse) karna lagta hai to tanau (erection) khatam hojata hai. 52 years old ghulam fareed guzishta 4 years sey mubaashirat (Intercourse) nahi kar saka. Jab woh biwi ka sath fore play kar raha hota to esko khub tanau (erection) hota magar jab woh juhin mubaashirat (Intercourse) ka liye kaprey utarta, tanau (erection) khatam hojata.Mazeed Aqsaam:

Partial Impotency: Iss mein insan ko tanau (erection) hota hai magar iss mein zyada sakhti nahi hoti jiski wajha sey insan dakhool (penetration) mein nakam rehta hai.

Complete Impotency: Iss mein insan ko mamoli sa bhi tanau (erection) nahi hota.

Temporary Impotency: Iss mein insan ko kabhi tanau (erection) hota hai aur kabhi nahi hota. Biwi ka sath hoga magar kisi dusri aurat ka sath na hoga. Mera aik maroof client apni biwi ka sath bilkul normal hota tha magar kisi dusri aurat ka sath na-mard. Essi tarhan mera aik aur client biwi ka samnai mushtzani (masturbation) karta to bilkul normal hota magar intercoursre ki koshish karta to iss kay penis ka tanau (erection) khatam hojata.

Permanent Impotency: Iss mein insan ko kabhi bhi tanau (erection) nahi hota.

Na-mardi ka masla kafi aam hai magar pre-mature inzaal (ejaculation) sey kam hai. Aik survy sey maloom howa hai ka America mein 10% log kabhi na kabhi es maslai ka shikar hojatain hain. Agar koi shaks 4 to 5 times mubaashirat (Intercourse) mein nakam hojai to essai foran kisi mahir-e-nafsiyat sey rabta karna chahiya. Dair ki sorat mein maslai ko hal karna mushkil hojata hai. Jawani mein yeh masla taqreeban 100% nafsiyati hota hai. Jis insan ko kisi bhi waqt tanau (erection) hota hai woh bilkul normal hota hai. Agar insan ko shadeed beemari nahi to har mard ko raat sotey hoey 4 to 5 time tanau (erection) hota hai. Jo kay kuch minutes sey lay kar half hour tak rahta hai. Magar aksar logon ko iss ka ilm aur ahsas nahi hota.

Na_Mardi Ki Ahem Wajoohaat

Yeh log bilkul normal hotey hain aur enki na-mardi nafsiyati hoti hai. Yeh jannai ka liye ka apko rat ko sotai huey tanau (erection) hota hai yeh nahi aik sada sa test karain. Post office sey ticket kharedlain jo apas mein juri hui ho. Rat ko sotai huey waqt en tickets ko penis ki topi ka neechey penis ka charon taraf lapait dain aur sojain. Subha check karain agar yeh tickets alaida hogain hon to ap ko rat ko sotain huey theek thaak tanau (erection) howa hai aur ap bilkul normal hai. Nafsiyati elaj ka liye kisi mahir-e-nafsiyat sey milai jo mahir-e-jinsiyat bhi ho. Har mahir-e-nafsiyat es field mein mahir nahi hota.

40 years ka baad 15% logon ko yeh masla jismani hosakta hai. Yani kisi jismani beemari ki wajha sey penis mein pura khoon nahi jata. Jiski wajha sey insan ko tanau (erection) nahi hota. Es tarhan baaz adviyat (medicine) ka side effects ki wajha sey yeh masla paeda hojata hai jo ka adviyat (medicine) chorney ya change karney sey khud ba khud theek hojata hai.

Na-Mardi Ki Ahem Wajoohaat:

Na-Mardi ki bohut si wajoohaat mein sey kuch ahem wajoohaat yeh hain:

Mushtzani (masturbation) Kay Nuqsanat Ka Khauf:

26 year old khubsurat sehat mand imran ki shadi honay wali thee. Usay shak tha kay woh shadi kay qabil nahi. Jab iss kay la shaour ki madad say iss ka nafsiyati tajzia kiya gaya to pata chala kay woh bachpan mein kabhi kabhar khudlazzati/mushtzani (Mushtzani (masturbation)) karleta thaEs doran us ney aik pamphlet parha jis mein mushtzani (masturbation) kay bohut sey nuqsanat ka zikar tha. Writer nai es bat per bohut zor diya tha ka es say insan mardana kamzori ka shikar hojata hai aur shadi ka qabil nahi rahta hai. Es pamflat kay pharna ka baad woh mardana kamzori mahsos karna laga aur elaj ka liye aik hakeem ka pas gaya. Hakeem sahib na usko check kara aur zor daikar kaha ka woh jinsi tor pa bilkul khatam ho chukka hai. Uska baad uskai penis ka tanaoo bilkul khatam hogaya. Hamarai elaj ka Chund sessions ka bad woh bilkul normal hogaya. Hamara yaha namardigi ki sab say bari wajha mushtzani (masturbation) sey muzar asrat ka zikar khouf or daar hai. Jabka duniya bhar ki tahqeqat sey sabit ho chukka hai ka es ka kisi bhi tarha ka koi nuqsanat (disadvantages) nahi hain.

Maazi Ka Waqia (Past Experience):

50 sala rahmat guzishta 2 years sey mubaashirat nahi kar saka. Ussai aam halat mein tanao hota laikin jab bhi woh mubaashirat ki koshish karta tanao khatam hojata tha. Nafsiyati tajziya sey pata chala ka 2 sal qabal rat ko jab woh biwi ka sath mubaashirat kar raha tha ka achanak kisi bachai na darwaza knook kara to khouf sey uska tanaoo (Tanau (erection)) khatam hogaya. Uska baad uskai la-shaour mein yeh khouf beth gaya ka phir koi bacha darwaza na knook kardai. Us ka baad esi lashaouri ka khouf sey woh mubaashirat na kar saka.jiski wajah sey jinsi khwahish aur tanau (erection) kam hojata hai aur woh mubaashirat mein nakam hojata hai. Jab Zehni dabao ki wajha sey insan aik ya do baar mubaashirat mein nakam rehta hai to phir sharmindigi ki wajha sey biwi ka pas nahi jata hai jis ki wajha sey nasirf ghar ka mahool bohut tense hojata hai bul kay insan mustaqil tor per na-mardi ka shikar hojata hai. Halankai jis tarhan aik yeh doo bar khansi anai sey insan ko TB nahi hojati essi tarhan aik yeh doo bar tanao (tanau (erection)) na honay sey insan namard nahi hojata hai. Baz log mubaashirat ka zariya apna Zehni dabaoo khatam karlaitai hain.

Nakami Ka Khauf (Fear Of Failure)

Na-Mardi ki aik ahem wajha nakami ka khauf hota hai. Insan yeh samajhta hai kay bachpan ka ghalat kamo ki wajha sey woh jinsi tor per kamzor hai aur mubaashirat (Intercourse) nahi kar sakta. Essai shadeed khauf hota hai ka woh pahli rat nakam hojaiga. Phir woh jaisa sochta hai waisa hi hojata hai. Aksar nojawano ko khauf hota hai ka ensai mubaashirat (Intercourse) nahi hoga aur woh kamiyat nahi hongai. Chunanchai woh nakam hojatain hain. Bohut sey student exam ka khauf ki wajha sey bhar poor taiyari ka bawajood nakam hojatain hain.

Tashweesh (Anxiety):

Aaj ki duniya tashweesh ki duniya hai. Har shaks kisi na kisi tashweesh ya khatrat mein mubtila hai. Es tashweesh ki wajha sey baaz auqat insan ko tanau (erection) nahi hota aur tanau na honay ki wajha sey insan khaufzada hojata hai.

Doosrey din esko khuaf hota hai ka shayad aaj phir woh nakam hojaai aur es tashweesh aur khauf ki wajha sey woh phir nakam hojata hai. Es tarhan 1 ya 2 bar nakam honay per usko yaqeen hojata hai ka woh na-mard ho chuka hai.

Depression:

Depression aik fazool nafsiyati beemari hai jismai insan shadeed udasi, afsordigi aur tanhai mahsos karta hai. Kuch karna ko dil nahi chata, kuch acha nahi lagta. Es marz mein aksar marezon ki jenai aur jinsi khwahish khatam hojati hai. Jinsi khwahish ka khatmai ki wajha sey woh tanau (erection) mahsos nahi karta aur na-mardi ka shikar hojata hai. Chunanchai na-mardegi ki aik ahem wajha depression hai. Depression ki medicines bhi mardana kamzori ka reason hoti hai. Depression ki baaz adviyat (medicine) maslan Desyrel ka asar ulta hota hai yani yeh na-mardi ko khatam karti ahi.

Ahsas-e-Gunah (Guilt):

Naujawan wakeel ki jald shadi hona wali thee magar esko puri tarhan tanau (erection) nahi hota tha. Es naujawan ka ta'alluq aik mazhabi gharanai sey tha. Ab esko khauf tha ka woh shadi mein kamiyab n a hoga. Mubaashirat (Intercourse) na kar sakaiga. Nafsiyati tajziya sey maloom howa ka kuch year pahla usko kamsai kam 3 dafa zina karna ka moqa mila aur esnai zina ki koshish bhi kari magar lashaouri ahsas-e-gunah ki wajha sey esko tanau (erection) nahi howa aur woh nakam hogaya. Uska baad usko yaqeen hogaya ka woh mardana kamzori ka shikar hai.

Boriyat (Boredom)

Baz auqat na-mardi ki wajha bari dilchasp hoti hai. Baz log aik lamba arsa aik hi tareeqai sey azdewaji faraiz ada kartain hain. Wohi room, wohi sathi aur wohi tareeqa jiski wajha sey insan boriyat mahsos karta hai aur eski sex mein dilchaspi kam hojati hai. Dilchaspi kam honay sey tanau (erection) bhi mutasir hota hai.

Jinsi Amal Sey Perhaez

Agar arsa daraz tak jinsi amal sey perhaiz kara jai yeh insan ko jinsi amal ka moqa na milai to bhi insan ki jinsi karkartaqi mein kami ajati hai. Kyun ka insan apna jin aza ko estimal nahi karta unki karkardegi kam hojati hai.

Thakawat (Tiredness, Fatigue)

Aaj ka daur mehnat ka aur muqabley ka daur hai. Kamiyabi aur zinda rehney kay liye har insan sakht mehnat karta hai. Sakht mehnat kay baad raat ko jab woh ghar aata hai to thakawat sey choor ho chuka hota hai. Ab woh mukammal aaram chata hai. Es thakawat ki wajha sey aksar logon ki jinsi khwahish khatam hojati hai. Jinsi khwahish ki na hona ki wajha sey tanau (erection) hasil karna mushkil hojata hai. Aisi surat mein biwi ki khwahish per yeh apni marzi sey mubaashirat (Intercourse) ki koshish karta hai to nakam hojata hai. Dusri bar nakami ka khauf ki wajha sey nakam hokar mustaqil mardana kamzori ka mareez ban jata hai. Aisai afrad ko aam halat mein tanau (erection) hota hai magar mubaashirat (Intercourse) kay waqt nahi hota yeh dakhool (penetration) kay waqt khatam hojata hai.

En afrad mein sey kuch apni mardana quwwat ko check karnay kay liye kisi paishawar aurat kay pass jatey hain. Aap kabhi bhi aisa na karain. Kabhi mardana quwwat ko check karna ka liye kabhi zina na karain. Aik to yeh gunah-e-qabeera hai dusra iss mein khatarnak jinsi beemari lagna ka bharpoor chances mojood hotain hain. Teesrey es koshish mein fard phir nakami ka khauf sey nakam hojata hai. Aur es tarhan eski na-mardi sabit hojati hai. Halankai aisa fard bilkul normal hota hai aur essai nafsiyati elaj ki zarorat hoti hai.

Jinsi Beemari Ka Khauf:

Jinsi beemari ka khauf bhi insan ki jinsi karkardegi ko kam aur khatam kardaita hai. Mera aik mareez aik peshaawar aurat ka pas gaya. Junhi woh mubaashirat (Intercourse) shuru karna laga to foran usko khayal aya ka kahi esko AIDS na lag jai to foran iss ka tanau (erection) khatam hogaya. Phir woh taweel arsai tak es qabil hi na raha.

Sharab:

Sharab shuru mein insan ko jinsi tor per stimulate karti hai. Magar baad mein yeh tanau (erection) ko mutassir karti hai. Hatta ka zyada sharabnoshi insan ko na-mard bana kar uski azdawaji zindagi aur khushion ko khatam kardaiti hai.Cigarette Noshi:

Research sey yeh bat samnai ai hai ka cigarette smoking sey khoon vessels shrink hojatin hain jiski wajha sey penis ko munasib miqdaar mein khoon nahi milta jiski wajha sey insan ko tanau (erection) ka masla hojata hai. Aj kal cigarette smoking bhi na-mardi ki aik ahem wajha hai.

Trauma:

Sir aur back bone ka doosrey aur tesrai vertibra ko chot lagna sey bhi mardana quwwat kam yeh bilkul khatam hojati hai. Essi tarhan testes aur peeshab ki nali ki chot sey bhi yeh masla paeda hojata hai.

Diabetes:

Na-mardi ki jismani wajoohaat mein sab sey bari wajha sugar hai. Sugar kay taqreban 50% patients apni beemari ki wajha sey mardana quwwat mein kami ka shikar hojatain hain. Aj kal iss ka elaj bhi mushkil nahi raha.

Other Beemariyan:

Neechey degai tamam beemarion ki wajha sey yeh masla paeda hojata hai.

· Khoon ki nalion ki beemarian Vascular disorders maslan khoon pressure waghaira.

· Lever ki beemarian maslan Cirrhosis.

· Heart beemariyan.

Mardana Birth Control Ka Operation Aur Kamzori

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Mardana Birth Control Ka Operation Aur Kamzori

middle age ka log rozana 35 mins aur old age ka log kam sey kam 1 hour sex ka hawaley sey sochtain hain. Yeh aik normal cheez hai.

Mardana Birth Control Ka Operation Aur Mardana Kamzori:

Bohut sey logon ka khayal hai ka birth control ka silsilai mein karwai janai walai operation sey insan ki tanau (erection) mein kami hojati hai. Research sey sabit ho chukka hai ka es operation sey insan ki mardana quwwat per koi asar nahi parta bul kay pregnancy na hona ka khauf sey azad hokar insan ki jinsi performance zyada hojati hai. Albatta operation ka baad insan bacha paeda na kar sakaiga. Taham zororat ka mutabiq dubara operation ka zariya insan ko dubara fertile kara jasakta hai.

Mard Kabhi Burha Nahi Hota?

Aik kahawat mashoor hai ka Ghora aur mard kabhi burha nahi hotain. Agar apko kisi mahir-e-jinsiyat ka clinic ma jana ka etifaq ho to waha apko bold letters mein yeh likha howa zaror nazar aiga ka "Mard kabhi burha nahi hota---iss ka liye hamarai aik course ki zarorat hai" Neem hakeemoo ki sirf yahi aik bat sahi hai ka mard kabhi burha nahi hota. Yani agar aik mard ki general sehat theek hai to woh 100 years ki age tak yani martai dam tak jinsi kar kardagi aur bachai paeda karna ka ahal hota hai. (Hyde) iss ka liye apko kisi course ki zarorat nahi. Yaha bhi neem hakeemon ki sirf aadhi baat hi sahi hai.

Jinsi Khayalaat Aur Khwab

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Jinsi Khayalaat Aur Khwab

Yad rahey ka walk aur body building waghaira jaisi exercise testosterone mein ezafa nahi karti. (Bechtel)

Jinsi Khayalat Aur Khwab:

Baloghat mein dakhil hotey hi naujawano ko jinsi khwab aaney lagtey hain. Nojawano ka elawa aam logon ki aksariyat ko bhi biwi ka elawa doosrey mohtaram rishton maslan Mother, Father, Sister and brother, Beti waghaira ka hawaley sey jinsi khayalat, tasawurat aur khwab waghaira atai hain. Yeh aik normal bat hai gunah nahi.

Hadees: Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) nai farmaya: "Naiki ka sochna, iss ka liye jana aur phir naiki karna har aik ka liye alag alag sawab hai magar burai ka sochna aur iss ka liye jana koi gunah nahi. Gunah sirf burai karna ka hai". (Mobeen)

Bachai jab baligh hotain hain to unko jinsi khayalat anai lagtai hain jo doosrey logon ka elawa kareebi azezon maslan brother and sister, parents hatta ka apna bacho ka barai mein bhi asaktai hain. Bachai unko gunah samajhtain hain aur phir shaded ahsas-e-gunah ki wajha sey tension aur Zehni dabao, chircherah pan aur depression waghaira ka shikar hojatain hain. Es tarhan ka kahayal ka ana gunah nahi kyun ka yeh khayalat khudba khud attain hain. Yeh aik normal cheez hai.America mein bohut si researches sey maloom howa hai ka naujawan rozana taqreeban aik bar 10 mints ka liye sex ka barai mein zaror sochtain hain,

Jinsi Taqat Mein Izafa

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Jinsi Taqat Mein Izafa

Jinsi Tonic Aur Adviyat (medicine) Jinsi Taqat Mein Ezafa Karti Hain?

Yeh mafroza bhi bilkul ghalat hai. Kisi bhi qism ka sex tonic insan ki jinsi quwwat mein mustaqil izafa nahi karta. Sex tonic yeh adviyat (medicine) ka sexual strength kay sath directly koi ta'alluq nahi. Naam nehad sex tonic 3 tarah sey kam kartain hain.

Afioon ki tarhan insan ki mental state ko badal daitain hain jiski wajha sey inzaal (ejaculation) jaldi nahi hota.
Penis mein khoon circulation ko zyada kar daitain hain jis sey fard ko tanau (erection) hojata hai.
Penis ki nali mein irritation paeda kartain hain jis sey mard ko zyada lutf ata hai.

Doosrey alfaz mein koi bhi tonic yeh adviyat (medicine) sexual strength mein mustaqil ezafa nahi karti. Darmiyani age ka afrad ki jinsi desire aur performance ko zyada karna ka liye aik hormone testosterone estimal kara jata hai. Yeh bhi har insan ka liye suitable nahi. Yeh sirf en 5 % afrad ka liye mufeed hai jinka testosterone level kam hojata hai. Agar esko baghair zarorat ka liye jai to essai cancer hojanai ka emkan hai.

Issi tarhan baaz auqat penis mein papaverine ka injection laga kar bhi tanau (erection) paeda kari jati hai jo kay zyada dair tak bar qarar rahta hai. Agar yeh tanau (erection) 4 hours sey zyada rahey to khatarnak hota hai jissai insan mustaqil tor per na mard hosakta hai. Es sorat mein insan ko fori tor per medical help ki zarorat hoti hai.

Mardana Quwwat Ki Adviyat

Mardana quwwat ka liye jitni bhi adviyat (medicine) hain yeh sab penis mein khoon circulation ko zyada karka tanau (erection) paeda karti hain. Inn mein viagra khas kar ma'aroof hai. Yeh aik achi adviyat (medicine) hai magar yeh bhi khudba khud tanau (erection) paeda nahi karti bul kay iss ka liye sexual stimulation ki zarorat hai. Mardana quwwat ki adviyat (medicine) har fard ka liye suitable nahi. specially heart, kidneys, khoon pressure ka patients ka liye yeh mohliq hai. Viagra sey abtaq aik andazai ka mutabiq 30 death ho chukin hain. Iss ka elawa yeh adviyat (medicine) hamesha kamiyab nahi hoti hai. Viagra ki kamiyabi ka ratio 80% hai. Es hawaley sey ahtiyat ki zarorat hai. Sirf patent adviyat (medicine) hi estimal kari jain. Ajkal harbal adviyat (medicine) famous horahin hain. En adviyat (medicine) mein sey aksar mein viagra hi shamil hoti hai. Magar aksar adviyat (medicine) ka asar nafsiyati hota hai. Weekly Times ka mutabiq aik bar phir yeh sabit ho chuka hai ka 90% sex insan ka demagh mein hota hai chunacha aksar Masa'el aur enka hal nafsiyati hota hai.

Khoorak Aur Mardana Quwwat?

Mardon nai achi khoorak khaney kay bohut sey bahaney talash kar rakhain hain, aur khawateen barai shook sey enko yeh khoorak mohiya karti hain kyun ka jinsi amal dono ka liye sukoon ka bais hai. Hamara yaha har fard yeh samajhta hai ka khoorak ka mardana quwwat ka sath gahra ta'alluq hai. Iss ka liye hakeemon nai mardana quwwat ki khoorak ki achi khasi aik list banai hai maslan yeh khayal ka mubaashirat (Intercourse) sey pahla milk aur jalaibee aur fresh cream khana sey mardana quwwat mein ezafa hota hai aur mubaashirat (Intercourse) kay baad milk peeney sey tawanai ki kami puri hojati hai.

Mardana Quwwat

Khoorak kay hawaley sey bhi bohut research ho chuki hai magar abhi tak koi aisi khoorak discover nahi hosaki jo mardana quwwat mein ezafa karai albatta har woh khoorak jo general sehat ka liye achi ha wohi jinsi quwwat ka liye bhi mufeed hai essi tarhan woh khoorak jo sehat kay liye nuqsan deh hai woh jinsi sehat ka liye bhi nuqsaindai hai. Mardana quwwat ka liye low fat diet mufeed hai jo general sehat ka liye bhi mufeed hai. (Bechtel)

Sharab, Cigarette Aur Mardana Quwwat?

Bohut sey log aiyashi aur badkirdari ka liye sharab estimal kartain hain. Yani shabab aur sharab ko akhatha kartain hain. Enka khayal hai ka sharab jinsi khwahish aur mardana khuwat yani tanau (erection) mein ezafa karti hai. Sharab shuru mein kuch arsa thori miqdar mein jinsi lutf-o-soroor mein ezafa karti hai magar mustaqil estimal sey essai na sirf jinsi khwahish khatam hojati hai bul kay mardana quwwat bhi khatam hojati hai yani insan ko tanau (erection) nahi hoti. Essi tarhan cigarette smooking ki wajha sey khoon vessels shrink hojati hain jiski wajha sey penis ki nalion mein bhar poor khoon nahi jata jiski wajha sey bharpoor tanau (erection) nahi hoti. Research sey sabit ho chukka hai ka lamba arsa smooking aur sharab noshi insan ki mardana quwwat ko khatam kardaiti hai. (Dastoor: Zakir: Hyde: Bechtel)

Mardana Quwwat Mein IZafa

Neem hakeem dawa kartain hain ka yeh tala insan ki jinsi taqat ko zyada karti hai. Baaz neem hakeem penis ki over hauling ki purzoor shefarish kartain hain. Iss mein penis ka ooper koi dawa waghaira lagai jati hai. Mardana quwwat ka liye estimal hona wali adviyat (medicine) mein sey tala sab sey kam effective hai. Essai baaz logon ko tanau (erection) ajata hai. Aksar auqat es tanau (erection) ki wajha nafsiyati hoti hai naka tala ka asar. Baaz auqat iss mein harmfull adviyat (medicine) shamil hoti hain, behter yahi hai ka tala sey bacha jai.

Mardana Quwwat Mein Ezafa- Kaisey?

Badshah sey laikar aik aam mazdoor tak har shaks apni mardana quwwat mein ezafa chata hai. Iss ka liye lakhoo kharch karna aur har qurbani daina ka liye tayar hai. Shops mardana quwwat ki medicines sey bhari pari hain. Mardana quwwat ka ta'alluq mardana jinsi hormone testosterone ka sath hai. Agar ka bharnai aur stress waghaira sey es hormone ki production mein kami waqai hojati hai jinsai insan ki jinsi khwahish aur tanau (erection) mein kami ajati hai. Allah TALLAH nai har ahem cheez maslan air, water muft mohiya kari hai. Essi tarhan mardana quwwat ko zyada karna ka sab sey acha tareeqa bhi bilkul free hai. Research sey sabit ho chukka hai ka aerobic wali exercise maslan jogging, football, hockey, basketball, badmentan, cricket, table tennis, tennis etc sey testosterone mein ezafa hota hai. Chunancha mardana quwwat mein ezafa ka liye rozana 30 minutes ya phir week mein 3 time 1hour kay liye aerobics wali exercise kari jai.

Mardana Kamzori

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Mardana Kamzori

Agar koi old age insan taqreeban 60 days tak mubaashirat (Intercourse) sey mahroom rahey to phir shayad hi kabhi dubara mubaashirat (Intercourse) ka kabil ho sakai. Aik usul hai use it or loose it. (Hyde: Time)

Sur'at-e-Inzaal Mardana Kamzori Ki Alamat?

Aik research ka mutabiq America mein 75% mard 2.5 to 3.5 mints mein inzaal (ejaculation) hasil kar laitain hain magar bohut sey log half min mein hi ejaculate kar laitain hain. Hamara yaha premature inzaal (ejaculation) ka masla bohut aam hai. Aksar logon ka khayal hai ka premature inzaal (ejaculation) mardana aur jinsi kamzori ki alamat hai. Usually mardana taqat sey murad tanau (erection) liye jata hai. Mardon mein tanau (erection) ka system alag hai aur inzaal (ejaculation) ka alag. Dono ka apas mein koi link nahi. Logon ko tanau (erection) hota hai laikin inzaal (ejaculation) nahi hota. Dusri taraf kuch logon ko tanau (erection) nahi hota, magar inzaal (ejaculation) hojata hai. Lehaza premature inzaal (ejaculation) ka sabab mardana kamzori nahi eski wajha taqreeban hamesha nafsiyati hoti hai. (Hyde) Master and Johnson ki research sey maloom hota hai ka aisa logon ka pahla mubaashirat (Intercourse) jaldi mein karai gai hotain hain. Baad mein conditioning ki wajha sey adat ban jati hai. Iss ka hal mushilk nahi. Hamari agli book "Azdawaji Khushion" mein iss ka bohut sey hal batai jaingai. Waisa ham apna seminar/work shops mein bhi iss ka hal batatain hain. Yeh seminar Lahore mein aur Lahore sey bahir doosrey cities mein arrange karai jatain hain. Yeh seminar/work shop group ka elawa individually bhi kiya jasakta ha

Biwion Ki Azdawaji Zindagi Mein Adam Dilchaspi

2009-09-19T10:25:00.000-07:00

Biwion Ki Azdawaji Zindagi Mein Adam Dilchaspi

Darasal hamara yaha kadeem hakeemon ki wajha sey yeh bat aam mashoor hai ka mubaashirat (Intercourse) ka baad insan kamzor hojata hai. Aik experiment mein aik insan sey kahay gaya ka uski body sey kuch khoon nikalna hai jissai esko kuch kamzori mahsos hogi. Essai bed pa lita ka drip lagadi gai. Kuch dair baad esko bataya gaya ka khoon nikala ja chukka hai to woh mutawaqa kamzori ki wajha sey baihosh hogaya halankai iss ka jism sey aik drop khoon bhi nahi nikala gayatha. Dusri taraf different experiments sey sabit ho chukka hai ka mubaashirat (Intercourse) sey insan ko kamzori ka bajai tazgi aur sakoon milta hai. (Zakir: Mobeen)

Biwion Ki Azdawaji Zindagi Mein Adam Dilchaspi

28 years old Kashmala mera clinic mein ai. Woh married aur aik bachi ki maa thee. Kashmala nai bataya ka iss ka husband essai jinsi tor per satisfy nahi karpata. Shuru mein to esnai es problem ki taraf zyada dehan nahi diya magar ab woh adam etminan ki wajha sey sakht pareshan thee.

Humarey yahan aksar biwian azdawaji zindagi mein bharpoor dilchaspi nahi laitiin. Aik to mashriki sharam-o-haya jo ab khatam hoti jarahi hai, dusri jinsi adam etminan. Humrey yahan husband wife kay jinsi taqazon sey puri tarhan aagah nahi jiski wajha sey woh wife ko bharpoor jinsi lutf nahi daipatai. Bul kay aksariyat to enko satisfy nahi kar pati. Jiski wajha sey kuch talaq lailaitin hain, kuch ghumrah hojatin hain aur bohut bari ta'adad ghut ka reh jati hai. Jiski wajha sey ghar jahanum ban jata hai.

Kasrat_e_Mubaashirat

Aik shakhs ko electrician banney kay liye 4 years ki training ki zarorat hai magar husband banney kay liye woh koi training hasil nahi karta. jiski wajha sey woh shadi kay taqazon sey puri tarhan aagah nahi hota. Hamarey yahan 90% mard shadi kay lawazmaat sey bai khaber hain. Enhai yeh pata hi nahi kay biwi ko kis tarhan jinsi sukoon aur khushi dainii hai. Jiski wajha sey woh khud to har baar jinsi sukoon hasil karlaita hai magar biwi har bar mahroom rahti hai. Es wajha sey woh ahista ahista sex mein interest kho daiti hai kyun ka jab woh jinsi hijan ka baad orgasm hasil nahi kar pati to shadeed frustration ka shikar hojati hai aur esko normal honay mein kay hours lag jatain hain. Chunkai woh har bar es azab sey guzarti hai isliye woh na sirf sex mein dilchaspi nahi laiti bul kay avoid karti hai. Agar wife ko bhi jinsi sukoon hasil ho to woh sex mein bharpoor shirkat karti hai yeh kamazkam avoid nahi karti hai. Isliye har mard ka liye zarori hai ka woh es hawaley sey zarori knowledge hasil karai. Aurat ko satisfy karna bohut hi asan hai agar apko pata ho ka kaisa? Yeh knowledge daina ka liye ham Lahore aur doosrey cities mein aik seminar arrange kartey hain. Iss mein shirkat karka ap na sirf har bar biwi ko satisfy kar sakaingai bul kay ap essai bharpoor jinsi lutf dai sakaingai. Yeh knowledge individually bhi hasil kari jasakti hai.

Kasrat_e_Mubaashirat (Intercourse) Nuqsandeh Hai?

Awam ki aksariyat ka khayal hai ka mubaashirat (Intercourse) ki ziyadti nuqsan deh hai. Puranai hakeemon ka khayal tha ka insan ko sari zindagi mein aik hi bar mubaashirat (Intercourse) karna chahiya. Yeh phir year mein aik baar (Aik sahib likhtai hain ka year mein 1 bar sey zyada mubaashirat (Intercourse) karna apni qaber khoodna ka baraber hai)

Kasrat_e_Mubaashirat

ya phir aik month mein aik bar aur agar insan bilkul hi control nahi kar sakta to week mein aik bar sey zyada mubaashirat (Intercourse) kisi bhi surat mein nahi karna chahiya kyun ka mani (semen) taqat hai, khoon sey bhi zyada qeemti lihaza iss ka zyada ekhraj sey insan kamzor hojata hai.

Neem hakeemon ka khayal hai ka zyada mubaashirat (Intercourse) karna sey jism ko tarhan tarhan ki beemariyan lag jati hain, jism dhal jata hai. Quwwat kamzor hojati hai. Asab dhelai par jatain hain. Essai pura jism mutasir hota hai. Specially demagh sab sey zyada mutassir hota hai (Americans zyada mubaashirat (Intercourse) karna ka bawajood elm mein sari duniya sey agai hain) iss ka elawa tremors (Resha), paralysis (Falij), Tetnus (Tashanuj), Weak Eyesight, Vertigo (Chakar ana), Backache, Kidney pain, Polyuria (Zyada peeshab ana), Gastric disturbance, Heart beemariyan, Chest beemariyan etc paeda hosaktai hain. Yeh sab kuch ghalat hai. Eski koi haqeeqat nahi. Research sey kuch bhi sabit nahi howa. (Mobeen: Hyde) kiya zyada bolna sey zaban kamzor hojati hai yeh zyada thokna sey insan kamzor hojata hai. Hafiz-ibn-qaim nai farmaya tha ka agar pani na nikala jai to qua khushk hojata hai. Mubaashirat (Intercourse) chahai kitna hi kyun na ho nuqsan deh nahi. Aik din mein 10 times kara jasakta hai. Mera aik client aik din mein 8 times karlaita tha. Aik aur client nai shadi ka pahla 2 years rozana 4 to 5 times mubaashirat (Intercourse) kara aur next ten years mein esna koi nagha nahi kara. Sirf mensis ka doran avoid kara. Mera aik aur naujawan client nai half hour mein 3 times mubaashirat (Intercourse) kara.

Es hawaley sey aik ahem bat yeh hai ka jo log jawani mein zyada mubaashirat (Intercourse) kartey hain woh old age mein jinsi tor per zyada active hotey hain.

Jawani Mein Zyada Fa’aal Zindagi

Agar aik shakhs jawani mein aik month mein aik bar mubaashirat (Intercourse) karaiga to woh shaks old age mein year mein aik bar hi kar sakaiga. Es hawaley sey sada usul yeh hai ka ap jitna mubaashirat (Intercourse) kartain hain etna hi zyada kar sakaingai. Weekly Time January 2004 mein aik research article published howa hai jissai malum hota hai ka woh shaks jo week mein 2 times yeh zyada mubaashirat (Intercourse) kartain hain enki azdawaji zindagi zyada khushgawar hoti hai. Enki general sehat better aur age lambi hoti hai. Heart attack ka ratio mein 50% kami ajati hai. Enki resistance power zyada hojati hai. Dard ko bardasht karna ki ability mein ezafa hojata hai. Active sexual life na sirf depression ko kam karti hai bul kay insan kay kisim ka cancers (aurton mein Breast cancer aur mardon mein prostate cancer) sey bhi mahfooz hojata hai. Waisa maroof researcher Kinsey ka mutabiq America ma mubaashirat (Intercourse) ki average 3.35/per week hai. Iss ka bawajood logon ki general sehat bohut achi aur age taweel hai.

Jawani Mein Zyada Fa'aal Zindagi---Burhapey Mein Mardana Kamzori?

Hamrey yahan buzurg naujawan nasal ko different tareeqon sey mubaashirat (Intercourse) mein miyana rawi ekhtiyar karna ki talqeen kartain hain. Enka khayal hai ka agar jawani mein zyada mubaashirat (Intercourse) kara jai too y ah insan ko kamzor kardaita hai aur jab yeh shaks old age mein dakhil hota hai to eski jinsi salahiyat kam hojati hai aur es mardana kamzori ki wajha sey 50 years ki age ka baad woh mubaashirat (Intercourse) ka qabil nahi rahta. Halankai haqeeqat bilkul ulat hai, Yani 60 years ka baad woh log jinsi tor per active hosaktain hain jo jawani mein zyada active hon.

Mubaashirat Aur Umer

Research sey maloom howa hai ka jawani mein zyada mubaashirat (Intercourse) karna walai afrad 60 years ki age ka baad bhi week mein kamsai kam aik bar mubaashirat (Intercourse) kar laitain hain aur woh afrad jo jawani mein week mein aik bar mubaashirat (Intercourse) kartain hain, woh old age mein monthly aik bar bamushkil mubaashirat (Intercourse) sey lutf andooz hosaktain hain. Lehaza agar ap 60 years ka baad sex sey bharpoor lutf andooz hona chatain hain to apko jawani mein week mein aik bar sey zyada mubaashirat (Intercourse) karna hoga. (Hyde: Master And Johnson)

2 Baar Mubaashirat (Intercourse) Sey 1 Saal Umer Kam Hojati Hai?

Hamid mera aik naujawan marez tha. Jiski hal hi mein shadi hui. 4 months guzarnai ka bawajood woh abhi tak mubaashirat (Intercourse) na kar saka. Shuru mein hamid ko mardana kamzori ka masla tha. Baad mein woh theek hogaya to phir biwi ka maslai ki wajha sey azdawaji taluqat qaim na kar saka. Juhi hamid mubaashirat (Intercourse) ki koshish karta eski biwi ka sara jism akar jata aur eski vagina ka mu bilkul band hojata aur hamid dakhool (penetration) na kar sakta. Aurton ki es beemari ko vaginismus kaha jata hai. Talaq tak ki nobat pohoch gai. Magar hamarai 5 sessions ka baad inka kam hogaya. Uski biwi yahi lafz estimal karti hai. Aik session mein hamid nai mujh sey puch ka ab 2 bar mubaashirat (Intercourse) karna sey insan ki age 1 year kam hojati hai. Maina pucha ka tumko kisna bataya. Es na kaha ka iss ka walid na esko musalsal 2 bar mubaashirat (Intercourse) karna sey mana kara hai kyun ka essai age kam hojati hai. Yeh bhi aik namaqul maqroza hai.

Jinsi Jazbaat Aur Jinsi Quwwat

Jiski koi scientific koi haqeeqat nahi. Aksar naujawan shadi ka initial months mein aik rat mein 3 to 4 times mubaashirat (Intercourse) kar laitain hain jis sey kisi tarhan ka koi nuqsan nahi hota. (Mobeen: Hyde)

Mubaashirat (Intercourse) Jitni Kam, Umer Utni Zyada?

Hamarey yaha aik dilichasp misconception hai ka husband wife jitna kam mubaashirat (Intercourse) karaingai enki age utni hi lambi hogi. Doosrey alfaz mein mubaashirat (Intercourse) jitna zyada hoga ages utni hi kam hojaingi. Hamara yaha zyada tar essi usul per amal kara jata hai aur mubaashirat (Intercourse) sey parhaiz karka age ko zyada karna ki koshish kari jati hai. Phir bhi hamara yaha average age 56 sey agai nahi bharti hai. Dusri taraf developed countries mein hamara muqabley mein bohut zyada mubaashirat (Intercourse) hota hai magar waha per average age 70 years sey zyada hai. West mein es mozo per bohut research ho chuki hai. Jis sey yeh dilchasp haqeeqat samnai ai hai ka woh log jo kam mubaashirat (Intercourse) kartey hai enki age enlogon sey kam hai jo zyada mubaashirat (Intercourse) kartey hain. (Time)

60 Saal Kay Baad Jinsi Jazbaat Aur Jinsi Quwwat Khatam Hojati Hai?

Doosrey bohut sey mafrozon ki tarhan yeh bhi aik nehayat ghalat aur ahmaqana mafroza hai jiski koi haqeeqat nahi. Age bharna ka sath sath insan ki jinsi amal mein kuch tabdeliyan ajati hain. Taham agar insan ki general sehat theek hai to woh martai dam tak mubaashirat (Intercourse) ka qabil hota hai. Famous actor Charlie Chapran 80 years ki age mein aik week mein 3 yeh 4 bar mubaashirat (Intercourse) sey luft andooz hota tha.

Jinsi Jazbaat Aur Jinsi Quwwat

Hite ki report sey bhi yeh bat samnai ai hai ka baaz 80 years ka mard aik week mein 4 to 5 times mubaashirat (Intercourse) kar laitain hain. Aik aur survey sey malum howa hai ka 37% old age Americans week mein 1 bar mubaashirat (Intercourse) zaror kartain hain. Baaz mard 60 years ki age ka baad aik din mein 2 bar bhi mubaashirat (Intercourse) karlaitain hain. Aik sey zyada researches sey yeh bat samnai ai hai ka aam log old age mein sex sey zyada lutf andooz hotain hain. (Hyde) albatta bhurapai mein tanau (erection) zara dair sey hota hai. Naujawan aadmi 3 to 5 sec mein tanau (erection) hasil karlaita hai. Jabka 50 years ki age mein tanau (erection) ka liye dugna time aur 70 years ki age mein 3 guna time chahiya. Baaz auqat biwi ko husband ka penis ko stimulate karna parta hai. Tanau (erection) bhi jawani ki nisbat kam hota hai magar insan dakhool (penetration) ka qabil hota hai. Achi bat yeh hai ka insan ko inzaal (ejaculation) per nisbatan zyada control hota hai. Baz auqat inzaal (ejaculation) hota hi nahi. Yeh sab kuch normal hai. Es tarhan aurton ka vagina mein secretion zara dair sey ati hain jo ka jawani mein jald ajatin hain.

Old age mein mardon aur aurton ka jinsi hormones ki miqdaar 30 years ki age ka muqabilai mein kam hojati hai. Jinsi hormone ki kami ki wajha sey insan ki jinsi khuaish aur tanau (erection) mein qadrai kami hojati hai. Magar yeh hormone kabhi khatam nahi hotey aur insan martai dam tak mubaashirat (Intercourse) aur bachai paeda karna ka qabil hota hai. (Hyde) albatta 5% mardon kay jinsi hormone testosterone ki kami zara zyada hojati hai jiski wajha sey enhai tanau (erection) nahi hota.

Burhapa Aur Jinsi Zindagi

Yeh kami testosterone laikar puri kari jasakti hai. Magar es hormone ka baghair kami ka laina nuqsan deh hota hai. Aik recent research ka mutabiq 80% sey zyada age ka healthy afrad mein 65% mard aur 30% aurtein jinsi tor per active hai. (Hyde)

Kiya Boorhon Ko Sex Ki Zaroorat Nahi?

Meray aik sathi mahir-e-nafsiyat Syed Sabir Hussain nai apna aik case mera sath discuss kara. Barai miyan shadeed tanhai aur depression ka shikar thai. Nafsiyati elaj ka doran maloom howa ka enki biwi bhi hayat hain aur essi ghar mein mojood hain magar dono alag alag rooms mein sotain hain aur dono tanhai ka shikar hai. Hamra yaha batqismati sey samjha jata hai ka old age parents ko sex ki zarorat nahi. Jiski wajha sey en becharon ko mubaashirat (Intercourse) ka liye tanhai nahi milti. Awal to dono ko alag rooms mein sona parta hai yeh phir maa aik son ka pas rahti hai aur father doosrey son ka pas. Estarhan dono na sirf jinsi luft sey mahroom rahtain hain bul kay shadeed tanhai ka shikar hoka waqt sey pahla hi moot ki wadi mein gum hojatain hain. Bohut si researches sey yeh bat sabit hochuki hai ka old age logon ko bhi aam jawano ki tarhan sex ki zarorat hai. Kyun ka bharpoor jinsi zindagi sey na sirif sehat behter hoti hai bul kay age mein bhi ezafa hota hai. Iss ka elawa mardon mein arthritis, prostate aur heart attack ka Masa'el bhi kam hojatain hain. Lehaza zehni sukoon, achi sehat aur lambi umer kay liye old age logon ko week mein aik bar zaror mubaashirat (Intercourse) sey luft andooz hona chahiya.

Qatrey

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Qatrey

Qatrey (Drops):

Aksar naujawan qatron ki shikayat kartey hain. Aisey naujawan na sirf kamzori mehsoos kartey hain bul kay kapron ko napak samajh kar namaz nahi parhtey hain. Yeh qatrey (drops) kiya hain? Jab bhi koi shaks specially unmarried naujawan sex ka hawaley sey sochta hai, tasawur karta hai yeh jinsi bat suntan hai yeh koi jinsi book pharta hai. Nude picture dekhta hai yeh jins-e-mukhalif ko dekhta yeh essai bat karta hai to jinsi haejan ki wajha sey iss ka penis sey white laizdar liquid kharij hota hai. Yeh liquid kabhi tanau (erection) ka sath kharij hota hai jabka aksar shawat aur tanau (erection) ka baghair hi kharij hota hai. Yeh essi tarhan hai jistarhan methai ko dekh kar insan ka mu mein pani bhar ata hai. Mani (semen) ki thailiyan usually 3.5 days ka baad bhar jatin hain aur agar kay din mani (semen) ka ekhraj na ho to mamoli jinsi hijan ki wajha sey yeh thailiyan sukar kar mani (semen) ka 1 yeh 2 qatrey (drops) baghair lutf kay kharij kar daitin hain. Yeh koi beemari yeh khatarnak cheez nahi aur na hi iss ka kisi bhi tarhan ka koi nuqsanat hain. Kyun ka mani (semen) koi qeemti cheez nahi. Thook jitni qeemti hai.

Aksar yeh qatrey (drops) mani (semen) ka bajai prostate glands sey nikalna wala liquid hota hai. Yeh liquid kisi ka zyada aur kisi ka kam nikalta hai. Essi tarhan yeh liquid ki shaks ka ghara aur kisi ka patla hota hai. Kuch neem hakeem esko bhi jariyan kahtain hain aur nojawano ko baihad khaufzada kartain hain ka essai naujawan jinsi tor per kamzor hojata hai aur shadi ka qabil nahi rahta. Research sey maloom howa hai ka yeh liquid aik khas hikmat kay tehet kharij hota hai. Kyun kay insan jab bhi sex kay hawaley sey sochta hai to agla qadam mubaashirat (Intercourse) hi hota hai. Qudrat insan ko es kam kay liye tayyar kar daiti hai aur kuch chekna material nikal kar penis kay munh per aa jata hai jo bator lubricant kaam karta hai jiski wajha sey penis ka munh chekna hojata hai jissai dakhool (penetration) aasan hojata hai. Research sey yeh bat bhi sabit ho chuki hai kay es liquid ka ekhraj kisi bhi tarhan sey nuqsan deh nahi.

Iss ka elawa zyada jinsi haejan mein inzaal (ejaculation) sey pahla 1 yeh 2 qatrey (drops) clear liquid ka bhi kharij hotain hain. Yeh mani (semen) nahi hota bul kay Cowper's gland sey nikalna wala liquid hota hai jisko qudrat aik aur khas maqsad ka tahat inzaal (ejaculation) sey pahla kharij karti hai. Penis ki nali mein peeshab ki wajha sey sakht acidity paeda hojati hai aur agar es acidity ko khatam karai baghair hi mani (semen) kharij hojoai to acidity ki wajha sey sperms mar jain aur bachai ki paedaesh na ho. Lehaza yeh material peeshab ki nali ki acidity ko khatam karta hai. Iss ka elawa yeh material peeshab ki nali ko bhi chekna kardaita hai jiski wajha sey mani (semen) ka inzaal (ejaculation) easy hojati hai. Warna thek mani (semen) ka ekhraj mushkil aur lutf ka bajai jismani takleef ka baiz ban jai. Baz auqat bazahir baghair kisi jinsi hijan ka bhi yeh material kharij hojata hai. Aisi surat mein jinsi haejan laashaori hota hai jinsai insan agha nahi hota magar iss ka reaction mein liquid kharij hojata hai. Yeh bhi koi beemari nahi hai magar neem hakeemoon ka zaberdast propaganda ki wajha sey naujawan esko beemari samajh laitain hain aur phir kamzori mahsos karna lagtai hain kyun ka insan jaisa sochta hai waisa hi hojata hai.

(Zakir:Mobeen:Kothari)

Peeshab Kay Qatrey

Chu'nkay mani (semen) aur urine ka ekhraj ki aik hi nali hai chunachai jinsi tor per stimulate hona per urine sey pahley aur baad white material ka ekhraj aik normal process hai na kay koi beemari. Es liye es silsila mein fikar mand hona ki koi zarorat nahi. Albatta agar sexual stimulation mein yeh liquid kharij nahi hota to yeh bat fikar ki hai.

Es hawaley sey aik aur ahem bat zahan mein rahey ka en qatrey (drops) sey kaprey napak nahi hotey aur na hi essai ghussul farz hojata hai. En qatrey (drops) ka baad penis ko wash karlaina kafi hai. Dress ko dhonai ki zarorat nahi. Enper sirf water spray kardiya jai aur ghussal ka bajai sirf wazoo karliya jai. Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) kay aik sahabi ko yeh masla tha to Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) sey masla pucha gaya. Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) nai farmaya kay uzoo ko dhokar, kapron per water spray karliya jai aur wazo karliya jai. (Muslim). En katron ko usually mazzi kaha jata hai.

Peeshab Kay Qatrey (drops) Girna:

Kuch naujawan peeshab karney kay baad qatrey (drops) aaney ki shikayat kartey hain. Darasal urine ki nali na sirf lambi hoti hai bul kay sedhi nahi hoti bul kay eski shakal English ka letter S jaisi hoti hai, jis naujawan ki yeh nali zara zyada curve hoto iss ka nechlai hissai mein urine ka kuch qatrey (drops) reh jatain hain. Yeh bhi koi beemari nahi aur na hi eskaa elaj ki zarorat hai. (Zakir:Mobeen). Es masla ko hal karnay ka aasan tareeqa yeh hai ka urine pas karna ka baad kuch second intizar karain taqai sara urine achi tarhan kharij hojai.

Qatrey Girna Aur Hal

Aik aur tareeqa yeh hai ka urine pas karna ka baad left hand ki fingers sey testis ko thora sa ooper uthain aur phir urine ki nali ko bilkul root sey dabaya jai, dabatai dabatai tip tak pohoch jain. Es process ko 2 to 3 time repeat karain phir penis ko water sey wash karlain. Qatrey (drops) anai band hojaingai. Urine sey kaprey napak hojatain hain. Qatrey (drops) ki sorat mein pak hona ka liye wazo ka baad makhsoos jagha kapron per water spray karliya jai. (Sahi Muslim).

Qatrey (drops) kay masley ko hull karney kay liye kegel exercise ki mushq ji jaey. Es masley kay hull ka yeh aik bohut muasser tareeqa hai. Iss exercise mein urine aur stool ko rokney waley muscles ki mushq ki jati hai. Iss sey na sirf premature inzaal (ejaculation) ka masla hull hojata hai bul kay baaz logon ka penis bhi mota hojata hai. Mushq ka liye aik bar washroom jain urine pas karain, darmiyan mein 3 sec ka liye urine ko roklain phir chordain. Phir 3 sec ka liye rokain aur chordain. Es tarhan 10 mints tak yeh mushq karain aur note karain ka woh konsai muscles hain jinko contract kar ka ap urine ko roktain hain. Iss ka baad washroom jai baghair en muscles ko contract karna ki din mein three time subhai, dupahir aur sham mushq karain. First week mein 5 times, 3 seconds ka liye muscles ko contract karna hai. Waqt ka andaza karna ka liye watch use karna ki zarorat nahi bul kay 3 times "1001,1002,1003" count karain 3 seconds hojaingai. 2^nd week mein yahi mushq 10 times, 5sec ka liye karain. 3^rd week mein 15 times aur 10 sec ka liye mushq ki jai. 4^th week 20,10 times aur 15 sec ka liye,5^th week 20,20 times aur 20,20sec ka liye yeh mushq ki jai. 6^th week bhi yahi mushq karain.

Jinsi Kamzori Ki Alamat

Usually 6^th week ka baad na sirf qatrey (drops) ana band hojatey hain bul kay insan ko inzaal (ejaculation) per bhi control hojata hai. Aur phir hasb-e-zarorat junhi muscles ko contract kara jaiga inzaal (ejaculation) ruk jaiga. 2weeks ki mushq ka baad inzaal (ejaculation) bohut purlutf hojata hai. Iss ka elawa yeh mushq digestive system ko bhi behtar karti hai.

Baaz auqat qatrey (drops) nikaltey hi nahi kyun ka check karna per kaprey khushk hotain hain. es sorat mein insan ko qatrey (drops) nikalna ka sirf ahsas aur waham hota hai jabka qatrey (drops) nikaltey nahi. Agar yeh waham zyada ho to phir kisi psychiatirist sey elaj karain kyun ka yeh aik beemari hai jisko OCD kaha jata hai. (Mobeen).

Peeshab Ka Doodhiya-Pan Jinsi Kamzori Ki Alamat Hai:

Aik naujawan ka peeshab doodhiya hogaya aur essai yaqeen hogaya ka woh es wajha sey jinsi tor per kamzor hogaya, kyun ka neem hakeem esko shadeed jinsi beemari aur kamzori batakar nojawano ko khaufzada kartain hain. Us naujawan nai aik maroof homeo doctor sey elaj karaya magar kuch farkh na para. Es toran uski biwi usko chorka hamesha ka liye chali gai. Halankai es doodhiya pan ka sex aur mardana quwwat ka sath koi ta'alluq nahi. Neem hakeemo ka khayal hai ka yeh mani (semen) hai jo peeshab mein shamil hokar bai rahi hai aur chonkai mani (semen) khoon sey bhi zyada kemti hai lihaza es doodhiya pan ki wajha sey insan jismani aur jinsi tor per kamzor hojata hai. Yeh aik nihayat ghalat bat aur jehalat hai kyun ka mani (semen) aur peeshab kabhi akhatai nahi hosaktai, aam halat mein peeshab ki nali ka mu'nh band hota hai aur yeh sirf uss waqt khulta hai jab insan ko peeshab karna ho.

Jiryan Ki Mafrooza Tabaahkariyan

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Jiryan Ki Mafrooza Tabaahkariyan

Jiryan Ki Mafrooza Tabaahkariyan:

Jiryan kay hawaley sey mukhtalif logon ney ghalat fehmiyan phaelaee hui hain jin ka haqeeqat kay sath koi ta'alluq nahi.

Homeo doctor Ali Asghar Choudri apni book mein farmatain hain ka jariyan sey:

Demagh kamzor hojata hai. Parhney ko dil nahi chahta aur pharnai ka bawajood kuch yad nahi hota.
Eye sight kamzor honay lagti hai.
Nerves kamzor hojati hain. Tarhan tarhan ka khouf tari hojatai hain. Zara zara si bat per ghabrahat hoti hai. Dil dharakta hai aur eyes kay agai andhera ajata hai.
Chusti chalaki khatam hojati hai. Chara baironak hojata hai. Badan sust aur kamzor hona lagta hai. Zara si mahnat mushaqat per badan thak ka choor hojata hai.
Kisi kam ko dil nahi chata.
Legs aur kamar mein dard hona lagta hai.
Susti aur udasi cha jati hai.
Mezaj mein chirchira pan paeda hona lagta hai.9. Ahsas-e-kamtari tari hojati hai aur kisi sey ankh mila ka bat karna ka hosla nahi rahta.
10. Gatherings mein janai sey khouf sa mahsos hota hai.

Mani (semen) johr-e-hayat hai iss ka zaya honay sey zindagi ka charagh timtimanai lagta hai aur eski roshni kam hona lagti hai.

Yeh Sab Ghalat Hai:

Agar ap kabhi Sunday ka news papers ka ads aur dewari ads ka jaiza lain to mahsos hoga ka sari nation jinsi marez hai aur es nation ka sab sey big problem jariyan hai. Naujawan iss ka elaj per hazaron rupee kharch kardaitain hain magar kuch farkh nahi parta. Haqeeqat yeh hai ka yeh koi beemari nahi yeh urethral gland sey nikalna wala material hota hai jo usually uswaqt nikalta hai jab insan peeshab yeh stool ka liye zoor lagata hai. Baz auqat sexual stimulation yeh ehtilam waghaira ki wajha sey kuch mani (semen) kharij hojata hai chunkain pehsab ki vein sedhi nahi bul kay English ka letter S ki shakal ki hai jiski wajha sey sara mani (semen) kharij nahi hota bul kay mani (semen) kay 1 yeh 2 qatrey (drops) peeshab ki vein ka neechey walai curve hissai mein rahjatain hain. Chunkai urine aur mani (semen) ka ekhraj ka aik hi rasta hai chunachai baad mein jab insan urine pas karta hai to yeh bacha howa mani (semen) urine ka pahla drop ka sath bahir ajata hai.

Medical science ki nazar mein jariyan ki koi ahmiyat nahi aur na hi yeh kisi beemari yeh kamzori ki alamat hai iss ka elaj ki koi zarorat nahi kyun ka yeh aik natural process hai.
(Zakir:Mobeen:Kothari)

Mard Kay Inzaal (ejaculation) Kay Baghair Bhi Bacha Paeda Hosakta Hai:

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Mard Kay Inzaal (ejaculation) Kay Baghair Bhi Bacha Paeda Hosakta Hai:

Usul to yeh hai ka mubaashirat (Intercourse) ka doran jab insan ka inzaal (ejaculation) hota hai to mard ka sperms fallopian tube mein pohoch kar pregnancy ka sabab bantai hain. Magar baaz auqat mard ki inzaal (ejaculation) ka baghair bhi aurat pregnant hosakti hai. Eski sorat kuch youn hoti hai ka inzaal (ejaculation) sey pahla penis sey aik khas liquid ka 1 yeh 2 qatrey (drops) kharij hotain hain. Baz auqat es liquid mein sperms bhi hotey hain. Chunachai insan jab mubaashirat (Intercourse) ka doran inzaal (ejaculation) nahi karta magar yeh qatrey (drops) nikal jatain hain jiski wajha sey baz auqat inzaal (ejaculation) ka baghair bhi aurat pregnant hojati hai. Agarcha iss ka imkanat bohut hi kam hai. (Hyde)

Kya Mani (semen) Ko Mehfooz (Store) Kya Ja Sakta Hai?

Mani (semen) kay hawaley sey aik aam tasawwur yeh hai ka mani (semen) ko store kiya ja sakta hai. Essai insan ki taqat mahfooz rahaigi. Haqeeqat yeh hai kay duniya mein koi bhi shakhs semens ko store nahi kar sakta kyun ka yeh musalsal banti aur kharij hoti rahti hai. Glass bhar jana ki sorat mein agar es mein mazeed pani dala jai to zahir hai ka pani gir jaiga. Essi tarhan seminal vesicles bhar jana ka bad inzaal (ejaculation) ka taqaza kartain hain. Yeh thaliyan amoman 3.5 days ka baad bhar jati hain. Phir agar insan shaori tor per mani (semen) kharij nahi karaiga to yeh ehtilam ki sorat mein ghair shaori tor per kharij ho jaey gi.

Mani Ko Mehfooz Karna

Married mard hazrat taqat aur mani (semen) ko store karna ka chakar mein mubaashirat (Intercourse) sey parhaiz kartey hain. Halankai mubaashirat (Intercourse) sey perhaiz ki sorat mein insan ki mardana quwwat mein kami ajati hai. Dusri taraf jinsi khuaish ko musalsal dabanai sey insan kay tarhan ka nafsiyati Masa'el maslan lack of concentration, sleep disorder, tension, frustration aur nervousness ka shikar hojata hai.

Jo log mulk sey bahir kam kartey hain aur saal ya 2 saal kay baad watan wapis aatey hain lamba arsa mubaashirat (Intercourse) sey mahroom honay ki wajha sey en afrad ki jinsi khwahish aur mardana quwwat yani tanau (erection) mein kami ho jatey hain. Iss kay elawa yeh log pre-mature inzaal (ejaculation) ka bhi shikar ho jatey hain. Es surat mein elaj karanai ki zarorat nahi bul kay sexual activity mein hissa lainey ki wajha sey yeh problems khud ba khud solve ho jati hain. Europeaur America mein essi daleel kay ba'is jail kay qaidion ko apni biwion sey milney ki ejazat di jati hai.

Kiya Mani (semen) Ko Mehfooz Karney Sey Sehat Behtar Hoti Hai?

Na sirf aam logon bul kay hakeemon ka bhi khayal hai ka agar mani (semen) ko kharij na hona diiya jai aur esko safe karliya jai to insan ki sehat achi hogi, jism mazboot hoga, age lambhi hogi aur eski athletics ki abilities mein ezafa hoga. Yani agar koi insan mani (semen) ko kharij na karai to woh super athlete banjaiga. Es falsafai ka tahat hamarai yaha pahalwano ki jald shadi nahi kari jati. Research sey es tarhan ki koi bat sabit nahi hosaki. Lehaza yeh tasawur bilkul ghalat hai ka mani (semen) ko safe karna sey insan rustam-e-zama ban jaiga. (Dastoor:Zakir:Kaiwal Dheer:Mobeen)

Mani Ka Ikhraj Aur Miqdaar

Mani (semen) Ka Ikhraj Sehat Kay Liye Nuqsandeh Hai?

Yeh baat 100% ghalat hai ka mani (semen) ka ekhraj sey sehat per burai asrat pertain hain bul kay haqeeqat yeh hai ka mani (semen) ka ekhraj sehat ka liye bohut mufeed hai. Kyun ka iss ka ekhraj sey insan ko hamesha Zehni aur jismani sukoon milta hai jissai sehat achi hoti hai naka kharab. Es liye new shadi ki sorat jab naujawan zyada mubaashirat (Intercourse) karka zyada mani (semen) kharij kartain hain to enki sehat kharab honay ka bajai behter hoti hai aur aksar naujawan shadi kay baad motey ho jatey hain. (Time:Zakir:Mobeen)

Mani (semen) Ki Miqdaar Mein Kami Mardana Kamzori Ki Alamat Hai?

Mani (semen) ka hawaley sey aik aam khayal yeh bhi hai ka agar inzaal (ejaculation) ka waqt kam amount mein mani (semen) kharij ho to yeh jinsi aur mardana kamzori ki alamat hai. Iss ka haqeeqat sey door ka bhi koi ta'alluq nahi. Mani (semen) ki amount ka inhisar kay baton per hai. Nojawano mein mani (semen) ki miqdar zyada hoti hai. Magar 50 years ka baad iss ka amount kam hojata hai. Essi tarhan agar jaldi jaldi mani (semen) kharij kari jai yani rozana mubaashirat (Intercourse) kara jai to bhi mani (semen) ka amount kam hoga aur agar weak mein aik bar mubaashirat (Intercourse) kara jai to mani (semen) ka amount zyada hoga. Essi tarhan agar insan sexually zyada stimulate ho yani foreplay lamba ho to bhi zyada miqdar mein mani (semen) kharij hogi. Waisai Master and Johnson ki research ka mutabiq average 1 inzaal (ejaculation) mein 3.5 ml mani (semen) kharij hoti hai. (Mobeen:Koth Ram)

Mani (semen) Kay Rung Mein Tabdeeli Mardana Kamzori Ki Alamat Hai?

Jawani mein kharij honay wali mani (semen) ka colour bilkul white hota hai magar age ka sath sath mani (semen) ka colour change hojata hai aur iss ka colour white sey halka peela hojata hai. Research sey sabit howa hai ka mani (semen) ka colour ka mardana quwwat ka sath hargiz koi ta'alluq nahi aur na hi yeh koi beemari hai. Lehaza mani (semen) ka colour mein Tabdeeli mardana kamzori ki alamat nahi. (Koth Ram)

Mani (semen) Mein Khoon Ya Puss Ana:

Baz auqat insan ki mani (semen) mein khoon yeh pus shamil hoti hai. Eski big wajha prostate gland aur seminal vesicles ka infection, inflammation aur congestion hoti hai. Iss ka elawa trauma aur urethritis ki wajha sey bhi mani (semen) mein khoon aur pus ajata hai. Es surat mein kisi achai urologist sey elaj karwain. (Kothari)

Jiryan/Dhant:

Jiryan sey murad amoman woh white material liye jata hai jo peeshab yeh rafa-e-hajat ka bad yeh pahla mard kay penis sey kharij hota hai. Neem Hakeem esai aik bohut hi khatarnak jinsi beemari qarar daitain hain jis kay bohut sey nuqsanat hain

Naujawanon Kay Masail Aur Unka Hal

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Naujawanon Kay Masail Aur Unka Hal

Mazeed Jinsi Mughalitey

Masa'el Aur Hal

Zakar Ka Size (Size of penis)

Ek walid apney naujawan betey ko ley kat merrey paas aya, baap ney bataya kay iss kay betey ko koi masla hai. Naujawan bohut khaufzada aur ghabraya hua lag raha tha. Meine walid ko kamrey sey janey ko kaha ta'kay mein bachey sey khul kar baat kar saku'n. Ju'nhi walid kamrey sey baher nikla, betey ney foran apni shalwar khol di aur bataya kay uska zakar bohut chota hai, jiski wajah sey woh apni biwi ko mutma'en nahion kar sakey ga. Uski jald shadi honay wali thi.

Mardon mein zakar kay hawaley sey bohut sey khadshaat aur ghalat fehmiyan paee jati hain. Aksar mard apney zakar ki shakal, size, saakht aur motaee kay hawaley sey bohut hassas (concious) hain. Sab sey pehley lambaee ko letey hain.

Jis tarah saarey mard qadd kay lehaz sey baraber nahin yani unn kay qadd mein farq aur ikhtilaf hai, isi tarah unn kay zakar ka size ek jaisa nahin. Kisi ka zakar bara aur kisi ka chota. Zakar ki lambaee ka fard kay qadd kaath kay sath koi ta'alluq nahin. Iss silsiley mein America mein ek survey hua to ma'aloom hua kay sab sey lamba zakar uss fard ka tha jis ka qadd ausat (average) sey kam tha. Mera ek client jiska qadd 6 feet sey zyada tha, kay zakar ka size aam logon sey kam tha.

Bohut sey naujawanon ka khayal hota hai kay unn ka zakar lambaee mein chota hai jis ki wajah sey woh shaadi kay qabil nahin hotey. Aksar naujawanon ko apney zakar kay hawaley sey sirf ghalat fehmi hoti hai kay woh chota hai hala'n kay woh chota nahin hota. Iss ghalat fehmi ki kaee wajoohaat hain.

Fard apney zakar ko ooper sey dekhta hai, jiski wajah sey sara zakar nazar nahi aata aur fard samajhta hai kay uss ka zakar chota hai. Mazeed agar fard ka paet kuch nikla hua ho to woh bilkul hi chota nazar aata hai.
Iss kay elawa naujawan fahash films kay hero kay zakar kay sath apney zakar ka mawazna kartey hain. Fahash films mein kaam karney kay liye aisey afraad ka intekhab kya jata hai jin ka zakar lamba ho maslan ek American actor ka zakar 18 inches lamba hai. Iss kay elawa camera trick ki madad sey aam zakarko lamba kar kay dikhaya jata hai jis ki wajah sey iss actor ka zakar muqablatan bohut lamba nazar aata hai.
Ba'az naujawan apney sukrrey juey bohut chotey zakar sey apney asal zakar kay size ka andaza lagatey hain jab kay ba'az logon ka sukrra hua zakar bohut chota ho jata hai jab kay akarr kar kafi lamba ho jata hai. Lehaza zakar ka asal size akrrahat wala hota hai.

Iss tarah ba'az naujawan apney doston kay barey zakar kay sath apna muqabla kartey hain agarcha inn ka zakar kuch chota hota hai magar unko kuch zyada hi chota mehsoos hota hai Iss ghalat fehmi ko iss tarah duur kya jasakta hai.

Tanau (erection) honay per fard aaeyney kay samney khara ho kar side sey apney zakar ko dekhey to uss ki ghalat fehmi duur ho jaey gi.
Akrey huey zakar ki paemana sey aazma'esh kar li jaey to bhi ghalat fehmi duur ho jaey gi. Khushkhabri yeh hai kay aksar afraad ka zakar unn kay apney khayal sey bara hota hai.

Agarcha zakar ki lambaee ka koi meyar nahin ta'hum ek survey kay mutabiq America mein 50% logon ka zakar 5 inch sey kam hota hai aur lambey sey lamb 13 inch ka. Magar wahan 4 inch ka akrra hua zakar normal mil jata hai. Pakistan mein 3 inch ka akrra (erected) hua zakar normal samjha jata hai. Qadd kaath ka zakar ki lambaee kay sath koi ta'alluq nahin. Albatta hathon kay size ka zakar kay size kay sath kuch ta'alluq hai. Amooman barey hathon waley afraad kay zakar lambey hotey hain. Mahireen ka khayal hai kay woh zakar jo faraj (vagina) mein dakhil ho jaey normal hai. (Hyde)

Kya Aurtein Lamba Zakar Pasand Karti Hain?

Aam mardon ka khayal hai kay bara zakar behter hai kyunkay aurtein lamba zakar pasand karti hain, jab kay aurtein zakar kay size kay hawaley sey kam hi sochti hain. Bohut kam aurtein lambey zakar ko pasan d karti hain. Hite ki research kay mutabiq aksar aurtein chotey zakar ko pasand karti hain. Ek aur research sey ma'aloom hua kayaurton ko ausat (average) size ka zakar pasand tha.

Zakar Kay Size Kay Hawalewy Sey Aurton Ka Khayal

Bohut lamba zakar kisi bhi aurat ko pasand na tha kyun kay bohut lamba zakar bacha dani kay mu'nh per zarb lagata hai jis sey aurat ko takleef hoti hai. Isi liye bohut lambey zakar waley afraad nakhush hain, kyun kay unn kay lambey zakar ko dekhtey hi aurton ney mubaashirat sey inkar kardiya, isliye unn ki khwahish thi kay kaash unn ka zakar chota hota. (Hite)

Jinsi Lutf Aur Aurat Ki Tasalli Kay Liye Lamba Zakar Zaroori Nahin

Yeh khayal bhi aam hai kay bharpoor jinsi lutf, khushgawar azdwajii zindagi aur biwi ko mutma'en karney kay liye lambey zakar (penis) ki zaroorat hai. Haqeeqat yeh hai zyada jinsi lutf aur biwi ki tasalli ka zakar ki lambaee kay sath koi ta'alluq nahin, kya lambi naak sey insaan ko zyada khushbuu aati hai ya kya barri aankhon sey zyada nazar aata hai. Aurat ko gosht nahin bul kay ek mohabbat karney waley insaan ki zaroorat hai. Waisey mubaashirat mein zakar ki lambaee kay bajaey uski sakhti zyada ahem hai aur chota zakar nisbatanzyada sakht hota hai. Uani iss mein zyada tanau (erection) hota hai. Mazeed aurat ki faraj ka size 3 ta 4 inch hota hai aur faraj ka sirf baerooni 1/3 hissa yani pehla 1 ta 1.5 inch hissa hi zyada hassas hota hai. Iss ka peechey wala hissa zyada hassas nahin hot. Hassas hissey tak 3 inch ka zakar bohu aasani sey pohonch jata hai. Mahireen ka khayal hai kay agar mard kay zakar ki lambaee 2 inch sey kuch zyada ho to yeh aurat ki faraj kay hassas hissey tak aasani sey pohonch jata hai jis sey aurat bharpoor lutfandoz hoti hai. (Kothari)

Zakar Ko Lamba Karnay Ka Tariqa

Kya Zakar Ko Masnooee Tareeqey Sey Lamba Kya Ja Sakta Hai?

Zakar ko lamba karney ki bohut si koshishein hui hain magar kaamyaabi nahin ho saki. Ba'az auqaat jar kay ird gird ka gosht kaat diya jata hai jis sey is ski lambaee mein ma'amooli sa farq parr jata hai. Yeh bhi ek dhoka hai kyun kay asal zakar ki lambaee mein to koi izafa nahin hota. Ba'az log vacuum waghaera sey zakar ko lamba karney ka da'awa kartey hain iss ki madad sey 5 % tak ka izafa ho sakta hai jo kay na honay kay baraber hoga. Iss tarah ba'az iehteharo'n mein organ developer ka zikr hota hao is ski bhi kpoi haqeeqat nahin, qissa mukhtasir yeh kay zakar ki lambaee mein izafa nahin kya ja sakta aur na hi iss ki zaroorat hai. (Reuben)

Sukrra Hua Bohut Chota Zakar

Ba'az afraad ka narm zakar (penis) bohut hi chota hota hai lekin tanau (erection) mein ek ma'aqool hudd tak lamba ho jata hai. Ba'az naujawan iss fotri soorat-e-haal sey bhi bohut pareshan ho jatey hain. Zakar (penis) darasal radio kay antenna ki tarah hai, jisey zaroorat kay waqt lamba kya ja sakta hai. Zaroorat na ho to chota ho jata hai ta'kay yeh fard kay chalney phirney ki activities mein rukawat na baney. Lehaza yeh koi masla nahin. Dilchasp baat yeh hai kay agar sukrra hua zakar zyada chota hai to tanau mein woh nisbatan zyada lamba ho jata hai aur sukrra hua lamba zakar tanau mein kam lamba hota hai. Maslan ek fard ka sukrra hua zakar 2 inch ka hai to tunn kar woh 4 inch ka ho jaey ga doosri taraf 3 inch ka sukrra hua zakar tanau mein 4.5 inch ka hoga.

Chotey Zakar Sey Aulaad Paeda Nahin Hoti…?

Merey clinic mein ek naujawan client aaya jo kay bohut fikrmand aur pareshan tha. Jis ki haal hi mein shadi hui thi woh pareshan is liye tha kay uska zakar bohut chota tha. Uska khayal tha kay chotey zakar sey aulad paeda nahin hoti. Yeh ek bilkul ghalat tasawwur hai kay aulad ki paeda'esh kay liye lamba zakar hona zaroori hai. Mani (semen) ko agar chamach mein daal kar faraj (vagina) kay ander daal diya jaey to bhi bacha paeda ho jaey ga. Iss tarah chotey sey chota zakar bhi bachey ki paeda'esh mein koi rukawat nahin. Doosrey alfaz mein zakar kay size ka aulad ki paeda'esh kay sath koi ta'alluq nahin. (kothari)

Zakar Ka Mota Hona Zaroori Nahin
Zakar ki lambaee kay elawa bohut sey naujawan uski motaee kay hawaley sey bhi ghalat fehmi ka shikar aur pareshan hain. Inn ka khayal hai kay aurat kay bharpor jinsi lutf kay liye zakar ka mota hona zaroori hai. Iss mein bhi koi haqeeqat nahin. Zakar ki lambaee ki tarah zakar ki motaee bhi mukhtalif logon ki mukhtalif hoti hai. Faraj (vagina) darasal khali tube ya syringe ki tarah koi khula rasta nahin hai bul kay yeh ek bund gali hai jis ki donon deewarein aapas mein mili hoti hain. Jinsi haejaan mein faraj ka baerooni 2/3 hissa phool kar faraj kay mu'nh ko mazeed tung kar deta hai, iss soorat mein agar faraj kay ander suii bhi dakhil I jaey to aurat ko iss ka poora ehsaas ho ga. Lehaza kamyaab aur khushgawar mubaashirat kay liye zakar ki motaee ki koi khas ahmiyat nahin. Agarcha ba'az khawateen motey zakar ko pasand karti hain ta'hum patley sey patla zakar bhi aurat ko bharpoor jinsi lutf sey humkinar kar dey ga. Waisey zakar ki amoomi motaee 4 inch ta 4.5 inch hoti hai.

Jarr Sey Patla Zakar Kamzori Ki Alamat…?

Majeed ek naujawan client tha. 24 sala majeed ki haal hi mein shadi honay wali thi who sakht fikrmand tha kyun kay uska zakar jarr sey patla tha. Uska khayal tha kay yeh mardana kamzori ki alamat hai, amooman aksar afraad ka zakar jarr sey patla aur ooper sey mota hota hai. Naujawan isey kamzori samajhtey hain neem hakeem iski wajah mushtzani (masturbation) qarar detey hain hala'n kay yeh ek normal jismani haqeeqat hai na kay koi kharabi, lehaza pareshan honay ki zaroorat nahin. Darasal zakar ek ghubbarey ki tarah hai jo pubic bone kay sath jurra (fix) hota hai. Jab iski naliyon mein khoon daurta hai to yeh akarr jata hai magar chu'n kay neechey waley hissey mein zyada khoon nahin hota jis ki wajahsey nichla hissa kuch patla jab kay ooper wala hissa nisbatan zyada phool jata hai. Iss tarah ba'az afraad ka zakar darmiyan mein sey qadrey patla hota hai yeh bhi koi beemari nahin na hi iska elaj karaney ki zaroorat hai. Iski wajah yeh hoti hai kay ba'az afraad kay zakar ki naliyan darmiyan mein kuch p[atli hoti hain jis ki wajah sey wahan zyada khoon nahin jata aur wahan sey zakar kuch patla reh jata hai magar inn logon ko mukammal tana'u hota hai. (mubeen)

Zakar Ki Jarr Per Baal Kamzori Ki Alamat…?

Baloghat mein har naujawan kay zer-e-naaf baal ugg aatey hain j okay baloghat ki nashani hai. Islam mein inn baalo'n ko har 15 din ba'ad saaf karney ka hokum hai. Ba'az logon ka khayal hai kay safaee kay elawa iss sey mardana quwwat mein bhi izafa hota hai. Ba'az auqaat zakar kay neechey waley hissey yani jarr per bhi baal ugg aatey hain. Iss surat mein bhi pareshan honay ki zaroorat nahin kyun kay yeh koi kharabi ya beemari nahin. Iss tarah mardon ki chaati per bhi baal hotey hain, kisi kay zyada, kisi kay kam aur kisi kay nahin bhi hotey. Yeh sab kuch normal hai albatta agar kisi fard kay chehrey aur zer-e-naaf baal na aaein to kisi zchey doctor sey mashwara karein magar iska bhi fard ki mardana quwwat kay sath koi ta'alluq nahin. (mubeen)

Zakar Ka Ek Taraf Jhuka Hona Kamzori Ki Alamat…?

Aksar naujawanon ka khayal hota hai kay zakar ko pencil ki tarah seedha hona chahiyie na kay da'ein, ba'ein, ooper ya neechey ko jhuka hua. Akrra hua zakar da'ein taraf ko terha hota hai ya ba'ein taraf ko. Kisi ka ooper aur kisi ka neechey jhuka hota hai. Bohut hi kam logon ka akrra zakar bilkul seedha hota hai. Aisa hona bhi mushkil hai kyun kay zakar haddi ya kisi sakht cheez ka bana hua nahin hota (agarcha ba'az janwaron kay zakar mein haddi hoti hai) bulk ay narm gosht ka bana hota hai. Jab iss mein zyada khoon jata hai aur doosri taraf kam khoon nikalta hai to yeh akarr jata hai aur phir yeh kisi na kisi taraf murr jata hai. Amooman 85% logon ka zakar baei'n taraf ko terha hota hai, isi tarah amomman fard ka baya'n khusya (testicle) daei'n sey kuch neechey hota hai.

Zakar Ki Kamzori Ki Alamat

Amooman 1 cm. Fard kay zakar ka taerha pan koi beemari nahin, yeh ek bilkul normal, fitri amar hai. Iss wajah sey dakhool (penetration) mein koi diqqat nahin hoti. Jab kay neem hakeem isey khatarnaak beemari samajhtey hain, jis ki wajah mushtzani (masturbation) ko qarar detey hain. Agar aap apni ungliyon ko akrra kar dekhein to woh bhi pencil ki tarah seedhi nahin hala'n kay innkay ander haddiyan hoti hain. Lehaza iss hawaley sey pareshan honay ki zaroorat hai aur na hi elaj ki. Albatta agar zakar bohut terha (45 ka zawiya) ho to yeh ek beemari hai. 'Peyronie's' hai ta'hum iski wajah bhi mushtzani nahin. Yeh beemari amooman darmiyani umr kay mardon ko hoti hai. Ba'az auqaat yeh beemari achanak ho jati hai. Yani fard jab raat ko soya to woh bilkul theek tha magar jab subah jaga to zakar terha ho gaya. Iss surat mein zakar jar sey sakht aur ooper top per narm hota hai. Iss ka elaj amooman vitamin E sey kya jata hai. Aksar yeh elajkay baghaer 6 maah tae k saal mein khud hi theek ho jata hai. Isliye elaj kay liye jaldi karney ki zaroorat nahin. Ta'hum behter yeh hai kay kisi acheydoctor sey mashwara kar lein.

Agar zakar thorey sey kuch zyada terha hai magar beemari nahin to yeh khush bakhti hai kyun kay iss surat mein ya to faraj (vagina) ki sides ko rugrrey ga jo zyada hassas hoti hain aur aurat ko zyada lutf aaey gay a phir G spot ko j okay aurat ka doosra hassas tareen jinsi maqam hai jis ko rugerrney sey taqreeban 50% aurteinpani kharij karti hain.

Ek homeo doctor ney apni kitab meinlikha kay zakar ka terha pan khatarnaak beemari hai jis ki wajah mushtzani hai aur iss kay elaj ki zaroorat hai. Meine inn ko khat likha "doctor sahib aap apni shalwar utarein aur eeman dari sey dekhein kay kya aap ka zakar bilkul seedha hai" abhi taki jawab nahin aaya.

Zakar Kay Ooper Ubhri Rugein Mardana Kamzori Ka Sabab Nahin Bantiin

Fard kay zakar mein tanau tab paeda hota hai jab uski khoon ki naliyan khulti hain aur zyada miqdar mein khoon inn naliyon mein dorta hai aur doosri taraf nisbatan kam khoon baher nikalta hai iss wajah sey khoon ki yeh naliyan numayan ho jati hain aur phool jati hain. Yeh naliyan jitni zyada khulein gi itna hi zyada khoon inn mein daakhil ho ga aur nateejatan tanau itna hi zyada aur jald hoga. Yeh ek bilkul normal aur mufeed kaifiyat hai. Neem hakeemon ki wajah sey naujawanon ki aksaryat isey bhi khatarnaak beemari aur kharabi samajhti hai. Iss ki bari wajah mushtzani bataee jati hai jab kay iss ki koi haqeeqat nahinkyun kay woh afraad jinho ney kabhi mushtzani nahin kii unnk ay zakar ki naliyan bhi ubhri hoti hain.

Darasal jism kay har hissey mein jild kay neechey khoon ki naliyan (veins) hoti hain. Jism kay jin hisson mein charbi hoti hai wahan yeh saaf nazarnahin aatiin jaisey bazu waghaera magar jahancharbi nahi hoti wahan yeh saaf nazar aati hain. Zakar kay elawa hath ki pusht per bhi yeh naliyan amooman saaf nazar aati hain. Ba'az logon ki yeh naliyan zyada numayan hoti hain aur ba'az ki kam. Jin kay hathon ki naliyan zyada numayan hoti hain kya unn kay hath zyada kamzor hotey hain.

Zakar Ki Kamzori Ki Alamat

Woh aurtein jin kay hath gudaaz hotey hain unn kay hath ki naliyan nazar nahin aatiin to kya unn kay hath mardon kay hathon sey zyada taqatwer hotey hain. Zahir hai kay aisa nahin. Lehaza zakar ki naliyon ka nazar aana bhi koi beemari nahi aur na hi koi fard iss sey jinsi tor per kamzor hota hai. Albatta khusya dani (scrotum) ki naliyan agar bohut zyada numayan hon to yeh ek beemari Varicose hai jis sey kuch logon ko banjhpan (infertility) ho sakta hai magar lazmi nahin. Iss surat mein kisi achey urologist sey mashwara kiya jaey.

Zakar Per Massey

Kisi bhi sehatmand insaan kay jism kay kisi bhi hissey per massey nikal saktey hain. Aam haalaat mein hum iss kaifiyat sey pareshan nahin hotey khwah yeh massey chehrey per hi kyun na hun. Isi tarah zakar per masson ka namoodaar hona bhi aam si baat hai na kay koi beemari. Yeh massey jinsi salahiyat ya jinsi amal per kisi tarah sey asarandaz nahin hotey, lekin la ilmi ki wajah sey aam naujawan inn masson per pareshan ho jatey hain. Yeh massey aasani sey nikaley ja saktey hain aur agar nab hi nikaley jaei'n to bhi koi harj nahin.

Zakar Per Sakht Gatthey Parr Jana

Amooman adherh umer kay ba'az logon kay zakar mein sakht qism kay gatthey ya gaanthein ban jati hain, yeh ek beemari hai jis ka pehli baar zikr ek French surgeon ney kya. Inn ki wajah sey zakar ka tanau muta'assir hota hai. Jab thori bohut erection hoti hai to fard ko nehayat takleef hoti hai jis ji wajah sey fard mubaashirat nahin kar sakta kyun kay usey shadeed jismani aur zehni kost hoti hai. Abhi tak iska koi mu'asser elaj daryaft nahin hua lekin yeh beemari bohut hi ka mhai.

Fori Tanau

Aksar afraad ka khayal hai kay fard ko bijli kay bulb ki tarah fori tanau hona chahiyie. Jab aisa nahin hota to isey jinsi kamzori samajhtey hain aur pareshan ho jatey hain. Naujawanon ka tanau 20 saal ki umer tal fori hota hai magar phir umer kay barhney kay sath batadreej kam hota jata hai yani shuru mein tanau fori hota hai 40 saal ki umer kay ba'ad qadrey takheer sey hota hai. 60 saal ki umer kay ba'ad zara der sey hota hai. Yeh bhi hosakta hai kay iss umer mein tanau kay liye biwi kay chuney aur sehlaney ki zaroorat parey. Yeh sab kuch normal amal (function) hai. Taza tareen research sey ma'aloom hua hai kay 20 saal ki umer mein fard ko fori tanau hota hai. 50 saal kay ba'ad jawani sey do guna aur 70 saal kay ba'ad teen guna waqt darkaar hota hai. Yeh sab kuch normal hai na kay koi beemari.

Zakar Kay Tanau Ka Meyaar

Ba'az auqaat kuch afraad iss wajah sey pareshan ho jatey hain kay shayad unn kay zakar ka tanau kafi nahin aur shayad woh mubaashirat kay qabil nahin. Hala'n kay unn kay paas tanau mapney aur janchney ka koi paemana aur meyar nahin. Yeh sirf unn ka khayal hota hai kay unn ka tanau kafi nahin.

Tanau Ka Meyar

Tanau ka ek hi meyar hai agar mian mubaashirat kay waqt apney zakar ko biwi ki faraj mein dakhil kardey to uss ka tanau bilkul normal hai. Ta'hum ek baat yaad rahey kay insaani zakar kisi sakht cheez ya haddi ka bana hua nahin hai bul kay yeh narm gosht ka bana hua hai j okay khoon ki naliyon mein zyada khoon janey sey tunn jata hai aur sakht ho jata hai. Tanau ki surat mein zakar kay bohut zyada sakht honay ki tawaqqa nahin ki jasakti. Yeh ek bilkul normal kaifiyat hai.

Tanau Kay Waqt Zakar Mein Dard (Painful Erection)

Ba'az naujawan zakar mein tanau kay waqt dard mehsoos kartey hain iss ki wajoohaat mein zyada aam wajah maqami chot, ulcer, peeshab ki nali ya prostate gland mein sozish hai. Iss kay elawa zakar ka bohut zyada terha pan Peyroie's Disease hai. Iss surat mein kisi achey urologist sey raabta karein.

Kamyaab Jinsi Amal Kay Liye Zakar Ka Bohut Sakht Hona Zaroori Hai…?
Aksar naujawanon ka khayal hai kay biwi ki jinsi tasalli kay liye zakar ka bohut sakht hona zaroori hai. Allah Ta'ala ney zakar bohut hi narm-o-nazuk faraj mein dakhil honay kay liye banaya hai na kay deewar mein soorakh karney kay liye. Ta'hum 17 ta 19 saal ki umer mein fard ka zakar tanau mein bohut sakht (hard) hota hai. Iss umer mein isey jins-e-mukhalif kay liye istaemal nahin kya jata, chunancha adam istaemaal aur umer kay barhney kay sath sath iss ki sakhti mein qadrey kami aa jati hai jo kay ek bilkul normal amal hai.

Tanau Mein Kami Jinsi Kamzori Ki Alamat

Aurat ki jinsi taskeen kay liye zakar kay sakht akrrao (hardness) ki hargiz zaroorat nahin. Hyte report sey bhi yehi sabit hua kay aurton ki aksaryat bohut sakht zakar aur zordaar jhatkon aur zarbaat (strokes) ko pasand nahin karti. Zakar ko kisi qadar sakht hona chahiyie, ta'hum iss ka koi paemana nahin. Iss ka ek hi meyar hai kay faraj mein daakhil ho jaey.

Tanau Mein Pehley Sey Kami Jinsi Kamzori Ki Alamat…?

Kuch afraad jab unn ki umer 30 saal sey zyada ho jati hai to woh apney jinsi jazbaat ki shiddat mein kuch kami aur zakar kay tanau ki taaqat (strength) mein 17/18 sal ki umer ki nisbat qadrey kami mehsoos kartey hain, jo agarcha bohut ma'amooli hoti hai magar yeh afraad pareshan ho jatey hain. Jinsi jazbaat ki shiddat aur zakar ka tanau aur akrrao (hardness) 15 aur 20 saal ki umer kay doran bohut zyada hota hai. Neem hakeem iss ma'amooli kami ka ba'es mushtzani ya kasrat-e-jama'a (mubaashirat (Intercourse)) ko qarar detey hain. Yeh kaifiyat aur ma'amooli kami pareshani ka sabab nahin honi chahiyie kyun kay umer kay barhney kay sath sath jism kay har uzu ki taqat mein kami aa jati hai. Yeh cheez khel kay maedan mein bohut numaya'n hai. Aksar khelon kay numaya'n khilarri 20/25 saal ki umer kay lug bhug hotey hain. Magar 25 saal kay ba'ad inn ki karkardagi (strength) pehley ki tarah na

Tanau

Yani 30 saal ki umer mein fard jismani tor per 20 saal ki umer ki tarah mu'asser (efficient) nahin hota. Agarcha iss ki karkardagi bilkul khatam nahin ho jati. Zakar kay sath bhi yehi mu'amla hai. Yani umer kay barhney kay sath doosrey jismani a'aza ki tarah jinsi jazbaat ki shiddat aur zakar kay tanau aur sakhti mein qadrey kami aa jati hai. Yeh ek fitri amal hai jis sey pareshan honay ki zaroorat nahin. (zakar ki sakhti mein kami kay bawajood agar fard ki amoomi sehat theek hai to woh martey dum tk mubaashirat kay qabil hota hai, agarcha 60 saal kay ba'ad ba'az logon ko shakhsi (self) ya biwi ki taraf sey ishte'aal (stimulation) ki zaroorat parrti hai).

Kya Apni Marzi Sey Tanau Paeda Kya Ja Sakta Hai…?

Ba'az naujawanon ka khayal hai kay jis tarah fard apni marzi sey jab chahey apni ungli ya bazu ko khara krsakta isi tarah woh apni marzi sey jab bhi chahey apney zakar ko akrra sakta hai. Magar jab woh aisa nahin kar pata to pareshan ho jata hai aur apney aap ko jinsi tor per kamzor aur na mard khayal karta hai. Yeh baat zehen mein rakhein kay tanau ka ta'alluq fard kay dimagh aur jism kay sath hai aur yeh tanau apni marzi, khwahish aur hukum (order) sey paeda nahin kya ja sakta yani koi fard humesha apni marzi sey tanau paeda nahin karsakta. Isi liye mahireen kehtey hain kay apni marzi sey har cheez hasil ki jasakti hai siwaey tanau (erection) kay. Darasal yeh bhook ki tarah ka ek uzwiati (physiological) amal (process) hai jis tarah koi fard apni marzi sey bhook paeda nahin kar sakta isi tarah

Tanau Kay Liye Munasib Mahol

Tanau bhi apni marzi sey paeda nahin kya ja sakta. jis tarah bhook paeda honay kay liye munasib uzwiati aur maholi (environmental) halaat (circumstances) zaroori hain, isi tarah tanau (erection) paeda karney kay liye bhi munasib uzwiati aur maholi muhij (stimulus) ka hona zaroori hai. Fard sirf uss waqt bhook mehsoos karta hai jab khana khaey kuch waqt guzar gaya ho. Iss kay elawa mahol aur khana kitna hi acha aur lazeez ho yeh awamil bhi bhook per asar andaz hotey hain. Isi tarah zakar mein tanau jab hoga jab fard jins (sex) kay hawaley sey sochey ga, parhey ga, dekhey ga, suney gay a lums mehsoos karey ga waghaera. Yeh cheezein tanau (erection) kay liye muheej hain. Kyun kay kisi bhi fard ko apney tanay per control nahin. Isliye ba'az auqaat fard ko kisi namunasib jagah maslan class room ya ghar mein maan baap kay samney tanau ho jata hai. Jisey woh shaoori tor per khatam nahin kar sakta aur sharminda hota hai. Yani tanau per fard ko shaoori control nahin. Iss tarah naujawan apney tanau ko check karney kay liye kisi paeshawar aurat kay paas jatey hain, magar wahan kkoshish kay bawajood unn ko tanau nahin hota aur phir unn ko yaqeen aa jata hai kay woh biwi kay qabil nahin. Guzishta dinon merey paas ek naujawan larka elaj kay liye aya. Isey yaqeen tha kay woh na mard hai jab uss ka nafsiyati tajziya kya gaya to ma'aloom hua kay uss ko kaee baar zina ka moqa mila. Uss ney koshish bhi ki magar ehsas-e-gunah aur khauf ki wajah sey usey tanau hi na hua.

Khusyon Ka Size

Khusyon (Testicles) Ka Size:

Baaz naujawan apney Khusyon ki jisamat kay hawaley sey fikar mand hotey hain. Aam tor per tasawur kiya jata hai ka chotey size kay Khusyon wala insan jinsi tor per kamzor hota hai. Essi tarhan ki scrotum agar tani honay ka bajai dheli dhali aur latki hui ho ya bhi jinsi kamzori ki alamat samjhi jati hai. Jabka haqeeqat yeh hai ka testicles ka size yeh theli ki jild ki lachak ka jinsi qowat kay sath koi ta'alluq nahi.

Khusyon (Testicles) Ki Golion Ka Ooper Neechey Hona:

Kuch naujawan isliye bhi pareshan hotey hain ka enka testis ki golian kabhi ooper chali jatin hain aur kabhi neechey. Es hawaley sey pareshan hona ki zarorat nahi kyun ka yeh kisi kharabi ki alamat nahi bul kay aik normal physiological process hai. Darasal Sperms testis mein paeda hotey hain. Enka zinda rahna ka liye zarori hai ka testis ka temperature jism sey kuch kam ho. Kyun ka agar testis ka temperature jism ka temperature ka baraber hojaiga to sperm marjaingai aur insan yeh to aulad paeda na kar sakaiga aur agar aulad hogi bhi to yeh zyada tar larkian hongi. Fitrat nai es silsilai mein aisa nizam banaya hai ka sardion mein yeh golian ooper jism ka kareeb chali jatin hain taqai required temperature barqarar rahey kyun ka zyada thandhak bhi sperms ka liye nuqsan deh hai aur garmion mein yeh golian jism sey door neechey chali jati hain taqai enka temperature jism ka temperature sey kam rahey aur sperms ko koi nuqsan na pohnchey. Yad rahey kay hiddat (heat) sperms ki dushman hai.

Mani Kay Hawaley Sey Mashhoor Ghalat Baatein

Isliye garam jagahoon per kam karna walai log maslan truck driver aur bakery mein kam karna walai logo ki garmi ki wajha sey sperms ki ta'adad kam hojati hai aur enki aksar batiyan paeda hoti hai. Essi tarhan computer per zyada kam karna walai logon ki bhi batiyan zyada hoti hain. Es liye nojawano ko chahiya ka woh apna testis ko thanda rakhai. Garmion mein tight kaprey special tight underwear na pahnai aur jab bhi bathroom jain apna testis ka ooper 2 to 3 mins thanda pani dal lain. (Shettles)

Golion ka ooper neechey jana koi kharabi nahi bul kay enka healthy function ka liye zarori hai. Es tarhan aik goli kuch bari hoti hai aur dusri kuch choti, yeh bhi koi defect nahi. Es sey pahla yeh bhi bataya ja chuka hai ka usually 85% left goli thora neechey hoti hai yeh bhi bilkul aik normal cheez hai. (Mobeen:Hyde)

Mani (semen)

Mushtzani (masturbation) kay baad sab sey zyada ghalat batain mani (semen) ka barai mein mashoor hain. Aksar naujawan mani (semen) ki quality ka hawaley sey pareshan hotey hain kay yeh patli hai ya garhi, thori hai yeh zyada, taqat sey nikalti hai yeh baghair taqat ka. Neem hakeem isey bhi khoob exploit kartain hain.

Mani Ka Function

Mani (semen) 3 jagha banta hai:

Testis
Prostate Glands
Seminal Vesicles

En teeno jagha sey nikal kar peeshab ki nali mein jama hojata hai. Testis mein 2 types ka cells hotain hain. Aik kisim jinsi hormones testosterone paeda kartey hain jinka ta'alluq sexual drives aur mardana potency yani tanau (erection) ka sath hai. Yani es hormone ki wajha sey shawat aur penis mein tanau (erection) paeda hoti hai. Doosrey cell sperms paeda kartey hain jo bachai paeda karna ka sabab bantai hain. Insan jab aik bar ejaculate kar daita hai to kharij hona wali mani (semen) ki ta'adad 3.5ml hoti hai jismai 20 crore sey 1 million sperms hotey hain. Pregnancy ka liye 3 crore active sperms ki zarorat hai magar es surat mein usually larki paeda hoti hai. Agar sperms zyada hongai to larka paeda hona ka chances mein ezafa hojata hai. Sperm ka jinsi quwwat ka sath koi ta'alluq nahi. Agar sperms bilkul khatam bhi hojain to bhi insan ki mardana quwwat per koi asar nahi parta aur woh jinsi amal ka liye bilkul fit hota hai. Essi liye baaz afrat jinsi lihaz sey bohut mazboot aur active hotey hain magar woh bacha paeda nahi kar saktey hain. (Kothari:Shettle)

Mani Ki Quality Mein Farq

Infiraadi ikhtilafaat ki wajha sey mani (semen) ki quality mein farq hota hai. Jiska mardana quwwat (potency) kay sath koi ta'alluq nahi. Mani (semen) ka siwaey bachey paeda karney kay aur koi function nahi isliye iski quality ki bhi koi ahmiyat nahi. Mani (semen) sperms ka ekhraj ka liye aik carrier hai yani iss ka zariya sperms bahir attain hain. Iss ka elawa mani (semen) mein proten aur sugar waghaira ki sorat mein sperms ka liye khoorak hoti hai. Lehaza mani (semen) ki quality ka hawaley sey har giz pareshan hona ki zarorat nahi hai. Mani (semen) urine aur stool ki tarhan napak nahi. Kuch ulma esko bilkul napak samajhtai hain aur baaz essai khafef napak samajhtai hain. Lehaza dry mani (semen) ko ragarna hi kafi hai. Hazrat Ayesha Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) ki dry mani (semen) ko ragar kar saf kardiya karti theen aur wash nahi karti thee albatta geli mani (semen) ko dhoya karti thee aur Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) unhi gelai kapron mein namaz ka liye masjid jaya kartey thai. Hazrat Ayesha farmati hain ka "Mein Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) ka kapray sey mani (semen) ko mul deti phir Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) es mein namaz parhtey". (Muslim)

Aik dusri hadees mein ap farmati hain ka "Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) ka kapra sey mani ko mein dhoti phir Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) namaz ka liye tashreef laijatai aur dhona ka neshan usmai hota". (Bukhari,Muslim)

Es silsila mein aik ahem masla yeh hai ka agar mani (semen) lutf ka sath yeh phir puri tarhan baghair lutf sey nikal jai to insan per ghussal farz hojata hai.

Mani Khoon Sey Qeemti Cheez Hai_Ghalat Fehmiyan

Mani Kay Hawaley Sey Mashhoor Ghalat Fehmiyan

Mani Aik Qeemti Cheez Hai – Khoon Sey Bhi Qeemti?

Neem Hakeemon ka khayal kay mutabiq mani (semen) johar-e-hayat aur aik bohut qeemti cheez hai. Famous formula hai ka 100 qatrey (drops) desi ghee ka to aik drop khoon ka aur 100 qatrey (drops) khoon ka to aik drop mani (semen) ka. Yani mani (semen) ka behna khoon kay behney sey bhi zyada qeemti hai. Mera aik naujawan client es khayal ki wajha sey pagal hogaya kyun ka iss ka khayal tha ka yeh aik bohut qeemti cheez hai. Aik bar yeh naujawan mushtzani (masturbation) kar raha tha. Inzaal (ejaculation) ka kareeb esko khayal aya ka to aik bohut qeemti cheez hai to esna mani (semen) ko collect kara aur drink kargaya.

Latest research sey sabit howa hai ka mani (semen) quwwat-e-hayat nahi aur na hi yeh khoon sey qeemti hai aur na hi iss ka khoorak kay sath direct koi ta'alluq hai. Agar hota to ghareebon kay bachey paeda hi nahi hotey. Mardana kamzori ki wajha sey enki biwiyan bhag jatin. Aik Indian doctor Kaiwal Dheer nai hisab kitab kar kay andaza lagaya hai ka agar mani (semen) waqai khoon sey qeemti hai to aik bar inzaal (ejaculation) sey khoon ki aik bottle (500ml) nikal jati hai. Bohut sey logon nai kabhi na kabhi din mein 2 bar mushtzani (masturbation) zaror kari hogi. Es surat mein 2 bottles khoon ki nikalnay ka baad woh zinda kaisay rahey. Mera woh client jo din mein 15 bar tak kar leta tha essai to kisi bhi surat zinda nahi hona chahiya jab kay woh na sirf zinda hai bul kay healthy hai aur bachai paeda kar raha hai. Darasal mani (semen) thook sey ziyda qeemti nahi aur iss ka banney mein jism ki etni hi taqat sarf hoti hai jitni thook bananey mein. (Dastoor:Zakir:Mobeen)

Mardana Jinsi Aaza: Hassas Hissey Functions Sperms Mardana Jinsi A'aza

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Mardana Jinsi Aaza: Hassas Hissey Functions Sperms

Mardana Jinsi A'aza

Mard kay jinsi a'aza mein sab sey ahem uzu tanasul ya zakar (penis) hai. Yeh naaf kay neechey donon tango'n kay darmiyan latka hota hai aur aksar sukrra hua aur dheela dhaala sa hota hai iss kay ooper mazboot lekin bey hudd narm aur mula'em khaal hoti hai. Zakar ki androoni satah kisi sponge jaisi hoti hai jis mein lachakdaar raeshey aur khoon ki sharyanei'n hoti hain. Jab inn naaliyon mein khoon jata hai to iss mein tanau paeda ho jata hai. Zakar kay teen hissey hotey hain:

1. Iss ka agla hissa supari ya hashfa kehlata hai, jinsi tor per mard ka sab sey hassas hissa yehi hota hai.
2. Darmiyani hissa jisey shaft kaha jata hai.
3. Aakhri jar wala hissa

Zakar kay teen ahem function hain:

1. Iss kay zaryey peeshab kharij hota hai.
2. Mubaashirat is ski madad sey ki jati hai.
3. Sperm mani kay zaryey peeshab ki nail sey kharij hotey hain.

Mardon ka doosra ahem uzu khusyey (testicles) hotey hain. Yeh do goliyon ki surat mein ek theli khusya dani (scrotum) kay ander zakar kay neechey latak rahey hotey hain. Inhein hath sey mehsoos kya ja sakta hai. Amooman baya'n khusya da'ein sey qadrey bara hota hai aur iss ey kuch neechey hota hai. Khusyon mein do tarah kay cell hotey hain. Ek qism jinsi hormone (testosterone) paeda karti hai jis sey fard mein jinsi khwahish aur zakar mein tanau paeda hota hai. Doosri qism sperms paeda karti hai jis sey bacha paeda hota hai.

Paeda'esh sey pehley yeh khusyey bachey kay paet mein hotey hain, bachey ki paeda'esh sey t hori der pehley yeh paet sey uter kar khusya dani mein aa jatey hain. Kabhi kabhar aisa bhi hota hai kay sirf ek hi khusya paet sey khusya dani mein aa jata hai doosra paet mein reh jata hai. Iss ko neechey laney kay liye operation ki zaroorat parti hai. Agar kisi wajah sey doosra khusya, khusya dani (scrotum) mein na aa sakey to bhi preshan honay ki zaroorat nahi kyun kay ek khusya bhi na sirf tamam jinsi af'aal kamyabi sey anjam dey sakta hai bul kay aulad bhi paeda kar sakta hai. Merey ek client ka sirf ek hi khusya th aur uski jinsi karkardagi munasib thi.

Agar kisi wajah sey donon khusyey, khusya dani mein na utrein jo kay bohut hi kam hota hai to fard bachey to paeda na kar sakey ga, albatta mubaashirat kar sakey ga. Iss liye walaedaen kay liye zaroori hai kay bachey paeda honay kay ba'ad bachey kay khusyon ko zaroor tatol kar check kar lein. Agar kisi wajah sey khusyey neechey na utrey hun to 2 saal ki umer tak bachey ka operation kara liye jaey ta'kay khusyey neechey uter aaein.
Mard kay masaney ki pichli taraf do naaliyan hoti hain jin ko mani ki thaeliyan (seminal vesicles) kaha jata hai, mani ka ek hissa inn naaliyon mein tayyar hota hai, yeh naaliyan har waqt kam karti rehti hain, jis ki wajah sey mani ki tayyari ka amal har waqt jari rehta hai. Yeh naaliyan amooman 3.5 din ba'ad bhar jati hain.

Masaney kay mu'nh kay qareeb ek ghudood hota hai jisey prostate gland kaha jata hai iski shakal akhrot jisi hoti hai yeh sirf mardon mein hota hai, aurton mein nahin hota. Iss mein inzal kay waqt ek khas ratoobat nikalti hai jo mani mein shamil ho kar iska hissa ban jati hai. Prostate ki ratoobat mein sperms kay liye khoorak hoti hai. Prostate gland kay neechey peeshab ki nali kay qareeb ek aur gland hota hai jo cowper's gland kehlata hai. Jinsi haejaan mein ya inzal sey pehley yeh gland shaffaf ratoobat kay ek do qatrey kharij kar deta hai. (Hyde)

Zina

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Zina Ki Surtein

Zina

Adultery

Mani (semen) kay ikhraj ka chotha zarya zina hai jo kay gunah-e-kabira hai jis sey har soorat mein bachna chahiyie. Quran majeed mein irshad hai kay "zina kay qareeb na phatko, woh bohut bura fael hai aur bara hi bura rasta hai" (Bani Israel ayat 32)

Zina ki kaee surtein hain maslan

Mard ka apni biwi kay elawa kisi aur aurat sey mubaashirat (Intercourse) karna ya biwi ka apney khawand kay elawa kisi aur mard sey mubaashirat karna. Zina muashirey ki tabahi ka ek bohut bara unser (factor) hai. Isliye Islam mein zina ki sakht saza hai. Shadi shuda fard kay liye sangsaari aur ghaer shadi shuda kay liye 100 korey. Quran majeed mein irshad hai kay "zania aurat aur zani mard donon mein sey harek ko so (100) korey maro aur inn per taras khaney ka jazba Allah kay deen kay muamley mein tumko daman geer na ho, agar tum Allah aur roz-e-aakhirat per eemaan rakhtey ho aur inko saza detey waqt ahl-e-eemaan ka ek groh mojood rahey" (sura noor ayat 2)

Zina Aur Mardana Kamzori

Allah kay Nabi ney hamsaya (neighbour) ki aurat sey zina ko aam zina sey zyada bura qarar diya hai. Isi tarah qareebi rishtey daaron kay sath zina bohut hi buri harkat hai. Yaad rahey kay dakhool (penetration) kay ba'ad donon per ghusal farz ho jata hai chahey inzal ho ya na ho. Yeh jinsi bey rahravi maghrib khusoosan America mein bohut aam hai. Ek survey kay mutabiq 97% mard aur 80% aurtein shadi sey pehley mubaashirat kar chukey hotey hain. (Hyde)

Zina Ki Wajoohaat

1. Jinsi khwahish ko poora karney kay liye mard sab sey zyada pasha war aurton kay paas jatey hain, innmein aksar aurtein beemaar hoti hain jin sey sozak, aatishik aur AIDS jaisi mohlik aur khatarnaak beemari lagney ka qawi imkan hota hai, inn sey her soorat bachna chahiyie. Ba'az naujawan apni jinsi salahiyat ko check karney kay liye paeshawar aurton kay paas jatey hain. Mardana quwwat ko check karney ka yeh budtareen tareeqa hai. Jab bhi koi fard shaoori tor per apni mardana quwwat check karney ki koshish karta hai to who khauf aur ehsas-e-gunah ki wajah sey akser nakaam rehta hai. Usko ya to tanau (erection) hota hi nahin ya phir jaldi khatam ho jata hai, ya phir jald inzaal ho jata hai hala'n kay jawani mein taqreeban koi bhi fard mardana tor per kamzor nahin hota. Jis fard ko kisi bhi waqt tanau (erection) hota hai who bilkul normal hota hai, kharabi uskay dimagh mein hoti hai jis kay liye neem hakeem ya doctor ki bajaey mahir-e-nafsiyat sey elaj ki zaroorat hoti hai.

2. Zina ki bohut bari wajah bey pardagi hai. Tamam mahireen iss baat per muttafiq hain kay aurat ki sab sey bari zeenat uska chehra hai aur Islam mein zeenat ko chupaney ka hokum hai. Koi maney na maney Islam mein pardah farz hai. Jin mu'aashiron mein jitni zyada ber pardagi hai wahan utni hi zyada jinsi bey raahravi hai. Mahireen-e-nafsiyat iss baat per bhi muttafiq hain kay mard basarat sey jinsi tor per mushta'el hota hai. Yani mard kay jinsi jazbaat aurat ko dekhkar mushta'el hotey hain jab kay aurtein amooman bazarya basaarat jinsi tor per mushta'el nahin hotiin. Isliye Islam mein aurat ko pardey ka hokum diya gaya hai na kay mard ko. Waisey mardo'n ko nigaahein jhukaney ka hukum hai. Pakistan kay ek bohut barey girls college kay barey mein ma'aroof hai kay iss idaarey ki kam az kam 60% bachiyan ba asmat nahin rehtiin. Iss idarey ki taqreeban sab bachiyan bey parda hain. Darasal bey pardagi mein mard-o-khawateen kay milney kay mawaqae zyada ho jatey hain jis sey zina kay mawaqae bhi zyada paeda ho jatey hain. Pardey daar khatoon sey koi mard milney ya guftugoo karney ki koshish nahin karta.

3. Makhloot ta'aleem bhi zina ka ek ahem sabab hai. Makhloot ta'aleem mein naujawan larkey aur larkiyon ko milney kay mawaqae zyada miltey hain. Larkey , larkiyon ko flirt kartey hain aur larkiyan ishq aur shadi kay laluch mein apni esmat ga'nwa bethti hain.

4. Makhloot majalis jinsi bey rahravi ka ek bara zarya hai. America kay woh elaqey maslanCalifornia jahan aurat aur mard kay milney kay zyada mawaqae hain wahan jinsi bey rahravi zyada hai aur talaq ki sharah bhi baqi mulk kay muqabley mein zyada hai.

America mein amooman talaq ki sharah 50% sey zyada hai jab kay California mein 4 shadiyon mein sey 3 talaq per khatam hoti hain yani wahan talaq ki sharah 75% hai. Merey paas taqreeban har maah ek do case aisey zaroor aatey hain jahan makhloot majalis ki wajah sey doosri aurat ya mard mein involve ho jatey hain aur ghar bachaney kay liye humari madad talb kartey hain na janey woh shadi shuda log kitney hain jo humarey paas nahin aatey aur jinsi bey rahravi mein mubtala rehtey hain . Iss tarah na janey kitney ghar khamoshi sey ujarr jatey hain.

5. Cousin culture: humarey haan amooman bachiyan apney cousin larkon kay sath mael jol mein kuch zyada hi frank ho jati hain aur ghanto'n alaehdgi mein gupshup karti hain jis ki wajah sey larkon kop unhein flirt karney kay mawaqae mil jatey hain, iss tarah bohut si bachiyan inn cousins kay hathon lutt jati hain. Hala'n kay Allah kay Nabi ney sagey jawan behen bhaee ko bhi tanhayee mein bethney sey mana farmaya hai. Isi tarah bohut sey behnoee apni saaliyon sey flirt karney ki koshish kartey hain aur iss gunah kay murtakib hotey hain.

6. Jinsi bey rahravi ka ek aur bara sabab khawateen ka mardon kay sath kaam karna hai. Secretary level ki ek khatoon CSP officer ney mujhey bataya kay mardon kay sath kam karney wali kam az kam 50% aurtein apni izzat bachaney mein nakaam rehti hain, isliye nurses aur istaqbalia (reception) per kaam karney wali khawateen kay liye apni asmat bachana naa mumkin nahin to bohut mushkil zaroor hai. Taqreeban 100% mulazimat paesha khawateen mardon ki jinsi harassment ka shikar hoti hain.

7. Barey shehron mein jinsi bey rahravi ki ek bari wajah mard tutor hain. Bohut sey gharaney apni jawan larkiyon ko mard hazraat sey tuition parhwatey hain. Budqismati sey taqreeban har mard bachiyon ko phuslaney ki koshish karta hai. Ek naujawan larkey aur larki ko ghanton ikatthey bethney ka moqa dey kar yeh tawaqqa rakhna kay kharabi na hogi saadgi ya himaqat ki inteha hai. Ghee aag kay paas para ho aur phir bhi na pighley….na mumkin.merey paas gahey ba gahey iss tarah kay case aatey rehtey hain.

8. Budqismati sey humarey haan sex education nahin hai jis ki wajah sey taqreeban 70% sey zyada khawateen jjinsi tor per mutmaen nahin hotiin. Dunya mein sex kay ek bohut barey muhaqqiq Alfred Kinsey ney Calcutta mein ek lecture kay doran kaha kay Asian aurat maan banti hai hutta kay dadi, nani ban jati hai magar woh saari umer orgasm (jinsi lutf) hasil nahin karti. Aisi aurtein shadeed frustration ka shikar hoti hain. Aisi aurton mein kuch sabar, shukar kar leti hain, kuch nafsiyati beemariyon ka shikar ho jati hain aur kuch jinsi bey rahravi mein mubtala ho jati hain. Merey paas ek 40 sala khatoon aaee'n unhon ney mujhey bataya kay woh saari umer kabhi jinsi tor per mutmaen na huiin aura b unka gunah karney ko dil chahta hai. Na janey kitni aurtein iss wajah sey gunah mein mulawwis ho jati hain. Hum iss hawaley sey Lahore aur doosrey shehron mein har maah ek roza seminar/workshop ka intezam kartey hain jis mein azdwajii zindagi ko zyada purlutf bananey, biwi ko mutmaen karney aur ghareloo zindagi ko khushgawar bananey kay tips batatey hain.

9. Aaj kal jinsi beyrahravi ki ek ahem wajah internet chatting aur phone per gupshup hai. Bohut sey afraad ek planning kay tehet bholi bhali bachiyon ko warghalatey hain, maan baap ko chahiyie kay koshish karein kay ghar mein jawan bachiyan phone attend na karein bul kay koi mard ya bari umr ki khatoon phone sunein. Iss tarah internet istaemal karney waley bachon ki nigraani ki jaey ta'kay woh iska ghalat istaemal na kar sakein. Amooman larkey larkiyan ban kar larkiyon sey gupshup kartey hain aur phir waqt per larki ko asli soorat-e-haal sey aagah kartey hain. Ab inn haalaat mein larki kay liye peechey hutna mushkil ho jata hai iss tarah paesha war aurtein naujawan larkonka shikar karti hain.

Doosri Soorat

Mard ka mard kay sath mubaashirat karna, isko qom-e-loot ka amal (homosexuality) kaha jata hai. Islam mein fa'el aur maf'ool donon kay liye sakht saza hai. Ek barey gunah kay elawa aaj kay daur mein yeh amal AIDS aur doosri jinsi beemariyon kay phaelney ki ek bohut bari wajah hai. Yeh amooman bachpan sey shuru hota hai. Amooman fa'el aur maf'ool qareebi dost ya aziz hotey hain. Aksar fa'el bari umer ka hota hai jis ki wajah sey woh kam umer rishtey daar ya dost ko behla phusla kar ya dara dhamka kar yeh kaam karta hai. Iss kay elawa woh naujawan jo ikatthey sotey hain chahey woh sagey bhaee hi kyun nah un, ba'az auqaat iss ka shikar ho jatey hain. Merey paas iss tarah kay kaee case aatey hain jahan ek bhaee ney doosrey bhaee sey budfaeli ki. Iss sey bachney kay liye zaroori hai kay waladaen chotey bachon ki nigraani karein. Inn ko barey bachon kay sath akela na honey dein.

Kisi dost kay haan raat na guzarney dein. Khaas kar ghar mein bachey ikatthey na so'ein. Allah kay Nabi ney 10 saal ki umer kay ba'ad do afraad ko chahey larkey hun ya larkiyan, bhaee hun ya behnein, ek chadar mein soney sey mana farmaya hai. Jadeed ahl-e-ilm bhi iss baat ki sifarish kartey hain kay 9 saal kay ba'ad bachon kay bister alaehda hun. Iss kay elawa bachon ko iss sey bachney ki tarbiyat dii jaey ay ju'nji koi unn kay peeshab, pakhaney ki jagah ko chu'ey ya inn ko apna zakar pakarney ko kahey to yeh na sirf inkaar kardein bul kay foran maan ya baap ko bataein. Isi tarah kay ek walid ney apney bachon ki iss tarah tarbiyat ki hui thi. Ek tutor ney unki choti bachi sey kaha kay woh iss ka zakar (penis) pakrey, bachi hath dhoney kay bahaney ander gaee aur saari baat apney walid ko bata di. Walid ney tutor ko la'anat malamat kii aur naukri sey farigh kardiya. Iss tarahbachi jinsi tashaddud (sexual abuse) sey mehfooz rahi.

Humarey haan naukar, naukraniya'n, humsaya, qareebi aziz, bachon aur bachiyon ko jinsi tor per abuse karney ki koshish kartey hain lekin agar bachon ki tarbiyat kar di jaey to woh iss jinsi abuse sey bach saktey hain. Merey ek naujawan client ko bachpan mein inn ki naukrani jinsi tor per istaemaal karti thi. Isi tarah meri ek naujawan shadeed nafsiyati mareeza ka jab nafsiyati tajziya kyagaya to ma'aloom hua kay 5 saal ki umer mein ek humsaya ney uss kay sath budkaari ki koshish ki. Woh shadeed khaufzada ho gaee aur bhaag aaee aur maan ko bataya. Iss tarah woh aa'enda kay liye bhi mehfooz ho gaee. Iss tarah merey ek naujawan client sey uss kay sagey behnoee ney budfaeli ki aur dara dhamka kar bohut arsey tak karta raha hatta kay phir usko aadat parr gaee. Ta'hum iska elaj kiya ja sakta hai.

Teesri Soorat

Kuch log jaanwaron kay sath jinsi fael kartey hain. Yeh na sirf ek bohut bara gunah hai bul kay iss sey fard ko bohut si jinsi beemariyan lag jati hain. Iss tarah ki harkat shehron mein kam aur dehaton mein zyada hoti hai. Jaanwaron ko churaney waley naujawan amooman iss mein mulawwis ho jatey hain. Islam mein aisey fard kay liye sakht saza hai.

Hal

Hazrat Abdullah bin Mas'ood sey marvi hai kay Rasool Allah ney farmaya "Aey naujawanon tum mein jo koi nikah ki isteta'at rakhta hai woh nikah karey kay yeh ajnabi aurat ki taraf nazar karney sey rokney wala hai aur sharam gaah ki hifazat karney wala hai aur jis mein nikah ki isteta'at nahi woh rozey rakhey kat roza qatae shahoot hai" (Bukhari, Muslim)

Zina ki jin wajoohaat ka guzishta auraaq mein zikr hua hai unka tadaruk kya jaey. Bey hayaee, uryaani, bey pardagi, fahaashi aur makhloot majalis waghaera ka khatima kya jaey. Sports aur doosri masbat sargarmiyon ko farogh diya jaey.

Khudlazzati Ya Mushtzani Sey Sukoon

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Khudlazzati Ya Mushtzani Sey Sukoon

Mujhey ehtilam bohut hota tha, ek raat mein do baar tak. Iss wajah sey mujhey is ski zaroorat hi nahin parri. Humara maqsad sirf yeh hai kay iss mozou per mua'ashirey mein paee janey wali ghalat fehmiyon ki haqeeqat beyan karein, ta'hum iss kay koi nuqsaanat nahin aur na hi yeh gunah-e-kabeera hai.

Khudlazzati/Mushtzani Ki Wajoohaat

Khudlazzati/Mushtzani ki bohut si wajoohaat hain chund ahem mandarja zael hain.

Khudlazzati/Mushtzani ki sab sey bari wajah yeh hai kay baloghat mein jinsi ghudood ki kaarkardagi ki wajah sey mani (semen) banney lagti hai chu'n kay hum mani ko mehfooz (store) nahin kar saktey aur iss ka nikaas bohut zaroori hai ab agar fard kay paas mani kay ikhraj ka ja'ez zarya mojood nahin aur isey aksar ehtilam bhi nahin hota to phir baligh fard mushtzani kay zaryey iss liquid ko kharij karta hai.
Doosri bari wajah burey doston ki suhbat hai. Yeh dost inn ko baloghat kay aaghaz hi mein khudlazzati sey na sirf aagah kartey hain bul kay inn ki tarbiyat bhi kartey hain, hala'n kay agar inn ko ilm na hota to mumkin tha kay inn ko ehtilam honay lagta aur unko mushzani ki zaroorat hi mehsoos na hoti.
Aaj kal naujawan bul kay shadi shuda afrad bhi gandi (blue) films dekhtey hain khusoosan internet kay zaryey fahash mawad sex sites dekhtey hain unhein dekh kar unn kay jazbaat mushta'el ho jatey hain, unki fori taskeen kay liye mushtzani kar letey hain.
4. Ba'az khawateen apney khawand kay sath bharpoor jinsi ta'awwun nahin kartiin jis ki wajah sey unki azdwajii zindagi jinsi taskeen sey mehroom hoti hai phir aisey log zina ki bajaey khudlazzati kay zaryey jinsi taskeen (sexual release) hasil kar letey hain.

5. Ba'az gharon mein kamrey kam magar afraad ki ta'adaad zyada hoti hai jis ki wajah sey mian biwi ko mubaashirat kay mawaqae jald nahin miltey. Iss soorat-e-haal mein biwi to apney aap per control kar leti hai magar khawand nahin kar pata chunancha woh zina ki bajaey mushtzani ka sahara leta hai.

Mushtzani Per Control
Agarcha mushtzani kisi bhi tarah sey nuqsan deh nahin magar phir bhi aap isey control karna chahein to aisa kar saktey hain, kam az kam iss ki ta'adaad (frequency) ko kam kya ja sakta hai. Iss soorat mein amooman ehtilam mein izafa ho jata hai. Jis sey pareshan honay ki zaroorat nahin.
Mushtzani ko control karney ka sab sey mu'asser aur aasan zarya shadi hai. Jab fard shadi kar leta hai to phir uski mani kharij hoti rehti hai jis ki wajah sey woh mushtzani karney per majboor nahin hota. Shaadi kay ba'ad yeh aadat khud ba khud khatam ho jati hai. Isliye Allah kay Nabi ney jald shaadi karney ki taakeed farmaee hai.
Gandi filmein, kahaniya'n, fahash kutub, tasaweer, naghmaat aur suhbat sey bachein. Yeh cheezein fard mein jinsi haejaan paeda karti hain aur phir fard mushtzani karney per majboor ho jata hai.
3. Khelon ki taraf zyada tawajjuh dii jaey. Pasandeeda khelon mein hissa liye jaey. Agar fard khelon mein bharpoor hisa ley to uski tawajja sex ki taraf kam ho jati hai, aur mushtzani ki ta'adaad (frequency) bohut kam hop jati hai.

4. Masbat mashagil (hobbies) ko ikhtiyar kya jaey, laziman kuch waqt rozana sehat mand mashaghil mein sarf kya jaey, iss sey khudlazzati ki taraf tawajja kam ho jaey gi.

5. Rafah-e-aamma kay kaamo'n mein dilchaspi lein, muhalley ki behetri kay liye koi kaam karein, logon ki khidmat karein, boorho'n ki madad karein.

6. Amooman fard kisi ek khaas jagah mushtzani karta hai, phir woh jab bhi uss jagah jata hai to woh bey ikhtiyar mushtzani kar leta hai, chunancha aaenda jab bhi mushtzani karna chahein to jagah badal lein. Iss sey mushtzani ki ta'adaad (frequency) kam ho jaey gi.

7. Aksar auqaat fard ek khaas waqt per mushtzani k arta hai amooman naujawan raat ko kartey hain, aaenda raat kay bajaey subah karein, chund dino'n kay ander mushtzani ki ta'adaad kafi kam ho jaey gi.

8. Aksar naujawan ek khaas ta'adaad mein mushtzani kartey hain maslan haftey mein do baar waghaera aaenda sey iss ki ta'adaad kam kardein to aap ka control barh jaey ga.
9. Istasna (exception) ka istemaal kar lein yani note karein kay jab aap mushtzani nahin kartey to kya kartey, phir wahi mazeed karein, maslan ek larkey ko jab bbhi mushtzani ki khwahish hoti to woh koi mazhabi kitab parhney lagta, doston sey milney julney chala jata waghaera. Isey kaha jaey ga kay woh inn cheezon ko zyada karey to uski yeh aadat bohut kam ho jaey gi.

10. Jab bhi mushtzani ki khwahish ho to laziman naey kaprey pehnein [hir mushtzani karein.

11. Ju'nhi mushtzani ki khwahish paeda ho to foran na karein bul kay usey adha ghanta late kar lein.

12. Yeh bohut hi mu'asser tariqa hai, agar isey munasib tor per istemal kya jaey to mushtzani ko aasani sey control kya ja sakta hai.

a. Aaram sey kisi jagah beth jaein.
b. Aankhein bund kar lein, jism ko dheel achor dein, 10 lambey saans lein.
c. Ab tasawwur karein kay aap apni pasandeeda jagah mein mushtzani karney lagey hain aur aap ka hath apney zakar ki taraf ja raha hai magar mushtzani nahin karni, tasawwur ko bara aur roshan banaein.
d. Pehli tasweer ko ek taraf kar dein, ab doosra tasawwur karein kay ek aur 'aap' hain, usi jagah bethey hain magar mushtzani ko dil nahin kar raha. Khwahish hi nahin hai, aap bohut khush hain kay aap ko apney aap per control hai. Iss tasawwur ko bhi bara aur roshan (bright) banaein.
e. Ab doosri ba'ad wali tasweer ko chota kartey jaein hutta kay yeh ek nuqta ban jaey, aap ney aksar TV per dekha hoga kay bari tasveer sukarr kar nuqta ban jati hai aur nuqta phel kar tasveer ban jati hai.
f. Ab iss nuqtey ko pehli tasweer kay darmiyan mein rakhein aur 'shoo'n' ki aawaz nikal kar iss nuqtey ko taezi kay sath phela dein kay yeh tasveer ko dhaa'np ley. Iss tarah yeh mushq 10 baar karlein, ba'ad aza'n dobara karlein. Agar aap nuqtey ko phelaney mein chund seconds sey zyada waqt leingey to yeh tariqa mu'asser na hoga. Lehaza nuqta ko bohut taezi kay sath sath phaelaein.

13. Allah kay Nabi ney hum naujawano'n ko hukum diya kay woh roza rakhein kyun kay yeh qata'e shahoot hai.

Islam Aur Mushtzani

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Islam Aur Mushtzani

Woh log jo jail mein hotey hain ya kisi wajah sey jinsi amal sey mehroom hotey hain, unki jinsi salahiyat kam honay lagti hai yani jinsi sargarmi (activities) sey jinsi salahiyat mein izafa hota hai.

Note: mein iss hissey ko kitab mein shamil na karna chahta tha phir socha kay aisa karna ilmi bud diyaniti ho gi.

Mardon kay do ahem jinsi masa'il sur'at-e-inzal (premature ejaculation) aur namardi (impotency) hain. Inn donon amraz kay elaj ka sab sey mu'asser tareeqa elaj mushtzani hi hai jo poori dunya mein kaamyabi sey istemaal ho raha hai. Isi tarah aurton ka ek ahem jinsi masla (vaginismus) hai jis mein mubaashirat kay doran dakhool na mumkin hota hai, iss masley ka ahem hull bhi mushtzani hi hai.

Islam Aur Mushtzani

Mushtzani (masturbation) kay hawaley sey doosra ahem masla ehsaas-e-gunah ka hai. Merey ek client ney mushtzani sey bachney ki bharpoor koshish ki magar kamyaab na ho saka. Phir ehsas-e-gunah ki shiddat ki wajah sey khudkushi kii magar khushqismati sey kamyaab na ho saka. Mushtzani gunah hai ya nahi, chota gunah hai ya barra, iss per ikhtilaf-e-raey ho sakta hai magar khudkushi per to dozakh lazim ho jati hai.

Mushtzani/khudlazzati key hawaley sey ek baat zehen mein rahey kay shuru mein amooman naujawan isey shauq sey nahin kartey bul kay majbooran kartey hain. Dar asal mard kay masane

Islam Mein Mushtzani Halal Ya Haram

Yeh naaliyan taqreeban 3.5 din ba'ad bhar jati hain, mani ka ikhraj na honay per inn mein irritation aur tension hoti hai jis ki wajah sey fard khudlazzati/mushtzani per majboor ho jata hai.

Mushtzani kay hawaley sey imamo'n ki ra'ey mein ikhtilaf hai.

Imam Malik aur Imam Shafa'ee isey gunah aur haram samajhtey hain.
Imam Abuhanifa kay nazdeek gunah sey bachney kay liye ba'waqt-e-zaroorat ki ja sakti hai aur Khuda maaf farma dey ga.
Imam Han'bal isey ja'ez samajhtey hain aur in kay nazdeek iss ka koi gunah nahin.

Islam mein halal aur haram bohut wazeh hain. Islam ka ek bunyaadi usool yeh hai kay har cheez halal hai jab tak Allah aur uskay Rasool ney usko haram na qarar diya ho. Quran Majeed mein mushtzani kay haram honay ka kahin bhi wazeh zikr nahin. Ba'az ulma'a ney sura Momineen ki aayat 5,6 :

"yaqeenan falah paee eeman laney walo'n ney jo …apni sharamgaho'n ki hifazat kartey hain, siwaey apni biwiyon aur londiyon kay"

sey akhaz karney ki koshish ki hai kay yeh haram hai jab kay bohut sey doosrey ulma'a ney yeh mafhoom nahin liye. Kuch ney kaha kay iss sey muraad mat'aa hai ba'az ney kaha kay iss sey muraad zina hai. Yani iss hawaley sey ahl-e-ilm mein khasa ikhtilaaf hai. Agar iss sey murad mushtzani li jaey to phir iss sey yeh nukta bhi nikalta hai kay biwi aur londi ki har cheez ja'ez hai aur halal hai yani maq'ad mein mubaashirat karna bhi ja'ez aur halal hoga.

Gunah e Kabira: Ramazan Roza Imam

To phir iss per yeh daleel di jati hai kay amal-e-qom-e-loot ko to Quran mein wazeh tor per haram qaraar diya gaya hai. Quran majeed kay muta'alley sey ek baat samney aati hai kay ba'az jagah Quran majeed ney ek cheez ki hurmat ki taraf sirf ishara kya magar kisi doosri jagah isey wazahat sey haram qarar dey diya gaya. Yani koi aisa gunah-e-kabeera nahin jis ko Quran-o-hadees mein wazahat sey beyan na kya gaya ho. Chunancha Quran majeed mein mushtzani kay haram honay ki koi wazeh ayat mojood nahin. Iss tarah Allah kay nabi ney bhi isey haram qaraar nahi diya. Meine ahadees ki ahem kutub ko chaan maara, mujhey mushtzani ki hurmat per koi ek bhi hadees nahin mili. Sirf Anas bin Malik kay hawaley sey ek hadees ka zikr aata hai magar ahl-e-ilm ney isey ghareeb qarar diya hai kyun kay is ski sanad mein ba'az ravi majhool aur za'eef hain.

Phir meine ulma-e-ahl-e-hadees aur ahnaaf sey bhi raabta kiya to woh bhi kisi sahi hadees ki taraf meri rehnumaee nahin kar sakey, yeh masla mojooda daur ki paedawar nahin bul kay Allah kay nabi kay daur mein bhi tha. Meri naqis ra'ey mein Allah aur us kay nabi ney iss masley sey sarf-e-nazar kya hai. Chunancha Imam Zehbi ney apni mashhoor kitab 'Gunah-e-Kabeera Ki Kitab' mein 79 gunah-e-kabera ka zikr kya hai. Jo darj zael hain:

1. Allah kay sath shirk karna 2. Qatal karna

3. Jadu karna 4. Namaz chorna
5. Zakat ada na karna 6. Mah-e-Ramzan ka roza bina uzr chorna

7. Taqat kay bawajood Haj na karna 8. Walaedaen ki nafarmani karna

9. Qareebi rishtey daaron sey qata'a ta'alluq kar lena aur sila rehmi na karna

10. Zina karna 11. Amal-e-qom-e-loot 12. Soodi laen daen

13. Yateem ka maal khana 14. Allah aur Rasool per jhoot bolna

15. Maedan-e-jang sey farar 16. Hakim-e-waqt ka re'aya ko dhoka dena aur unn per zulm karna 17. Ghamand karna aur deengein marna

18. Jhooti gawahi dena 19. Sharab peena 20. Jua baazi

21. Paakdaman aurton per tohmat lagana 22. Maal-e-ghaneemat mein khayanat karna 23. Chori karna 24. Daaka dalna

25. Jhooti qasam khana 26. Zulm-o-zyaditi karna

27. Ghunda tax wasool karna 28. Haram khana 29. Khudkushi karna

30. Aksar baton mein jhoot bolna 31. Allah kay qanoon sey hutt kar faisla karna 32. Faisla karney per rishwat lena 33. Jins-e-mukhalif ki mushabihat ikhtiyar karna 34. Dayyoosi ikhtiyar karna yani apney ghar walon mein akhlaqi buraee (zina) ko bardaasht karna

35. Halala karney wala aur halala karwaney wala

36. Peeshaab kay chee'nton sey perhaez na karna

37. Jaanwaron kay mu'nh per daagh lagana

38. Dunya kay husool kay liye ilm hasil karna aur ilm ko chupana

39. Khayanat karna 40. Ehsaan jatlana

41. Taqdeer ko jhutlana 42. Logon ki posheeda baton kit oh lagana

43. Chughal khori karna 44. Bilawajah la'anat karna

45. Dhoka dena aur ahed poora na karna

46. Najoomi aur kahan ki tasdeeq karna

47. Khawand ki nafarmani karna 48. Bilazaroorat tasweer banana

49. Museebat kay waqt tamanchey marna, noha karna, kaprey pharna, ser kay baalon ko mundwadena, baalon ko nochna, halakat aur tabahee ki bud dua'en karna 50. Zulm aur sarkashi karna

51. Kamzor ghulam, londi, biwi ya janwar per zulm karna

52. Parosi ko takleef dena 53. Musalman ko takleef ya gali dena

54. Takabbur ya baraee ki gharz sey tehband takhno'n sey neechey rakhna

55. Soney chaandi kay bartanon mein khana peena

56. Mardon ka sona ya resham pehenna 57. Ghulam ka bhaag jana

58. Ghaer Allah kay naam per zibah karna

59. Jaan boojh kar haqeeqi nasb ka izhar karna

60. Jhagraloo pan ka muzahira karna

61. Izaafi pani rok lena 62. Kam tolna yak am naapna

63. Allah ki tadbeero'n sey bey khauf hona

64. Murdaar ya khinzeer ka gosht khana

65. Juma'a aur farz namaz ko terk kardena

66. Ba jama'at ki bajaey tanha namaz parhna

67. Allah ki rehmat sey mayoos hona

68. Musalman ko kafir kehna 69. Dhoka fareeb dena

70. Sahaba karam mein sey kisi ko gaali dena

71. Ghalat faisla karney wala qazi

72. Jhagrey kay doran gaaliyan dena 73. Nasb ka tana dena

74. Mayyat per noha karna 75. Zameen kay nishanaat mitana

76. Ghalat rivaj paeda karna ya gumraahi ki da'awat dena

77. Ja'ali husn paeda karna

78. Musalman ki taraf aslaha kay sath ishara karna

79. Hudood-e-haram mein zyaditi karna

poori fehrist ka ba ghor jaeza lein, iss fehrist mein kahin khudlazzati ka zikr nahin.

Ek zamaney mein mujhey haerat thi kay ek kaam jisey 95% log karney per majboor hain, woh gunah hai. Ab ilm hua kay Allah aur uskay Rasool ney iss masley mein sukoot farmaya hai, magar humarey ba'az ulma'a ney isey haram qarar dey diya. Iss ka maqsad yeh nahin kay hum khudlazzati/mushtzani ki wakalat kar rahey hain na hum iska mashwara detey hain kay sab larkon aur naujawanon ko aisa karna chahiyie, meine khud nahin kii.

Larkon Kay Masail Aur Jinsi Mughalitey

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Larkon Kay Masail

Jinsi Mughalitey

Masail Aur Unka Hal

Baloghat kay waqt bachon kay jism mein bohut si jismani tabdeeliyan aati hain. Maslan zer-e-naaf baalon ka aajana, larkon ko shahoot ka zyada aana aur phir shahoot ki wajah sey zakar sey laesdaar liquid ka kharij hona. Jins-e-mukhalif ki taraf kashish mehsoos karna, larkon ko ehtilam aur larkiyon o mahwari ka khoon aana waghaera. Aksar naujawano'n ko shak hota hai kay yeh tabdeeliyan normal hain ya abnormal. Badqismati sey humarey naujawano'n ko iss silsiley mein durust ma'aloomaat nahin miltiin chuna'ncha neem hakeem aur deewari ishtehaaraat ki ma'aloomaat ki wajah sey aksar naujawan inn fitri tabdeeliyon ko khatarnaak jinsi aur jismani beemariyan samajh letey hain aur phir pareshan ho jatey hain. Iss pareshani aur zehni daba'u (stress) ki wajah sey woh mukhtalif nafsiyati aur jismani beemariyon ka shikar ho jatey hain maslan yeh naujawanamooman depression ka shikar ho jatey hain. Iss marz mein fard shadeed udaasi aur afsurdagi mehsoos karta hai, iss ka kisi cheez mein dil nahin lagta, kuch karney ko dil nahin karta, tanhaee pasand ho jata hai, uski neend urr jati hai, bhook khatam ho jati hai wazen kam ho jata hai. Fard kay jism kay mukhtalif hisson mein dard honay lagta hai aur phir usey yaqeen ho jata hai kay usey waqaee koi khatarnaak beemari lag gaee hai. Phir yeh naujawan kisi neem hakeem kay hutthey charh jatey hain jo unhein batatey hain kay unko koi khatarnaak qism ki jismani aur jinsi beemari lag gaee hai.

Mani Ka Ikhraj

Jis kay elaj kay liye kafi raqam aur waqt ki zaroorat hai. Ghareeb sey ghareeb naujawan bhi kisi na kisi tarah sey elaj kay liye moti raqam paeda karta hai, chahey usey chori hi kyun na karni parey. Ba'az naujawan to elaj kay liye maan kay zaewer tak baech detey hain. Yeh hakeem naujawanon ko steroids waghaera detey hain jinhein kha kar aksar naujawan kisi na kisi muhlik beemari mein mubtala ho jatey hain. Bohut sey shadi shuda joron mein inhi mughaliton (misconceptions) ki wajah sey alaehdgi ho jati hai.

Amooman 15 aur 20 saal ki umer mein jinsi ghudoodon ki kaarkardagi ki wajah sey naujawan larkon mein mani (semen) zyada bannney lagti hai jiski wajah sey naujawanon mein jinsi aasoodgi ki shadeed khwahish paeda honay lagti hai aur mukhtalif tareeqo'n sey apni jinsi aasoodgi hasil karney ki fikr kartey hain kyun kay hum mani ko mehfooz nahin kar saktey chuna'ncha iska ikhraj zaroori hai aur yeh ikhraj ek sehat mand uzwiati amal hai. Yeh ikhraj jaez ho sakta hai aur na jaez bhi, halal bhi aur haram bhi. Yeh shaoori ho sakta hai aur ghaer shaoori (ehtilam) bhi.

Mani (semen) kay ikhraj kay 4 zaryey hain.

1. Shaadi 2. Ehtilam 3. Khudlazzati 4. Zina

Har baligh fard mazkoora 4 zaryon mein sey ek aadh zarya zaroor ikhtiyar karta hai, mujhey aisey kisi fard ki talaash hai jo jawan hai aur jinsi aasoodgi kay liye mazkoora 4 mein sey koi bhi zarya ikhtiyar nahin karta. Agar aap hain to mujh sey fori raabta karein aap ka naam 'Guiness Book Of World Records' mein shamil hoga.

Shaadi (Marriage)

Mani (semen) kay ikhraj ka sab sey behter zarya shaadi hai isi liye Allah kay nabi ney nay taakeed ki hai kay baaligh hotey hi fard ki shaadi kar di jaey ta'kay who gunaho'n sey bach jaey. Shaadi ki wajah sey fard na sirf gunaho'n sey bach jata hai bulk ay mani kay ikhraj ki wajah sey woh jismani aur zehni tor per pursukoon ho jata hai. Biwi sey mubaashirat sirf faraj mein karney ki ijazat hai. Maq'ad(anus) mein mubaashirat qata'an haram hai.

Hazrat Abu Hurera sey rivayat hai kay Hazrat Muhammad ney farmaya kay apni biwi kay paas maq'ad (anus) mein aaney wala mal'oon hai. (Ahmed, Abudaud)

Maghrib mein taqreeban 30% mard kabhi na kabhi aurat ki maq'ad (anus) mein mubaashirat kartey hain, yaad rahey kay dakhool (penetration) kay ba'ad donon per ghusal farz ho jata hai chahey inzal ho ya na ho.

Shadi bhi kisi aurat kay sath ho. Maghrib mein to shadi mard kay sath bhi hoti hai j okay ek bohut bara gunah hai. Badqismati sey humarey haan bhi aisey log mojood hain jo ayrat ki nisbat mard sey jinsi fael ko terjeeh detey hain yeh ek nafsiyati beemari hai jis ka nafsiyati elaj mumkin hai. Humarey haan yeh sahoolat mojood hai.

Ehtilam (Nocturnal Ejaculation)

Ek dubla patla naujawan merey clinic mein aaya, woh bohut pareshan tha. Uss ney bataya kay woh din ba din kamzor hota ja raha hai, uski mardana quwwat khatam hoti ja rahi hai. Meine wajah poochi to batay akay usey haftey mein ek baar ehtilam ho jata hai. Meine uss sey poocha kay kya woh bachpan mein mota taza tha uss ney bataya kay woh bachpan hi sey dubla patla hai. Meine poocha kay kya usey bachpan mein bhi ehtilam hota tha uss ney naïf mein sar hilaya yani uss kay dubley pan ki wajah ehtilam na tha magar woh iss ko wajah samajh kar pareshan tha.

Mani kay ikhraj ka doosra behter rasta ehtelam hai jin naujawano ko mubashirat ya khud lazzati ka kasrat sey moqa nahin milta unn ko ehtilam ho jata hai. Yani sotey mein khwab mein ya khwab kay baghaer peeshab kay rasta mani kharij ho jati hai. Iss kay baad ghusal farz ho jata hai, albatta iss sey roza nahin tootta. Hazrat AbuHurera sey marvi hai kay RasoolAllah ney farmaya kay teen cheezon sey roza nahin tootta, pachna, qaey aur ehtilam. (Abudaud)

Yeh amal 8, 10 saal ki umer sey shuru ho sakta hai. Behter hai kay bachay ko iss kat muta'alliq paeshgi bata diya jaey warna isey jinsi beemari samajh ley ga aur khauf zada aur pareshan ho jaey ga. Phir kisi neem hakeem kay hutthey charh kar sehat aut rupya zaya karey ga. Ehtilam ek bilkul normal aur sehat mand uzwiati amal yakaifiyat hai jis kay barey mein pareshan honay ki zarorat nahin.

Ehtilam Kay Farzi Burey Asraat: Kamzor Dimagh Khauff

Albatta agar yeh 6, 7 saal ki umer mein shuru ho jaey to phir kisi mahir urologist sey mashwara kar liye jaey.

Ehtilam waley khush qismat hain kyun kay woh iss tarah mani kay ikhraj ki wajah sey khudlazzati aur zina sey bach jatey hain. Yeh rozana ho sakta hai bul kay ek raat mein do teen baar bhi ho sakta hai. Ek mashhoor muhaqqiq Kinsey kay survey kay mutabiq yeh ek haftey mein 12 dafa bhi ho sakta hai. Yeh na sirf naujawano ko hota hai bul kay 70 saala boorhey, jis ko m ubaashirat ka moqa nahin milta, ko bhi ho sakta hai. Ta'hum yeh chahey kitni hi martaba kyun na ho ek normal amal hai, kyun kay mani ka ikhraj ek sehat mand amal hai. Insan ki sehat per iss kay koi burey asraat nahin partey. Saarey doctors, reasearchers, mahireen-e-nafsiyat aur jadeed ilm sey aagaah hakeem iss baat sey poori tarah ba khabar hain kay ehtilam koi nuqsan deh cheez nahin. Chuna'ncha yeh baat poorey daawey sey kahi ja sakti hai kay ehtilam kay kisi bhi tarah kay burey asraat nahin.

Allbatta neem hakeem naujawano ko ehtilam kay farzi burey asraat aur tabah kaariyon sey khauf zada kar detey hain, jin mein sey chund yeh hain_

Ehtilam sey dimagh aur hafiza kamzor ho jata hai._parhney ko dil nahin karta (parhney ko kis talibilm ka dil karta hai) yaad kya hua yaad nahin rehta_beenaee kamzor ho jati hai_a'asaab kamzor parr jatey hain_fard khauf aur ghabraahat ka shikar ho jata hai_uss kay dil ki dharkan taez ho jati hai_aankhon kay aagey andhera cha jata hai_chusti, chalaki khatam ho jati hai_chehra bey ronaq ho jata hai_badan susu aur kamzor parr jata hai_fard zara si mehnat sey thak jata hai_kisi kaam mein dil nahin lagta.

Ehtilam Kay Farzi Burey Asraat: Khauff

Albatta agar yeh 6, 7 saal ki umer mein shuru ho jaey to phir kisi mahir urologist sey mashwara kar liya jaey.

Taangon aur kamar mein dard mehsoos hota hai_fard susti, kaahili aur udaasi mehsoos karta hai_mizaj chirrchira ho jata hai_ehsaas-e-kamtari ki wajah sey fard kisi sey aankh mila kar baat nahin kar sakta.

Yaqeen karein kay inn tabah kaariyon ki koi haqeeqat nahi. Albatta kuch log ehtilam kay ba'ad kuch kamzori aur doosri jismani aur nafsiyati alamaat (symptoms) ki shikayat kartey hain. Iss ki wajah manfi suggestions hain jo humein ghaer meyari kutub aur deewaron per ishtehaarat sey milti hain jin mein ehtilam ki tabah kaariyon ka zikr hota hai. Phir fard sochta hai kay woh kamzor ho jaey ga to woh kamzor ho jata hai, dar asal insan jaisa sochta hai waisa hi mehsoos karney lagta hai.

You Are What You Think

Hath halka bhari honey ka tajurba

Ek tajurba karein, kisi pur sukoon jagah beth jaein, aankhein bund kar lein, donon baazu aagey ko kar lein aur tasawwur karein kay aap kay da'ein hath per ek hot air balloon bandha hua hai, jo aap kay hath ko ley kar ooper ja raha hai aur doosrey hath kay ooper ek moti dictionary hai uss kay bojh ki wajah sey baya'n hath neechey jar aha hai, aap kuch der sochein aur tasawwur karein, hath khud ba khud halka aur bhar ho jaey ga.

Iss kamzori ki bari wajah inn farzi tabah kaariyon ka khauf aur zehni dabau (stress) hota hai jis ki wajah sey fard depression ka shikar ho jata hai.

Zehni Dabau Aur Ehsaas e Gunah

Depression mein fard shadeed afsurdagi aur udaasi mehsoos karta hai, uski neend urr jati hai, bhook khatam ho jati hai jiski wajah sey woh kamzor honay lagta hai. Iss kay elawa zehni dabau (stress) ki wajah se fard bohut si doosri jismani beemariyon ka shikar ho jata hai. Ab tehqeeq sabit ho chuka hai kay nafsiyati beemariyon ki sab sey bari wajah zehni dabau (stress) hai. Iss kay elawa 50 ta 80% jismani beemariyon ki wajah bhi zehni dabau hota hai. Iss sey ulcer sey cancer tak ho jata hai. Haqeeqat yeh hai kay ehtilam kay jinsi, zehni aur jismani sehat per koi burey asraat nahin partey.

Iss ki ek aur wajah fard ki tawaqqa (expectation) bhi hai. Insaan jaisi tawaqqa karta hai waisa hi mehsoos karney lagta hai yani waisa hi ho jata hai. Ek American doctor Norman ney ek dilchasp tajurba kya, iss tajurbey mein 10 log shamil thay. Inn mein Dr.Norman khud bhi shamil tha. 10 log ek hotel mein ikatthey huey. Dr. Norman ney unn sey poocha kay woh agley saal kis cheez ki tawaqqa kartey hain. Har fard ney apni tawaqqa ek kaghaz per likhi aur inn sab ko alaehda alaehda envelope mein bund kar diya gaya. Ek saal ba'ad yeh sab log isi hotel mein ikatthey huey, inn mein ek fard na aaya. Ek ek kar kay sab kay envelope kholey gaey har fard ney jiski tawaqqa ki thi uss nay taqreeban woh cheez hasil karli thi. Ghaer hazir fard ka envelope aakhir mein khola gaya iss mein darj tha kay humarey khandaan mein mardon ki umrein zyada lambi nahin hotiin lehaza mera khayal hai kay mein agley saal tak zinda na rahun ga, aur woh faut ho chuka tha.

Naujawan amooman pehley mushtzani (masturbation) shuru kartey hain, phir ehsaas-e-gunah aur iss kay farzi asraat kay khauf sey

Ehtilam Ki Wajoohaat

Mushtzani chor detey hain magar mushtzani chortey hi unn ko ehtilam shuru ho jata hai. Phir naujawan ajeeb makhmasey mein phans jatey hain kay mushtzani karein to shadeed ehsas-e-gunah aur jinsi kamzori ka ehsaas aur mushtzani chorein to ehtilam aur phir jismani aur jinsi kamzori ka khuaf aur ehsaas.

Ehtilam Ki Wajoohaat

Iss ki wajah to yeh hoti hai kay fard ki mani ka kisi aur zaryey sey ikhraj nahin hota to iss tarah sey ikhraj ho jata hai kyun kay koi fard mani ko mehfooz nahin kar sakta.
Romantic films, fahash films, tasaweer, kahaniyan, fahash baatein aur internet per sex sites ka visit bhi iss ka ek ahem sabab hain.
larki kay sath romantic mahol mein guzara hua waqt jis mein mubaashirat ki shadeed khwahish ho jo poori na hui ho, iss tarah ehtilam kay zaryey khwab mein fard woh khwahish poori kar leta hai.
Narm bister, tung patloon aur underwear bhi ek ahem wajah hai.
Soney sey qabal peeshab na karna ya soney mein peeshab ko rokna waghaera bhi wajah ban jati hai.

Mahireen ka khayal hai kay ehtilam ko bund karney ki koshish na ki jaey, agar mani kay ikhraj ka yeh acha raasta bund ho gaya to woh fard doosrey ghalat raastey talash kar ley ga, phir woh khudlazzati karey gay a zina mein mubtala ho jaey ga. Amooman woh naujawan jin ko zyada ehtilam hota hai woh khudlazzati (masturbation) nahin kartey.

Ehtilam Ki Wajoohaat: Shaadi Tawajjuh

Ehtilam ghaer shadi shuda afraad kay elawa shadi shuda afraad ko bhi ho jata hai jin ko biwi sey mubaashirat ka jald ya kasrat sey moqa nahin milta, ta'hum isey kisi hudd tak kam kya ja sakta hai. Iss kayliye gandi filmon, kahaniyion, tasaweer, sex sites, dramon, gaanon aur buri sohbat sey bacha jaey, sports mein zyada dilchaspi lii jaey, rafahee kaamon mein hissa liye jaey, deen ki taraf zyada tawajjuh dii jaey. Raat ka khana kam aur jald khaya jaey. Raat kay khaney kay ba'ad saer ki jaey, sotey waqt garam doodh aur chaey na pii jaey, sotey waqt zyada pani na piya jaey. Bister bohut narm na ho, isi tarah kaprey khusoosan underwear tung na ho. Soney sey pehley peeshab zaroor kar liye jaey. Sotey mein jab bhi peeshaab ki hajat ho to foran neend sey baedaar ho kar peeshab kar liye jaey. Peeshab rokney ki zaroorat mein ehtilam kay imkanaat bohut barh jatey hain. Waisey ehtilam koi beemari nahin, iss ka koi nuqsaan nahin aur na hi iss kay elaj ki koi zaroorat hai

Khudlazzati Sey Kamzori

Khudlazzati

Masturbation

26 sala Asif elaj kay liye merey clinic aaya. Masley ki tafseel batatey huey uss ney bataya kay woh bohut kamzor ho chuka hai. Din ba din uski mardana quwwat khatam hoti ja rahi hai aur ab woh biwi kay qabil nahin raha. Usey shadeed ehsaas-e-gunah bhi tha, ek baar khudkushi ki koshish bhi kar chuka hai. Uss ney bataya kay woh mushtzani (masturbation) ka shikar hai aur koshish kay ba wajood isey chor nahin saka.

Mani (semen) kay ikhraj ka teesra aur ahem zarya khudlazzati aur mushtzani hai isey hathrasi, dastkashi aur handpractice bhi kaha jata hai.

Khudlazzati aur mushtzani mein ma'amooli sa farq hai. Khudlazzati sey muraad yeh hai kay fard mubaashirat kay elawa kisi bhi aur tareeqey sey mani kharij karey. Khudlazzati ka sab sey ahem zarya mushtzani hai. Mushtzani sey muraad apney hath sey ya kisi doosrey kay hath sey mani ka ikhraj karna. Ba'az mahireen (oral) mu'nh sey sex ko bhi khudlazzati mein shamil kartey hain. Yeh baat yaad rahey kay mani kay ikhraj sey roza toot jata hai aur fard per ghusal wajib ho jata hai. (mishkat)

Khudlazzati kay bohut sey tareeqey hain sab sey aam to zakar (penis) ko hath sey mushta'el karna hai.

Khudlazzati Ya Mushtzani Sey Pareshan Naujawan

Magar ba'az log maq'ad (anus) aur peeshab ki naali mein koi cheez daakhil kar kay bhi jinsi lutf uthatey hain. Maq'ad aur peeshab ki naali mein koi cheez daakhil karna muhlik ho sakta hai. Iss sey har soorat bachna chahiyie. Mera ek client apni peeshab ki naali mein kabhi pencil, kabhi tinka daakhil kya karta tha.

Humarey haan sab sey zyada ghalat baatein (myths) mushtzani kay hawaley sey mashhoor hain. Jinhon ney naujawan nasal ko pareshan kar rakha hai. Mushtzani mein fard hath sey apni jinsi khwahish ko poora karta hai. Naujawan iss amal ko haftey mein ek ya do baar kar letey hain. Merey ba'az client rozana aur ba'az ek din mein 6 ya 7 baar tak kar letey hain. Mera ek shadi shuda client 24 ghanto'n mein 15 dafa tak karleta tha. Iss ney aisa kaee baar kya. Yani woh jagtey mein taqreeban har ghantey mein ek baar kar leta tha, woh abhi zinda hai, kaee bachon ka baap hai. Kitabon mein ek aisey fard ka bhi zikr milta hai jo har ghantey mein 3 ya 4 baar mushtzani kar leta tha.

Hindustan, Pakistan mein naujawanon ka sab sey ahem masla mushtzani hai. Yeh masla mardon mein zyada aur aurton mein kam hai. Mukhtalif researchers (muhaqqaqeen) kay mutabiq 95 ta 99% mard iss aadat ka shikar hain. Ma'aroof researchers sherry,hyte kay survey kay mutabiq 99% mardon ney kabhi na kabhi mushtzani ki hai. Mashhoor mahir-e-nafsiyat Fryde ka khayal hai kay saarey mard kabhi na kabhi khudlazzati kartey hain albatta 95% iqraar kartey hain aur baqi 5% jhoot boltey hain. Magar research aur mera clinic ka tajurba fryde kay iss khayal ki tardeed karta hai yani 1% khudlazzati nahin kartey

Khudlazzati Ya Mushtzani: Umar Jinsi Suroor

Mein aisey logon sey waqif hun jinhon ney kabhi khudlazzati nahin ki albatta unko ehtilam khoob hota tha. Bohut sey bachey 10 saal ki umer sey pehley mushtzani shuru kardetey hain. Ba'az bachey 6 maah ki umer sey mushzani karney lagety hain, albatta inka andaz baron sey mukhtalif hota hai maslan maan bachey ko nehaltey waqt jab uss kay zakar ko mul kar saaf karti hai to usey shahoot aa jati hai aur uska zakar akarr jata hai yani usey erection ho jati hai. Isi tarah aap ney dekha hoga kay 6, 7 maah ka bacha bister per leta apney akrey zakar sey khel raha hai (choti umer kay bachey agar apney zakar ko chaerein to unko daantney ki bajaey unki tawajjah kisi aur taraf kar dein) iss umer mein bachon ko jinsi suroor-o-lutf (orgasm) to hasil hota hai magar inzal nahin hota. Mani ka ikhraj ya baloghat kay ba'ad hota hai. Merey paas ek bacha laya gaya bachey ki umer 4 saal thi woh apney zakar ko maan ya baap kay jism sey ragerr kar suroor hasil karta. Yaad rahey kay bachey kop maan kay paet mein tanau (erection) ho jata hai. (Hyde)

Agarcha khudlazzati ka zyada ter shikar larkey hotey hain jin ki shadi na hui ho magar ab jadeed research sey ma'aloom hua hai kay shadi shuda mard bhi iss aadat mein mulawwis hain.

Mashhoor American muhaqqiq Kinsey ki research kay mutabiq America 70% shadi shuda graduate saal mein taqreeban 24 baar mushtzani karletey hain yani ek maah mein do baar tak mushtzani kay zaryey mard amooman 2 ta 5 minute mein inzal hasil karletey hain.

Mushtzani Kay Masail Aur Jinsi Kamzori

Jab kay aurtein 5 ta 10 minute mein jinsi urooj (orgasm) hasil karti hain.
Khudlazzati/mushtzani (masturbation) kay hawaley sey humarey haan bohut sey gumraahkun aur ghalat tasawwuraat (myths) aur kahaniyan phaeli hui hain jin se naujawan bohut zyada khaufzada hain magar woh shadi tak usey control nahin karsaktey.
Mushtzani kay hawaley sey humarey naujawan do qism kay masa'el ka shikar hain.

Jinsi, jismani aur zehni kamzori ka ehsaas aur khauf
Shadeed ehsaas-e-gunah

Mushtzani Ki 'Tabahkaariyan'

Mushtzani kay mafrroza nuqsan kay hawaley sey jitney qissey, kahaniyan aur afsaaney (myths) mashhoor hain shayed hi kisi aur cheez siwaey hypnotism kay mashhoor hun gey. Urdu mein sex ki kitab utha kar dekh lijiyie woh mushtzani kay farzi nuqsaanaat sey bhari hui hain jin mein sey chend ek darj zeal hain.

Homeo doctor Asghar Ali Chaudhri likhtey hain.

Mushtzani sey khudaetmaadi aur quwwat-e-iradi khatam ho jati hai. Dimagh aur beenaee kamzor ho jati hai. Zehni uljhanein barh jati hain. Fard tanhaee pasand ho kar zindagi kay hungamo'n sey kinara kash ho jata hai. Uzu ki makhsoos rugein ubhar aati hain aur taerha pan ho jata hai.

Mushtzani Kay Masail Aur Farzi Nuqsanaat

Darmiyan mein sey patla ho jata hai. Aisey larkey jawan ho kar amooman akhlaqi mujrim ban jatey hain. Muta'alla karney ko jii nahin chahta. Kuch yaad nahin rehta. Bey chaeni, udaasi, afsurdagi, mayoosi, ghabhrahat aur jhijhak iss per tari ho jati hai. Khelon mein hissa leney sey katratey hain. Mushtzani sey jiryan, ehtilam, sur'at-e-inzal aur na mardi tak amraz paeda ho saktey hain, maeda kharab ho jata hai, bhook marr jati hai. Raat ko wehshatnaak khwab aatey hain. Chehra har waqt bey ronaq rehta hai, gaal pichak jatey hain aur zinda laash ban kar reh jata hai.

Ma'aroof likhari aur ustaad Ali Abbas Jalalpoori irshad farmatey hain:

Kasrat-e-jalaq bilashuba ek naukhaez jism aur zehen kay aksar awariz ka sabab ban jati hai. 12, 13 saak ki umer mein kasrat-o-tawatur sey jalaq lagaee jaey to a'aza-e-tanasul ki nashaunuma rukk jati hai. Kotahi, laghari aur kaji kay ba'es majlooq muqarbat kay qabil nahin rehta. Iss ka nizam bhi ma'uf ho jata hai. Aankhein ander ko dhans jati hain. Inn kay gird kaley halqey namudaar ho jatey hain. Aankhon ki putliyan bey ronaq aur bey noor ho jati hain , chehrey ka rung matyaala ho jata hai. Chehrey per phunsiyan nikal aati hain. Hath bheegey bheegey aur sard rehtey hain, hafiza kamzor ho jata hai. Baat kartey waqt mukhatib sey aankh nahin mila sakta, na kisi masley per ghor-o-fikr kar sakta hai iss ka aetmaad-e-nafs majrooh ho jata hai, mizaj hamwaar nahin rehta. Azm-o-hosley sey sey aari ho jata hai. Matloon mizaj aur chirchira pan ho jata hai aur tootey huey jumlon mein baat karta hai. Doosrey hamjinso'n ki sohbat sey guraez karta hai aur khelon mein hissa nahin leta. Tanha idhar udher ghoomta phirta rehta hai. Libas kay maamley mein bey parwaah hota hai.

Mushtzani Kay Mafroozaat Aur Nafsiyati Uljhan

Badni safae ka khayal nahin rakhta. Shaadi kay naam sey ghabhrata hai. Jawan aurat sey baat karety huey uss ko paseeney aaney lagtey hain aur dil dhak dhak karney lagta hai. Who tashweesh ki uljhan mein mubtala ho jata hai. Bus mein safar kar raha ho to darta rehta hai kay kahin is ski takkar na ho jaey. Cinema mein betha ho to ooper dekhta hai kay kahin chutt na gir parrey. Iss kay iqdaam aur paeshraft ki quwwat slab ho jati hai aur iss mein mareezana jhijhak paeda ho jati hai. Nafsiyati rukawat kay ba'es woh ma'amooli sa kaam bhi saleeqey sey nahin kar sakta, maslan taxi waley ko awaz detey waqt, khirrki sey ticket khareedtey waqt, rail mein sawar hotey huey, public toilet ko istemal kartey waqt ghabhra jata hai. Woh na kisi kay mazaq per khul kar hans sakta hai aur na kisi museebat mein kisi sey izhar-e-hamdardi kar sakta hai. Uss ki khamoshi kay ba'es log usey mutakabbir samjhney lagety hain kyun kay woh uss kay ajeeb-o-ghareeb tarz-e-amal kay asal asbaab sey na waqif hotey hain. Usey apni alamnak haalat ka ehsas hota hai. Who zindagi kay haqa'eq sey g uraez kar kay barey barey buland nasb-ul-ain apna leta hai aur hero banney kay khwab dekhney lagta hai. Adbi zoq sey behra war hoto meyar sey gira hua adab takhleeq karta hai. Uss kay ehsaas sey zakawat aur takhayyul mein khwabnaaki si aajati hai. Who uskay shaeron aur qisson mein bhi raqeeq jazbatiyat aur alamnaak afsurdagi ka rung b harti rehti hai.

Mushtzani Kay Elaj Ki Zaroorat Nahin

Yeh ek dhoka, faraeb aur jhoot hai. Kya zyada bolney sey fard kamzor ho jata hai, ya jo fard kam bolta hai ya khamosh rehta hai woh taqatwer hota hai. Pehli baat to yeh hai kay hudd ka meyar kya hai. Har fard ki hudd doosrey sey mukhtalif hai. Ek fard ki hudd haftey mein ek baar hai jab kay doosrey ki hudd din mein ek baar hai. Ta'hum ek din mein 7/8 baar karna bhi hudd sey guzarna aur zyaditi nahin hai. Haqeeqat yeh hai kay koi bhi insaan fitri tor per hudd sey zyada mushtzani (masturbation) nahin kar sakta, kyun kay agar woh hudd sey zyada karey ga to mani (mani (semen)) khatam ho jaey gi aur zakar sooj jaey ga. Khusyon mein dard honay lagey ga, zakar sey mani kay bajaey khoon nikalney lagey ga aur infection ki wajah sey zakar mein dard honey lagey ga. Aisa to shayad hi kisi kay sath hua ho. Dilchasp baat yeh hai kay aisi surat mein chund din mushtzani chorney sey har cheez normal ho jati hai aur koi mustaqil kharabi paeda nahin hoti, yeh fitrat ka self healing system hai. Yani kisi elaj ki zaroorat nahin. Albatta zyada mushtzani aur compulsive mushtzani mein farq hai. Compulsive mushtzani mein fard baghaer kisi khwahish aur zaroorat kay mushzani karta haiojis tarah ba;'az log bar bar hath dhotey hain. Iss surat mein yeh ek nafsiyati beemari hai jis ko OCD kaha jata hai, iskay liye kisi mahir-e-nafsiyat sey elaj karaya jaey.

Ta'hem NIN kuch mushtzani kay ba'ad kamzori mehsoos kartey hain. Iski bari wajah tawaqqa (expectation) hai jis kla hum zikr kar chukey hain kay jaisa hum sochtey hain waisey hi ho jatey hain. Doosra fard mushtzani ki wajah sey shadeed ehsaas-e-gunah mehsoos karta hai.

Mushtzani Sey Depression Bhook Aur Kamzori

Fard shadeed udaasi aur afsurdagi mehsoos karta hai. Iska kisi kaam mein dil nahin lagta, tawajja muntashir ho jati hai, chirrchirra pan paeda ho jata hai. Jinsi khwahish khatam ho jati hai, fard ki bhook aur neend bhi khatam ho jati hai aur kamzor honay lagta hai, uska wazen kam ho jata hai. Ab fard ko yaqeen aa jata hai kay woh waqaee mushtzani ki wajah sey na sirf kamzor aur beemaar hogaya hai bul kay jinsi tor per bhi khatam ho gaya hai, hala'n kay iski bari wajah tawaqqa aur doosri wajah depression hai na kay mushtzani. Kamzori ki ek wajah yeh bhi hoti hai kay mushtzani kay ba'ad fard relax ho jata hai jisey woh kamzori samajh leta hai. Hala'n kay yeh sirf relaxation hoti hai na kay kamzori. Aisey naujawan jab kisi 100 sala sanyasi baba kay hatthey charh jatey hain to yeh inko bata kar kay woh jinsi tor per khatam ho chukay hain iss qadar khaufzada kardetey hain kay yeh naujawan ghurbat kay bawajood elaj per hazaron rupey kharch kar detey hain, yeh bangali baba inn naujawanon ko kashtey waghaera detey hain jo aksar muzir hotey hain. Merey aisey ek client ko kashta diya gaya jis sey uss kay gurdey nakaara ho gaey. Sarkari hospitals mein gurdey kay ward mein aksar mareez isi tarah kay hotey hain.

Haqeeqat yeh hai kay mani (semen) ka ikhraj peeshab ki tarah ek normal, mufeed aur sehat mand uzwiati amal hai. Yeh baat iss cheez sey bhi sabit hoti hai kay jab kisi naujawan ki shadi hoti hai to woh shuru mein kasrat sey mubaashirat sey lutfandoz hota hai jis sey bohut zyada mani kharij hoti hai magar iski sehat behter hoti hai.

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Jismani Nashaunuma-Balak Pan-Bachon Ki Sehat-Ikhtilaf

2009-09-19T09:46:00.000-07:00

Jismani Nashaunuma

(Physical Development)

Insaan paeda hotey hi mukammal mard ya aurat nahin ban jata. Paeda'esh sey ley kar burhapey tak insan ko kaee manazil taey karna hoti hain. Insani jismani nashaunuma ki teen ma'aroof manazil hain

1. Baalak pan 2. Bachpan 3. Baloghat

Baalak pan

Baalak pan ka aaghaz bachey ki paeda'esh sey hota hai. Sehat mand bacha amooman 280 din kay ba'ad paeda hota hai. Baalak pan mein bachey kay qadd aur wazen mein bohut taezi sey izafa hota hai. Paeda'esh kay waqt ek sehat mand bachey la wazen 6 ta 9 pound hota hai aur qadd taqreeban 18 inch kay lug bhug hota hai. Pehley saal kay aakhir tak wazen mein 3 guna aur qadd mein 40% kay hisab sey izafa ho jata hai. Doosrey saal mein bachey ki nashaunuma qadrey sust ho jati hai jo agley 2 saal mein mazeed sust ho jati hai. Ma'aroof mahir-e-nafsiyat Watson kay mutabiq 2 saal ki umer mein bachey ka average qadd 32,33 inches aur wazen 27 pound ho jata hai jab kay 5 saal ki umer mein bachey ka qadd paeda'esh kay waqt sey do guna aur wazen 5 guna ho jata hai. Bachon ki jismani nashaunuma per jinsi ikhtilafaat ka asar numaya'n hota hai, paeda'esh kay waqt male bacha qadd, wazen aur jisamat kay lehaz sey female bachey sey bara hota hai. Yeh farq baalak pan kay poorey arsey mein qa'em rehta hai.

Iss daur mein amooman larkey larkiyon sey zyada sehat mand dikhaee detey hain. Baalak pan ka daur 5,6 saal tak chalta hai.

Bachpan

5,6 saal ki umer sey ley kar 12 saal tak (larkiyon kay liye) aur 14 saal tak (larkon kay liye) ka arsa bachpan kehlata hai. Iss daur mein bachon kay qadd aur wazen mein izafa hota rehta lekin baalak pan kay daur ki nisbat iss daur mein nashaunuma ki raftaar qadrey kam hoti hai. Bachpan kay daur kay aaghaz mein sehat mand bachey ka wazen 43 pound aur qadd 44 inch ho jata hai aur ikhtetaam per qadd taqreeban 5 feet ho jata hai aur wazen 95 ta 100 pound ho jata hai. Ibteda mein larkon ki nashaunuma ki raftaar larkiyon kay muqabley main taez hoti hai lekin 10 saal ki umar kay ba'ad larkiyon kay qadd aur 11 saal ki umer kay ba'ad unn kay wazen mein larkon ki nisbat zyada izafa honey lagta hai. Larkon ki harkaat aur unki jismani kaarkardagi larkiyon sey behter hoti hai. Larkey larkiyon sey taez aur tanumand hotey hain.

Baloghat

Baloghat ka daur larkiyon kay liye larkon ki nisbat 2 saal pehley shuru ho jata hai yani larkiyon kay liye iski ibtidaa amooman 12 saal ki umer mein ho jati hai aur larkon mein 14 saal mein. Ba'az bachiyan 9 saal ki umer mein baaligh ho jati hain. Meien Bahawalpur kay ilaqey mein ek 10 saala maan dekhi. Garam ilaqo'n mein bachey jald jawan ho jatey hain. Isi tarah uryaani, beyhayaee aur fahashi kay mahol mein bhi bachey ek do saal pehley baaligh ho jatey hain. Isliye Europe aurAmerica mein bachey ab nisbatan jald baligh ho jatey hain.

Jismani Nashaunuma_Baloghat Mein Mard Aur Aurat Mein Farq

Baloghat mein bachon kay jism mein haerat angaez tabdeeliyan ru numa hoti hain. Qadd, wazen aur a'aza mein tezi sey izafa hota hai. Yeh izafa larkon mein 13 sey 15 saal ki umer kay darmiyan hota hai. Iss daur mein inn kay qadd mein kam-o-baesh 8 inch ka izafa ho jata hai aur wazen 40 pound tak barh jata hai. Larkiyon kay qadd mein 11 sey 13 saal ki umer kay darmiyan 5, 6 inch ka izafa ho jata hai. Iss kay ba'ad qadd aur wazen barhney ki raftaar sust ho jati hai. Haddiyon mein phelao aa jata hai, kandhey khuley ho jatey hain.

Iss daur kay aaghaz sey hi bachon kay jism mein aisi tabdeeliyan honey lagti hain jin sey mard aur aurat mein farq wazeh ho jata hai. Larkon kay gaal pr baal aaney shuru ho jatey hain, larkiyon ki chaatiyan ubharney lagti hain, baghlon kay elawa donon kay zer-e-naaf baal ugg aatey hain. Donon kay liye zer-e-naaf baal saaf karna sunnat hai. Larkiyon ko maahwari ka khoon aana shuru ho jata hai aur larkon ko ehtilam honey lagta hai. Iss daur mein larkiyan, larkon ki nisbat zyada dilkash nazar aati hain. Ab donon jinsi aur azdwajiii faraez ada karney kay qabil ho jatey hain.

Taaza tareen research kay mutabiq America mein larkiyon mein baloghat ka aaghaz 8 ta 13 saal ki umer kay doran chatiyon kay ubharney sey hota hai. Iss doran unn kay hips aur buttocks bhi barhney lagtey hain. Chaatiyon kay ubharney kay kuch arsa ba'ad zer-e-naaf baal aa jatey hain. 2 saal ba'ad baghlon mein baal aaney lagtey hain. Taqreeban 13 saal ki umr mein larkiyon ko pehli maahwari aati hai magar larki uss waqt tak haamla nahin hoti jab tak

Jismani Nashaunuma: Baloghat Mein Bachon Mein Jismani Tabdeeli

Ovulation shuru nahin ho jati jo amooman pehli mahwaari kay 2 saal ba'ad hoti hai. Bohut kamzor aur dubli patli larkiyon ki mahwari ka aaghaz zara der sey hota hai.

American larkion mein baloghat ka aaghaz 2 saal ba'ad 10 ta 13 saal ki umer kay doran zer-e-naaf baal aaney sey hota hai. Ek saal kay ba'ad larkon kay zakar (penis) ka size barhna shuru ho jata hai. Zer-e-naaf balon kay taqreeban 2 saal ba'ad larkon ki baghlon aur chehrey per baal aa jatey hain. Zer-e-naaf baalon kay taqreeban 1.5 saal ba'ad 13 ya 14 saal ki umer mein larkon ko pehley inzal ka tajurba hota hai iss sey pehley jinsi suroor (orgasm) to tha magar inzal na tha. 15 saal ki umer mein mani mein mojood sperms pakhta (mature) ho jatey hain jis sey bacha paeda ho sakta hai. Amooman pehley inzal jo kay khud lazzati sey hota hai kay ba'ad ehtelam shuru ho jata hai. Jo larkey khud lazzati nahin kartey unn ka pehla inzal ehtelam hota hai. (Hyde)

Jismani tabdeeliyon kay elawa zehni aur nafsiyati tabdeeliyan bhi aati hain. Bachey bey ja khauf aur wahem ka shikar ho jatey hain. Unn ki jazbati zindagi per jinsi khwashihat hawi ho jati hain. Jins-e-mukhalif ki shadeed kashish mehsoos hoti hai. Iss daur mein jinsi bey raahravi ka shadeed khatra hota hai. Iss umer mein bacho'n ko walaedaen ki mohabbat aur rehnumaee ki zyada zaroorat hoti hai.

Islami Jinsi Talim Aur Rehnuma Malumat Ki Zaroorat

2009-09-19T09:45:00.001-07:00

Aur yeh bhi haqeeqat hai kay bachey ko agar sahi zaryey sey ma'aloomat namilein to phir woh ghgalat aur tabah kun zaryey sey gumraah kun ma'aloomat hasil karta hai aur inhi ma'aloomaat ka asar hai kay naujawan tabqa jinsi aur akhlaqi tor per tabahi kay kinarey per khara hai.

Humarey khayal mein jinsi ta'aleem bachon ko ghar hi sey miley. 9/10 saal ki umer mein maan beti ko aur baap beteyko yeh ta'aleem deni shuru kardey. Research sey sabit ho chuka hai kay bachey walaedaen sey jinsi ma'aloomaat hasil karney ko tarjeeh detey hain. Iss liye yeh baat bey hudd zaroori hai kay walaedaen khud Quran-o-sunnat aur jadeed tehqeeq ki roshni mein taza aur sahi ma'aloomat hasil karein ta'kay woh agli nasal ko yeh ma'aloomat muntaqil kar kay ek pursukoon aur behter mua'ashirey ki bunyaad rakhein. Walaedaen kay elawa teachers ko bhi yeh ma'aloomat hasil karni chahiyien ta'kay woh hasb-e-zaroorat bachon ki rehnumaee kar sakein.

Yeh ta'aleem bachon ko ek dum nahin bul kay marhala waar milni chahiyie ta'hum shaadi sey pehley jinsi ta'aleem ki takmeel ho jani chahiyie. Iss ta'aleem mein bachon ko apney jismani a'aza (anatomy) aur unn kay functions (physiology) kay hawaley sey ma'aloomat frahamki jaein. Iss kay elawa mubaashirat, halal, haram, hamal, paeda'esh aur jinsi beemariyon waghaera kay hawaley sey ma'aloomat dii jaein. Khusoosan jins kay hawaley sey jitney mughalitey hain unn ki haqeeqat sey bachon ko aagah kya jaey.

Iss kay elawa bachon ko yeh ta'aleem-o-tarbiyat bhi dii jaey kay unhon neu apney aap ko jinsi tashaddud (sexual abuse) sey kis tarah bachana hai.

Quran_o_Sunnah Ki Roshni Mein Islami Jinsi Ta'aleem

2009-09-19T09:44:00.001-07:00

Hamjinsiyat na sirf gunah hai bul kay khatarnak jinsi bemariyon khusoosan AIDS waghaera kay phaelney ka mu'asser zarya hai. Kya naujawan nasal ko iss baat ka ilm nahin hona chahiyie kay mian biwi kay jinsi ta'alluqaat per sharmindagi ki koi baat nahin, yeh koi buri cheez nahin. Allah kay nabi ney biwi kay sath mubaashirat ko naeki aur sadqa qaraar diya hai. Iss tarah kyalarkiyon ko yeh ilm nahin hona chahiyie kayhaez koi bemari nahin bul kay ek fitri cheez hai jo inn ki baloghat aur takmeel ki alamat hai. Kya bachiyon ko yeh ilm nahin hona chahiyie kay leucorrhea koi beemari nahin.

Agar aap bachon ko Quran-o-sunnat aur jadeed ilm ki roshni mein khud jinsi ta'aleem nahin deingey to bachey yeh ma'aloomat apney doston, deewaro'n per ishtehaaraat aur ghaer meyari kutub sey hasil kareingey jo taqreeban 100% ghalat aur gumrahkun hoti hain. Ek research kay mutabiq bachey taqreeban 50% jinsi ma'aloomat doston aur 21% kutub sey hasil kartey hain(Hyde). Budqismati sey bacho'n kay doston ki ma'aloomaat durust hoti hain na hi humarey haan iss mozou per meyaru kutub mojood hain.

Iss hawaley sey ek sawal yeh paeda hota hai kay bachon ko jinsi ta'aleem kab dii jaey. Iss silsiley mein Quran majeed sey rehnumaee milti hai. Who bachey jinki madri zuban urdu hai woh ju'nhi Quran Majeed parhna shuru kartey hain unn ki sex education bhi shuru ho jati hai. Amooman bachey 9 ya 10 saal ki umer mein Quran majeed parhna shuru kar detey hain. Mashhoor huftroza Time kay ek survey kay mutabiq awam ki aksaryat ka khayal hai kay jinsi ta'aleem 12 saal ki umer sey shuru ho jab kay walaedaen ka khayal hai kay bachon ki jinsi ta'aleem baloghat sey pehley shuru nahin honi chahiyie magar haqeeqat yeh hai kay bacha apni jinsi ta'aleem apney ibtedaee saalon mein shuru kar deta hai

Islami Jinsi Talim-Fitri Malumat-Ghusl-Farz

2009-09-19T09:43:00.001-07:00

MarhaMagar bacho'n ko yeh ma'aloomat marhala waar milni chahiyien maslan 10, 11 saal kay larkon ko ilm ho kay sotey mein inn kay penis sey ek khaas qism ka safaed liquid kharij ho sakta hai j okay bilkul fitri cheez hai na kay koi beamari. Iss tarah bachiyon ko to 10 saal ki umer mein yeh ilm ho jana chahiyie kay unn ki faraj sey khoon nikal sakta hai jo kay baloghat ki alamat hai na kay koi khatarnaak beemari.

Humarey haan yeh ajeeb baat hai kay log bachon ko jinsi ta'alem fraham karney ko bura samajhtey hain, hala'n kay yeh ta'aleem deegar ashkaal mein mufassal tor per school, college aur university ki satah per biology, physiology, anatomy, gynecology aur psychology kay mazameen kay students ko dii jati hai. Allah ta'ala ney Quran majeed aur Hazrat Muhammad ney ahadees mein tafseel kay sath yeh zaroori aur fitri ma'aloomaat fraham kii hain, yani yeh bari ajeeb baat hai kay jis baat ko Quran aur sahib-e-Quran bataein hum usey batatey huey sharmaein. Kya bachon ko paki, na paki kay baarey mein ma'aloomat nahin milni chahiyien, kya naujawano'n ko yeh ilm nahin hona chahiyie kay ehtilam aur mubaashirat kay ba'ad ghusal farz ho jata hai. Aisi soorat-e-haal mein ghusal kis tarah karna hai, kya inn ko yeh ilm nahin hona chahiyie kay qatro'n kay ikhraj sey ghusal farz nahin hota. Bohut sey naujawan namaz parhney mein iss liye bhi kotahi kartey hain kay woh inn qatro'n ko paleed samajhtey hain hala'n kay yeh qatrey napaak nahin hotey. Iss soorat mein sirf penis ko dho lena aur wuzu kar lena kafi hai. Kya naujawano'n ko yeh nahin ma'aloom hona chahiyie kay mani koi qeemti cheez nahin aur na hi peeshab pakahnaey ki tarah napaak hai. Khush mani ko ragerr kar saaf kya ja sakta hai. Isi tarah kya naujawano'n ko yeh ilm nahin hona chahiyie kay

Khushgawar Zindagi Kay Liye Jinsi Talim Ki Zaroorat

2009-09-19T09:42:00.002-07:00

Mardon ko, aurton ko, bachiyon ko, jawano'n ko, hutta kay boorhon ko bhi aam ta'aleem ki tarah jinsi ta'aleem ki zaroorat hai, khusoosan naey shadi shuda couples ko khushgawar azdwajii zindagi kay liye jjinsi ta'aleem ki sakht zaroorat hai. Magar yeh ta'aleem inn ko Quran aur jaded tehqeeq ki roshni mein sha'estigi kay sath milni chahiyie. Chu'n kay humarey haan iss tarah ka koi intezam nahin jis ka nateeja yeh hai kay naujawan nasal neem hakeemon, ataiyo'n, dewaro'n per ishtehaaraat aur ghaer meyari kutub sey jinsi ma'aloomat hasil karti hai jo kay aksar ghalat, gumraah kun aur tabah kun hoti hain. Inn ghalat ma'aloomaat ki wajah sey humarey mu'aashrey mein bohut sey jinsi masa'el paeda ho chukey hain j okay normal azdwajii zindagi mein bohut bari rukawat sabit ho rahey hain, jis ki wajah sey bohut si shadiya'n naakaam ho jati hain, shohar pagal ho jatey hain aur kuch bey charey khudkushi kar letey hain.

Jinsi ta'aleem na sirf azdwajii zindagi ko khushgawar banati hai bul kay iss ki madad sey jinsi jara'em maslan incest, zina biljabr aur doosrey jinsi gunaah masaln hamjinsiyat waghaera ko kam kiya ja sakta hai. Jinsi khwahish bohut taez aur mu'nh zor hoti hai jo fard ko jinsi gunah aur jara'em per majboor kar deti hai, iss kay elawa sex education ki madad sey ahem jinsi masa'el maslan sur'at-e-inzal aur mardana kamzori waghaera ka tadaruk bhi kya jasakta hai.

Maghrib mein jinsi ta'aleem, ta'aleemi idaro'n mein dii jati hai magar wahan ta'aleem amooman bacho'n ko zina per aamaada karti hai. Waisey mahireen ka khayal hai kay bacho'n ko jinsi ta'aleem deney kay liye walaedaen sab sey zyada mozoon hain na kay ta'aleemi idaarey. Baap betey ko aur maan beti ko yeh ta'aleem dey. Lehaza walaedaen ko iss hawaley sey zyada sey zyada ma'aloomaat hasil karni chahiyien ta'kay who aaney wali nasal ko yeh ilm muntaqil kar sakein.

Jinsi Zindagi Kay Liye Rehnuma Islami Talimat

2009-09-19T09:42:00.001-07:00

Jinsi Zindagi Kay Liye Rehnuma Islami Talimat

Guzishta dino'n mujhey ek khatoon ney phone kya aur bataya kay uski shaadi ko 8 saal ho chukey hain magar abhi tak unn kay azdwajii ta'alluqaat qa'em nahin huey. Biwi ney apney mian ko elaj kay liye bhijwaya Khuda kay fazal sey humarey elaj sey unki khushyan bahaal ho gaee'n.

Islam ek mukammal zabta-e-hayat hai jiss ney apney paero kaaro'n ko zindagi kay har shobey mein rehnumaee fraham ki hai. "Jinsi zindagi" insaani zindagi ka ahem tareen pehlu hai. Chunancha Allah ney Hazrat Adam kay sath Amma Hawwa ko paeda farmaya. Quran Majeed mein irshad hai kay, "uss ney tumharey liye tumhari hi jins sey biwiya'n bana'een ta'kay tum unn kay paas sukoon hasil karo" (Surah Rome Ayat 21) Isi liye Allah kay nabi ney farmaya kay nikah meri sunnat hai jiss ney iss per amal na kiya who hum mein sey nahin. Hazrat Muhammad ney ek aur jagah farmaya "Allah haq baat kehney sey nahin sharmata". Chunancha Quran mein jinsi zindagi kay ahem usolo'n maslan shaadi, mubaashirat, mubaashirat kay tareeqey, mani, rehem-e-madar, haez, hamal aur uss kay mukhtalif adwaar, bachey ki paeda'esh, zina aur hum jinsiyat waghaera ka zikr hai. Doosri taraf Allah kay nabi ney bhi bari tafseel kay sath jinsi zindagi kay mukhtalif pelu per roshni daali hai. Bud qismati sey hum mein sey aksar log iss sey aagaah nahin. Khushgawar azdwajii zindagi kay liye ilm ki zaroorat hai. Kisi ney khoob kaha hai kay 'Knowledge is power and sexual knowledge is super power' chunancha merey khayal mein Pakistan mein har fard ko jinsi ta'aleem ki zaroorat hai.

Sex Lecture-Masail Ka Hal-Research Ki Zaroorat

2009-09-19T09:39:00.000-07:00

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Chund saal pehley ek ma'aroof idaarey ney mujhey "Naujawano'n Kay Masa'el" per lecture ki da'awat dii. Ghaliban Pakistan bhar mein iss tarah khuley aam jins (sex) jaisey nazuk mozou per guftugoo ka yeh pehla moqa tha. Naujawan shurka'a ney iss lecture mein bohut zyada dilchaspi lii chunancha kuch arsey ba'ad isi idaarey ney mujhey phir isi mozou per izhar-e-khayal ki da'awat dii. Iss martaba taqreeban 19 jinsi mughalito'n ki haqeeqat beyan ki gaee jinhon ney naujawano'n ki zindagi ko tabah kar rakha tha. Naujawan shurka'a ka khayal tha kay inn ma'aloomaat ney unn ki zindagi mein aasani paeda ki aur masa'el kay bojh ko kam kya. Lehaza yeh ma'aloomaat Pakistankay har naujawan tak pohonchni chahiyien.

Iss guftugoo kay ba'ad mehsoos hua kay iss mozou per mazeed muta'alla aur research ki zaroorat hai. Humarey haan iss mozou per meyari kutub na honay kay baraber hain. Chunancha America aurEurope mein apney doston ko likha, iss tarah meyari aur taza kutub hasil kiin aur unn sey faeda uthaya. Iss kay elawa Karachi kay ma'aroof psychiatrist, sabiq member subaee assembly aur rukun jama'at-e-islami Dr. Syed Mobeen Akhter ki tehreeron sey bhi merey ilm mein izafa hua. Pakistanmein dastyab aksar kutub jahalat aur bey ilmi ka shahkaar hain. Sex kay hawaley sey jitney yeh neem hakeem jaahil hain, shayad hi koi doosra ho. Teen saal kay muta'alley aur tehqeeq ka nichorr humney ek seminar ki surat mein Lahore mein Mall Road per Alhamra Hall mein free paesh karna shuru kya. Logon ki dilchaspi ka yeh aalam tha kay hall mein til dharney ki jagah nah hoti thi. Taqreeban 99% logon ney isey bey hudd pasand kya. Inn kay khayal mein yeh ek mufeed koshish hai jab kay 1% ney kaha kay hum fahaashi phela rahey hain. Humarey kuch khaer khwaho'n (well wishers) ney humein mashwara diya kay hum zara ehtiyat karein aur hakeemo'n ka zikr na karein warna who aap ko qatal kara deingey kyun kay aap unn kay rizq per laat maar rahey hain.

Iss doran humney sex kay hawaley sey chund ahem issues per Lahore kay ma'aroof ulma'a ki khidmat mein ek sawal naama irsaal kya. Aksar ulma-e-karaam ney shayad masa'el ko ghaer ahem samajhtey huey jawab nah diya ya shayad who iss mozou per apni ra'ey detey huey ghabratey hain lekin aap ittefaq karein gey kay aankhein bandh karney sey masa'el khatam nahin hongey. Unn ka saamna karna aur unn ka hull dhoondhna zaroori hai.

Sex Seminars Ka Silsila

Albatta ma'aroof aalim-e-deen janab Javed Ghamidi ney sab sey pehley bilmushafa mulaqaat ki da'awat dii aur ek ghantey sey za'ed guftugoo ka silsila jari raha. Iss kay elawa ahl-e-hadees maktaba-e-fikr kay risala "Al Aetisaam" ki taraf sey mufassir-e-Quran janab Hafiz Salahuddin Yousuf Sahab ney jawab diya. Iss tarah "Muhaddis" risala kay mudeer janab AbdurRehman Madni sahib ney mulaqaat ka moqa diya aur kaee ghantey guftugoo jari rahi. Inn ulma ka khayal tha kay seminar ka silsila chalta rehna chahiyie taa kay logon ko durust ma'aloomaat milein. Janab Ghamidi sahib ney mazeed irshad farmaya kay khawateen bhi isi tarah kay masa'el ka shikar hain jis ki wajah sey khandaan bikher rahey hain. Inn kay liye bhi isi tarah kay seminar ka silsila shuru kya jaey.

Alhamra Hall ka seminar kamyaabi sey rawa'n dawa'an tha kay intezamia ko mehsoos hua kay yeh seminar fahaashi aur aur bey hayaee hai Alhamra mein iss ka iniqaad acha nahin lagta, haala'n kay wahan dramo'n ki surat mein bey hayaee ka ek sey barh kar ek program hota hai jis kay khilaf akhbaro'n mein bhi aawaz uthti rehti hai chunancha humein wahan iss free seminar ki ijazat deney sey inkaar kar diya gaya. Humney ajaeb ghar kay hall mein yeh seminar muna'aqqid karney ki koshish kii, humein bataya gaya kay woh iss tarah kay program ki iss hall mein ijazat nahin dey saktey, chunancha awami satah per yeh silsila munqata'a karna para. Ba'ad aza'n "Sunfort Hotel" Liberty Gulberg mein seminar ka yeh silsila shuru kya gaya. Wahan hum 4 seminar/workshop muna'aqqid kartey hain.

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Jab sey humney seminar ka silsila shuru kya tha iss waqt sey shurka'a ki ra'ey thi kay mulk bhar sey log seminar kay liye Lahore nahin aa saktey chunancha iss seminar ko kitabi shakal mein paesh kya jaey. Lehaza yeh kitab dar asal who seminar hai jo hum Alhamra aur Sunfort mein kartey thay. Ta'hum iss kitab mein bohut sey aisey mozou'aat (maslan khawateen kay masa'el) shamil kye gaey hain jin ka seminar mein tazkara na hota tha. Hum samajhtey hain kay yeh kitab nah sirf naujawan bachey, bachiyon bul kay waledaen aur asaatza kay liye bhi bey hudd mufeed hai jinhein yeh ilm naee nasal ko muntaqil karna hai. Koshish ki jaey kay bachey iss kitab ko parh kar sahi ilm hasil karein. Iss ka ek tareeqa to yeh hai kay bachon ko yeh kitab parhney kay liye de di jaey, doosra tareeqa yeh hai kay kitab ghar mein aisi jagah rakh di jaey jahan sey bachey khud utha kar parh lein. Kitab kay hawaley sey apni ra'ey dena na bhoolein ta'kay aap ki ra'ey aur tajaweez ki roshni mein aaenda edition ko behter banaya ja sakey. Kitab mein jin cases aur misalo'n ka hawala diya gaya hai inn mein istemaal honay waley tamam naam farzi hain. Shukriya

Sex Education-Azdawaji Zindagi

Aala ta'aleem kay ba'ad America sey wapsi per meine Bahawalpur division kay ek chotey sey sheher Chishtiya'n main apna anfsiyati clinic shuru kya. Mera pehla mareez ek ma'amooli parha likha dehaati naujawan tha jis ki inhi dino'n shadi hui thi magar yeh naujawan kaee maah guzarney kay bawajood apni biei sey azdwajii ta'alluqaat qa'em karney mein kaamyaab na hosaka. Doctors kay mutabiq woh bilkul normal tha yani usey koi jismani masala nahi tha. Pehli mulaqat mein uss kay masley per amoomi guftugoo hui phir usey elaj kay liye chund din ba'ad bulaya magar who na aaya, mein bhi uss naujawan ko bhool gaya. Ek maah ba'ad achanak uss kay barey bhaee sey mulaqat hui, meine uss naujawan kay muta'alliq poocha, uski aankh sey aansoo nikal aaey uss ney aansoo ponchtey huey bataya kay uss ney khudkushi karli.

Dar asal woh abhi tak azdwajii ta'alluqaat qa'em na kar paya tha, uss ko yaqeen tha kay who iss qaabil nahin haala'n kay uss kay saarey tests normal thay, phir sharmindagi sey bachney kay liye ek andheri raat biwi ko ley kar ga'on sey baher aaya pehley biwi ko ek darakht kay sath latka diya phir khud bhi ussi darakht kay sath jhool gaya. Haqeeqat yeh thi kay usey koi jinsi masala nahin tha, uska masala sirf nafsiyati tha. Uss ney humein mohlat na dii kay hum uski madad kartey haala'n kay aaj kay ilmi daur mein iss tarah kay masley ko aasaani sey hull kya ja sakta hai. Hum iss tarah kay masa'el har roz hull kartey hain.